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אַהֲבַת עוֹלָם

Ahavat Olam (evening)

The second blessing before Shema at night: God's love, and the Torah He taught.

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At a glance

When
Every evening, right before the Shema
Length
47 words, a third of the morning version
Surprise
Abudarham traced nearly every phrase to a verse
Night opening
Ashkenaz and Sefard open it the same way

The words

Hebrew, then English. Open "What it means" under any line for the explanation.

  1. The second blessing before the Shema, at night:

    אַהֲבַת עוֹלָם בֵּית יִשְׂרָאֵל עַמְּךָ אָהָבְתָּ

    With everlasting love the house of Israel, Your people You have loved

    What it means

    With everlasting love You have loved the house of Israel, Your people.

    The opening words come from a verse in Yirmeyahu (Jeremiah), where God tells Israel, "I have loved you with an everlasting love." In the Gemara, the sages who favored the wording "Ahavat Olam" cited that verse as their proof. Abudarham (Spain, 1300s, author of a classic commentary on the prayers) also traces this line to it.

    Berakhot 11b; Abudarham, Weekday Prayers, Evening Service
  2. תּוֹרָה וּמִצְוֹת חֻקִּים וּמִשְׁפָּטִים אוֹתָנוּ לִמַּדְתָּ.

    Torah and commandments decrees and judgments You taught us

    What it means

    You taught us Torah and commandments, decrees and judgments.

    The Gemara sorts these two words. Mishpatim are laws we would need even if the Torah never wrote them, like the bans on murder and theft. Chukim, like not eating pork, are laws the Satan argues against and you might call pointless. The Gemara reads the verse's "I am Hashem" as "I decreed them, and you have no right to second-guess them."

    Yoma 67b
  3. עַל כֵּן יְיָ אֱלֹהֵינוּ בְּשָׁכְבֵנוּ וּבְקוּמֵנוּ נָשִׂיחַ בְּחֻקֶּיךָ וְנִשְׂמַח בְּדִבְרֵי תַלמוּד תּוֹרָתֶךָ וּבְמִצְוֹתֶיךָ לְעוֹלָם וָעֶד.

    So Hashem, our God when we lie down and when we get up we will talk about Your laws and be glad in the words of studying Your Torah and in Your commandments forever and ever

    What it means

    "When we lie down and when we get up" comes from the Shema paragraph you say next (Devarim 6:7). Abudarham (Spain, 1300s) traces "talk about Your laws" to Tehillim 119:23 and the gladness to Tehillim 19:9.

    Abudarham, Weekday Prayers, Evening Service
  4. כִּי הֵם חַיֵּינוּ וְאֹרֶךְ יָמֵינוּ וּבָהֶם נֶהְגֶּה יוֹמָם וָלָיְלָה.

    For they are our life and the length of our days and we will think about them by day and by night

  5. וְאַהֲבָתְךָ אַל תָּסִיר מִמֶּנּוּ לְעוֹלָמִים.

    And Your love do not take away from us ever

    What it means

    Do not ever take Your love away from us.

    Abudarham traces "Your love" to Malachi 1:2, "I have loved you, says Hashem," and "forever" to the verse the blessing opened with. The word here, olamim, is the plural of the olam in the first line.

    Abudarham, Weekday Prayers, Evening Service
  6. בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְיָ אוֹהֵב עַמּוֹ יִשְׂרָאֵל.

    Blessed are You, Hashem who loves His people Israel

    What it means

    In the morning this blessing ends "who chooses His people Israel with love." At night it ends "who loves His people Israel," the wording in your siddur.

    Tur, Orach Chaim 60; Siddur Sefard, Weekday Maariv

How to say it

Praying alone, say El Melech Ne'eman (God, faithful King) after this blessing, before the Shema. The Rema (Rabbi Moshe Isserles, voice of Ashkenazi practice in the Shulchan Aruch) reports the custom: it brings the Shema to 248 words and replaces your Amen. With a minyan, say Amen instead.

Shulchan Aruch with the Rema, Orach Chaim 61:3; Siddur Sefard, Weekday Maariv

The story

Almost every phrase is a quote

Abudarham (a commentary on the prayers, Spain, about 1340) goes through this blessing phrase by phrase and names the verse behind almost every one. "When we lie down and when we get up" is Devarim 6:7. "We will talk about Your laws" is Tehillim 119:23. "We will think about them by day and by night" is Yehoshua 1:8. The blessing is a chain of verses, stitched into one thank-you.

Abudarham, Weekday Prayers, Evening Service

"Therefore": the blessing is an argument

Notice the two small words "al ken," therefore. The blessing says: You loved us and taught us Torah, therefore we will talk about it and be glad in it. The Mishnah Berurah (a central commentary on daily Jewish law, written around 1900) reads the first lines as a chain: because God loves us forever, He gave us the Torah so that by its light we would live. That is why the next words say, "for they are our life."

Mishnah Berurah, Introduction

Was night made for sleep, or for study?

Two sages in the Gemara sound like they disagree (Eruvin 65a). Rav Yehuda: night was made only for sleep. Reish Lakish (Rabbi Shimon ben Lakish): the moon was made only for study. Tosafot (medieval commentators on the Gemara) say the sleep line is about the short nights of summer. In Avodah Zarah 3b, Reish Lakish adds that whoever learns Torah at night has a thread of God's kindness drawn over him the next day. The Rambam (Maimonides, 1100s) writes that most of a person's wisdom is gained at night.

Eruvin 65a; Tosafot on Eruvin 65a; Avodah Zarah 3b; Rambam, Laws of Torah Study 3:13

At night, the old argument goes quiet

In the morning, communities differ on how this blessing opens (the morning Ahavat Olam prayer tells the story). At night, the codes agree. The Tur (a law code from the 1300s) says the Geonim (heads of the Babylonian academies) split it: Ahavah Rabbah by day, Ahavat Olam at night. Rabbi Yosef Karo, author of the Shulchan Aruch (the main code of Jewish law), notes in his Beit Yosef that the Rambam has Ahavat Olam at both times, and so do the Jews of Spain. Nusach Sefard says it in the morning too.

Tur, Orach Chaim 60; Beit Yosef, Orach Chaim 60; Rambam, Laws of Reading the Shema 1:6

The word for Yitzchak at dusk

"We will talk" is nasiach, from the word sicha. In Bereishit 24:63, Yitzchak goes out "lasuach" in the field "toward evening." Rashi says that word means prayer, and compares it to "sicho" (his plea) in Tehillim 102:1. The Gemara (Berakhot 26b) says this verse is where Yitzchak's afternoon prayer, Mincha, comes from.

Bereishit 24:63; Rashi on Bereishit 24:63; Berakhot 26b

Four terms from a king's courtroom

"Torah, commandments, decrees and judgments" is a list that also appears in Divrei HaYamim (Chronicles) II 19:10. King Yehoshafat of Judah appoints judges and tells them how to handle disputes, including cases about "Torah, commandment, decrees and judgments." Abudarham ties the blessing's words to other verses (Devarim 6:1 and 33:4), so we cannot say the writers had this verse in mind. It is the same four terms, in the same order.

Divrei HaYamim II 19:10; Abudarham, Weekday Prayers, Evening Service

Hard questions

The prayer says Torah is "our life." Isn't that a big exaggeration?

The line is "For they are our life and the length of our days." It borrows from Devarim 30:20, where Moshe says, "For it is your life and the length of your days." In the verse, the words just before are about loving Hashem and holding on to Him. The Gemara, in Berakhot 61b, applies the line to Torah.

That page of Gemara has a story. The government had banned teaching Torah. Papus ben Yehudah found Rabbi Akiva (one of the great sages of about 1,900 years ago) teaching crowds in public and asked, "Aren't you afraid of the government?" Akiva answered with a parable.

A fox was walking by a river and saw fish darting from place to place. "What are you running from?" "Nets that people bring." The fox said, "Come up on dry land and live with me, as my ancestors lived with yours." The fish said, "Are you the one they call the cleverest animal? If we are afraid here, where we live, how much worse on dry land, where we would die."

Akiva's point: for us, Torah is the water. Even now, learning it is risky. But it is written of Torah, "it is your life and the length of your days." Give it up, and it would be far worse.

The story does not end well. Akiva was arrested soon after. The same page of Gemara tells how he was later put to death, saying the Shema with his last breath.

In this story, "our life" is a claim about need, not about fun. The next words of the blessing, "we will think about them by day and by night," are tied by Abudarham to Yehoshua 1:8, where Yehoshua is told to keep this book of Torah on his lips and speak it day and night. The sources tell you what the line claims. They do not say you will feel it. That part is yours to answer.

Devarim 30:20,Berakhot 61b,Yehoshua 1:8

What if a mitzvah makes no sense to me? Do I just have to do it anyway?

The blessing says God taught us four things: Torah, mitzvot, chukim and mishpatim. The last two are not the same. Mishpatim are laws that make sense on their face. Chukim are laws with no obvious reason.

The Gemara (Yoma 67b) gives examples. Mishpatim are laws that would have been written even if the Torah never said them, such as the bans on murder and theft. Chukim are the ones the Satan, the accuser, argues against: not eating pork, not wearing wool mixed with linen, and the goat sent away on Yom Kippur. Rashi (the classic commentator on the Torah) says that for these laws, the part of you that resists asks, "Why do we need to keep this?"

The Gemara's answer is blunt. The verse ends with "I am Hashem," and the Gemara reads that as: I engraved these, and you have no permission to second-guess them.

The Rambam quotes that same line. In the same passage he also says a person should study the Torah's laws and understand their purpose as far as he can. A law with no reason he can find should not be taken lightly. The Torah says to guard the chukim, not only to do them, and the Rambam explains guarding as not thinking of them as less than the mishpatim.

The blessing keeps the word. It says "we will talk about Your laws," using the word chukim. Abudarham ties that to Tehillim 119:23: "Even princes sit and speak against me; Your servant talks about Your laws." In that verse, the speaker keeps going while powerful people talk against him.

In the Rambam's reading, the two instructions go together: study as far as you can, and do not treat what you cannot explain as worthless.

Yoma 67b,Rashi on Vayikra 18:4,Rambam, Laws of Me'ilah 8:8,Tehillim 119:23

The blessing says God loves Israel. Does that mean God loves everyone else less?

It is a fair question, and the sources do not skip it. The blessing says God loved "the house of Israel, Your people," and ends by calling God the One "who loves His people Israel."

Start with a teaching in Pirkei Avot (a Mishnah collection of the sages' sayings), from Rabbi Akiva. It begins with every person: "Beloved is man, for he was created in God's image." Only then does it turn to Israel: beloved for being called God's children, and beloved for being given the Torah, the tool the world was created with.

Each step has the same second half: they are told. For example, "Especially beloved are they, because it was made known to them that they are called God's children." Bartenura (Rabbi Ovadiah of Bartenura, Italy, about 1500) quotes the Rambam's explanation. Someone who does you a good turn and also tells you about it shows more love than someone who does it quietly. On that reading, the extra love is being told.

Other sources point the same way. Every day in Ashrei we say, "Hashem is good to all, and His mercies are on all His works" (Tehillim 145:9). The book of Yonah ends with God asking whether He should not pity Nineveh, a huge foreign city with more than 120,000 people "who cannot tell their right hand from their left," and many animals.

So what is the blessing claiming? That God's love for Israel took a particular form: teaching them Torah. These sources do not say that this leaves anyone else unloved. The Mishnah puts the love for every person first and Israel's after it.

These sources describe the layers. They do not claim to answer every follow-up, and the question is worth bringing to a teacher.

Pirkei Avot 3:14,Bartenura on Pirkei Avot 3:14,Tehillim 145:9,Yonah 4:11

Sparks

Short ideas from the Chassidic masters, the Kabbalah and the Mussar teachers.

Zohar

Someone is listening when you learn at night

The Zohar (the central book of Kabbalah) says God takes joy only in a person who works at Torah. All the more, it says, in a person who wakes at night to learn, because all the righteous in Gan Eden (the Garden of Eden) listen to his voice, and God is found among them. It quotes Shir HaShirim (the Song of Songs): "You who sit in the gardens, friends are listening to your voice. Let me hear it." Now read "when we lie down and when we get up" again.

דלית חדו לקב"ה אלא מאן דאשתדל באורייתא, כ"ש ב"נ דמתער בליליא לאשתדלא באורייתא, דהא כל צדיקייא דבגנתא דעדן, צייתין לקליה

Zohar, Parashat Pinchas
Maharal

Why night is the time for Torah

The Gemara says that whoever learns Torah at night, God draws a "thread of kindness" over him during the day. The Maharal (Rabbi Yehudah Loew of Prague, who died in 1609) explains why night. The world is mainly run by day, in the light. At night, in the dark, all of that stops, so night is the right time for Torah. And Torah is kindness at its core: "the Torah of kindness is on her tongue." Day, which is all light, is the right time for kindness to show. Now read "day and night" again.

הלילה שהוא חושך, הכל בטל, ולכך ראוי הלילה לתורה

Maharal, Netivot Olam, Netiv HaTorah, chapter 4
Rav Uziel

Why be Jewish? One word.

Rabbi Ben-Zion Meir Hai Uziel (a Sephardic Chief Rabbi of the Land of Israel, who died in 1953) writes that people ask "Why are we Jews?" and look for answers from outside, and even the people giving the answers are not convinced. It is as hard to answer as "Why do I live?" But the believer has one word, he says: love. Loving God means loving His Torah and His people, every man and woman, even every boy and girl. Now read "You have loved the house of Israel" again.

אבל המאמין משיב מלה אחת והיא: האהבה

Rav Uziel, Hegyonei Uziel, Gate VIII, section 1
Chassidut

Love is a gift, so we ask for it

In a teaching about Aharon (Moshe's brother, the first Kohen), the Sefat Emet (Rabbi Yehudah Aryeh Leib Alter of Ger, a Chassidic leader in Poland who died in 1905) lists what effort can win: wisdom, strength over your impulses, and giving all you have. But clinging to God in love is not on that list. It is a gift from God, as the verse says, "I will love them freely." That, he says, is why we ask: "Do not take Your love away from us."

וע"ז מבקשין ואהבתך אל תסיר ממנו כו'. שא"י לבוא לזה רק בכח המתנה

Sefat Emet, Parashat Korach, 5646 (1886)

Halacha

The practical laws. For a final ruling, ask your rav.

I got to shul late and the minyan is starting the Amidah. Do I say this first?

At night, no. The Shulchan Aruch (the main code of Jewish law) rules that you pray the Amidah with them, then say Shema with its blessings. The Mishnah Berurah (a central commentary on daily Jewish law, written around 1900) says praying with a minyan comes first, unless you expect to catch another minyan later. In the morning it is the opposite. The Kaf HaChaim (a Sephardic law commentary) says that by the teaching of the Arizal (the Tzfat kabbalist, 1500s), Shema comes first even at night.

Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 236:3 and 111:3; Mishnah Berurah 236:12; Kaf HaChaim, Orach Chaim 111:12

Why doesn't it start with "Blessed are You"? Is it still a blessing?

Yes. The Shulchan Aruch says it does not open with "Baruch" because it comes right after the blessing before it. For the evening, the Tur (a law code from the 1300s) says the same. The Magen Avraham (a 1600s commentary on the Shulchan Aruch) adds that this holds even if you say it on its own or out of order, since it was set up to follow another blessing. It still ends with "Blessed are You, Hashem."

Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 60:1 and 60:3; Tur, Orach Chaim 236; Magen Avraham 60:2

It's night. Do I still need to be wearing tzitzit?

Night is not the time of tzitzit, the Shulchan Aruch rules, from the words "and you shall see it" (Bamidbar 15:39). The Rambam (Maimonides, 1100s) and the Rosh (Rabbeinu Asher, a medieval law authority) disagree on whether this goes by when you wear a garment or by what kind of garment it is. Because of that doubt, the Mishnah Berurah says it is still forbidden to wear a daytime garment with four corners at night without tzitzit. The Rema adds: no blessing on a tallit put on after Maariv, even if it is still day.

Shulchan Aruch and Rema, Orach Chaim 18:1; Mishnah Berurah 18:2

The blessing says "day and night." Do I have to learn Torah at night too?

The Shulchan Aruch says every Jewish man must set a time for Torah by day and by night, from Yehoshua 1:8, which has the same words "day and night." A note there adds that under pressure, even Shema morning and evening counts. That comes from the Gemara (Menachot 99b): Rabbi Ami says one chapter in the morning and one at night keeps that verse, and Rabbi Yochanan, quoting Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai, says even Shema does.

Shulchan Aruch, Yoreh De'ah 246:1; Menachot 99b

Sources

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  • Machzor Vitry, Order of Maariv 101

    אהבת עולם בית ישראל עמך אהבת תורה ומצות חקים ומשפטים אותנו לימדת... ואהבתך אל תסיר ממנו לעולמים

    You have loved the house of Israel, Your people. You taught us Torah and commandments, decrees and judgments... Do not ever take Your love away from us.

  • Tur, Orach Chaim 60

    והגאונים הכריעו לומר שחרית אהבה רבה וערבית אהבת עולם לצאת ידי שניהם

    The Geonim settled it: say Ahavah Rabbah in the morning and Ahavat Olam in the evening, so as to satisfy both opinions.

  • Abudarham, Weekday Prayers, Evening Service

    אהבת עולם בית ישראל עמך אהבת על שם ואהבת עולם אהבתיך... נשיח בחקיך על שם עבדך ישיח בחקיך

    "Ahavat olam beit Yisrael amcha ahavta": based on "I have loved you with an everlasting love." ... "Nasiach bechukecha": based on "Your servant talks about Your laws."

  • Divrei HaYamim II 19:10

    בין תורה למצוה לחקים ולמשפטים

    ...between Torah and commandment, decrees and judgments...

  • Yoma 67b

    את משפטי תעשו דברים שאלמלא נכתבו דין הוא שיכתבו... את חוקותי תשמרו דברים שהשטן משיב עליהן... חקקתיו ואין לך רשות להרהר בהן

    "You shall do My judgments": things that would have been written even if the Torah had not said them. "You shall keep My decrees": things the Satan argues against... I engraved them, and you have no permission to second-guess them.

  • Rambam, Laws of Me'ilah 8:8

    ראוי לאדם להתבונן במשפטי התורה הקדושה ולידע סוף ענינם כפי כחו ודבר שלא ימצא לו טעם ולא ידע לו עילה אל יהי קל בעיניו

    A person should study the laws of the holy Torah and understand their purpose as far as he can. If he cannot find a reason for something, he should not treat it lightly.

  • Berakhot 61b

    ומה במקום חיותנו אנו מתיראין במקום מיתתנו על אחת כמה וכמה. אף אנחנו עכשיו שאנו יושבים ועוסקים בתורה שכתוב בה כי הוא חייך וארך ימיך

    If we are afraid in the place where we live, how much more in the place where we would die. So too with us, now, when we sit and learn Torah, about which it is written, "for it is your life and the length of your days."

  • Eruvin 65a

    אמר רב יהודה לא איברי ליליא אלא לשינתא אמר רבי שמעון בן לקיש לא איברי סיהרא אלא לגירסא

    Rav Yehuda said: night was created only for sleep. Rabbi Shimon ben Lakish said: the moon was created only for study.

  • Avodah Zarah 3b

    אמר ריש לקיש כל העוסק בתורה בלילה הקדוש ברוך הוא מושך עליו חוט של חסד ביום

    Reish Lakish said: whoever learns Torah at night, the Holy One draws a thread of kindness over him by day.

  • Pirkei Avot 3:14

    חביב אדם שנברא בצלם. חבה יתירה נודעת לו... חבה יתירה נודעת להם שניתן להם כלי חמדה שבו נברא העולם

    Beloved is man, created in the image of God. Especially beloved, because it was made known to him... Especially beloved are Israel, because they were given the precious tool by which the world was created.

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