The prayer says Torah is "our life." Isn't that a big exaggeration?
The line is "For they are our life and the length of our days." It borrows from Devarim 30:20, where Moshe says, "For it is your life and the length of your days." In the verse, the words just before are about loving Hashem and holding on to Him. The Gemara, in Berakhot 61b, applies the line to Torah.
That page of Gemara has a story. The government had banned teaching Torah. Papus ben Yehudah found Rabbi Akiva (one of the great sages of about 1,900 years ago) teaching crowds in public and asked, "Aren't you afraid of the government?" Akiva answered with a parable.
A fox was walking by a river and saw fish darting from place to place. "What are you running from?" "Nets that people bring." The fox said, "Come up on dry land and live with me, as my ancestors lived with yours." The fish said, "Are you the one they call the cleverest animal? If we are afraid here, where we live, how much worse on dry land, where we would die."
Akiva's point: for us, Torah is the water. Even now, learning it is risky. But it is written of Torah, "it is your life and the length of your days." Give it up, and it would be far worse.
The story does not end well. Akiva was arrested soon after. The same page of Gemara tells how he was later put to death, saying the Shema with his last breath.
In this story, "our life" is a claim about need, not about fun. The next words of the blessing, "we will think about them by day and by night," are tied by Abudarham to Yehoshua 1:8, where Yehoshua is told to keep this book of Torah on his lips and speak it day and night. The sources tell you what the line claims. They do not say you will feel it. That part is yours to answer.
Devarim 30:20,Berakhot 61b,Yehoshua 1:8What if a mitzvah makes no sense to me? Do I just have to do it anyway?
The blessing says God taught us four things: Torah, mitzvot, chukim and mishpatim. The last two are not the same. Mishpatim are laws that make sense on their face. Chukim are laws with no obvious reason.
The Gemara (Yoma 67b) gives examples. Mishpatim are laws that would have been written even if the Torah never said them, such as the bans on murder and theft. Chukim are the ones the Satan, the accuser, argues against: not eating pork, not wearing wool mixed with linen, and the goat sent away on Yom Kippur. Rashi (the classic commentator on the Torah) says that for these laws, the part of you that resists asks, "Why do we need to keep this?"
The Gemara's answer is blunt. The verse ends with "I am Hashem," and the Gemara reads that as: I engraved these, and you have no permission to second-guess them.
The Rambam quotes that same line. In the same passage he also says a person should study the Torah's laws and understand their purpose as far as he can. A law with no reason he can find should not be taken lightly. The Torah says to guard the chukim, not only to do them, and the Rambam explains guarding as not thinking of them as less than the mishpatim.
The blessing keeps the word. It says "we will talk about Your laws," using the word chukim. Abudarham ties that to Tehillim 119:23: "Even princes sit and speak against me; Your servant talks about Your laws." In that verse, the speaker keeps going while powerful people talk against him.
In the Rambam's reading, the two instructions go together: study as far as you can, and do not treat what you cannot explain as worthless.
Yoma 67b,Rashi on Vayikra 18:4,Rambam, Laws of Me'ilah 8:8,Tehillim 119:23The blessing says God loves Israel. Does that mean God loves everyone else less?
It is a fair question, and the sources do not skip it. The blessing says God loved "the house of Israel, Your people," and ends by calling God the One "who loves His people Israel."
Start with a teaching in Pirkei Avot (a Mishnah collection of the sages' sayings), from Rabbi Akiva. It begins with every person: "Beloved is man, for he was created in God's image." Only then does it turn to Israel: beloved for being called God's children, and beloved for being given the Torah, the tool the world was created with.
Each step has the same second half: they are told. For example, "Especially beloved are they, because it was made known to them that they are called God's children." Bartenura (Rabbi Ovadiah of Bartenura, Italy, about 1500) quotes the Rambam's explanation. Someone who does you a good turn and also tells you about it shows more love than someone who does it quietly. On that reading, the extra love is being told.
Other sources point the same way. Every day in Ashrei we say, "Hashem is good to all, and His mercies are on all His works" (Tehillim 145:9). The book of Yonah ends with God asking whether He should not pity Nineveh, a huge foreign city with more than 120,000 people "who cannot tell their right hand from their left," and many animals.
So what is the blessing claiming? That God's love for Israel took a particular form: teaching them Torah. These sources do not say that this leaves anyone else unloved. The Mishnah puts the love for every person first and Israel's after it.
These sources describe the layers. They do not claim to answer every follow-up, and the question is worth bringing to a teacher.
Pirkei Avot 3:14,Bartenura on Pirkei Avot 3:14,Tehillim 145:9,Yonah 4:11