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קַבָּלַת תְּפִלָּה

Shema Koleinu: hear our voice

The sixteenth blessing of the Amidah: asking God to hear us.

Also said at Mincha and Arvit.

Draft. This siddur is waiting for a rav's review. For a halachic question, ask your rav.

At a glance

Where it sits
The last of the 13 middle blessings
Its special job
Where your own requests go
Ruled in
The Gemara, Avodah Zarah 7b to 8a
Wording debate
A 1300s scholar preferred the humbler version

The words

Hebrew, then English. Open "What it means" under any line for the explanation.

  1. קבלת תפלה

    Title: Acceptance of prayer

    What it means

    Acceptance of prayer. (The title of this blessing.)

  2. אָב הָרַחֲמָן שְׁמַע קוֹלֵנוּ יְיָ אֱלֹהֵינוּ חוּס וְרַחֵם עָלֵינוּ וְקַבֵּל בְּרַחֲמִים וּבְרָצוֹן אֶת תְּפִלָּתֵנוּ,

    Merciful Father, hear our voice, Hashem our God, have pity and compassion on us, and accept with compassion and with favor our prayer

    What it means

    Merciful Father, hear our voice, Hashem our God. Have pity and compassion on us, and accept our prayer with compassion and with favor.

    Abudarham (a Spanish commentator on the prayers, about 1340) ties the phrases of this blessing to verses. "Hear our voice" echoes Devarim 26:7, where Israel cries out in Egypt and "Hashem heard our voice." "With compassion" echoes Daniel 9:18: "Not because of our merit do we plead, but because of Your great compassion."

    Abudarham, Weekday Prayers, Amidah; Devarim 26:7; Daniel 9:18
  3. כִּי אֵל שׁוֹמֵעַ תְּפִלּוֹת וְתַחֲנוּנִים אָתָּה וּמִלְּפָנֶיךָ מַלְכֵּנוּ רֵיקָם אַל תְּשִׁיבֵנוּ,

    for You are a God who hears prayers and pleas, and from Your presence, our King, do not send us back empty-handed

    What it means

    For You are a God who hears prayers and pleas. From Your presence, our King, do not send us back empty-handed.

    Abudarham links "do not send us back empty" to Tehillim 74:21: "Let not the downtrodden turn away disappointed." He reads it this way: if we have not earned much, do not send us back with nothing at all. Give us at least part of what we asked for.

    Abudarham, Weekday Prayers, Amidah; Tehillim 74:21
  4. חָנֵּנוּ וַעֲנֵנוּ וּשְׁמַע תְּפִלָתֵנוּ

    be gracious to us and answer us, and hear our prayer

    What it means

    Be gracious to us, answer us, and hear our prayer.

  5. To ask for a good living or anything else you need, add it here (the siddur prints a prayer for a living), then continue:

    כִּי אַתָּה שׁוֹמֵעַ תְּפִלַּת כָּל פֶּה עַמְּךָ יִשְׂרָאֵל בְּרַחֲמִים.

    for You hear the prayer of every mouth of Your people Israel, with compassion

    What it means

    Abudarham says this ending is built on Tehillim 65:3: "You who hear prayer, all flesh comes to You." The verse says all flesh. The blessing says every mouth.

    Abudarham, Weekday Prayers, Amidah; Tehillim 65:3
  6. בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְיָ שׁוֹמֵעַ תְּפִלָּה.

    Blessed are You, Hashem, who hears prayer

    What it means

    The Gemara (the rabbis' discussions built on the Mishnah) records a debate. Rabbi Eliezer: ask for your needs first, then pray. Rabbi Yehoshua: pray first, then ask. The Sages: neither. Ask for your needs in this blessing. The Tur (a code of Jewish law from the 1300s) adds that this blessing includes every kind of request.

    Avodah Zarah 7b-8a; Tur, Orach Chaim 119

How to say it

The star marks the spot, just before "For You hear." The Shulchan Aruch (the main code of Jewish law) says this blessing includes every kind of request. The Rema (a 1500s Polish rabbi who added notes to it) cites Rabbeinu Yonah (Spain, 1200s): here you may ask in the singular or the plural.

Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 119:1, with the Rema

The story

A whole Amidah in one line

The Mishnah (the earliest written record of the Oral Law) says a person walking through a dangerous place prays a short prayer instead of the full Amidah. Rabbi Yehoshua's version begins: "Save Your people, the remnant of Israel." The Gemara adds more versions. One says: "Your people's needs are many and their minds are limited. Give each person enough to live on." Every version ends with the words this blessing ends with: "Blessed are You, Hashem, who hears prayer."

Mishnah Berakhot 4:4; Berakhot 29b

Rejected on everything but this

Nachum the Mede was a great sage, but Rav Acha bar Minyumi complained to Abaye (a teacher in the Gemara) that every ruling of his was met with "better if that were lost and never said." Abaye pointed to one ruling of his that people do follow: a person asks for personal needs in Shome'a Tefillah. Rav Acha answered that this one does not count, because it rests on an old argument between much bigger sages. The Rabbis settled that argument the same way, and the Gemara says that is the law.

Avodah Zarah 7b and 8a

The catch-all

Abudarham (a Spanish scholar who wrote a commentary on the prayers in the 1300s) passes on a view that the 13 middle blessings are six for the person, six for the people, and this one stands for all of them. He also lists what can be said here. Forgot to ask for rain in the blessing for the year's crops? If you remember before this blessing ends, ask for it here. Praying alone on a fast day? The Aneinu prayer ("Answer us") goes here.

Abudarham, Weekday Prayers, Amidah

The food prayer has older parts

The paragraph printed here for asking for a living is built from old pieces. "Feed me my allotted bread" is from Mishlei (the book of Proverbs) 30:8. "From the horns of wild oxen to the eggs of lice" is from the Gemara's picture of God's day, when part of it goes to feeding the world. The Shelah (Rabbi Yeshayahu Horowitz, an author of the early 1600s) quotes an older book that records a custom of saying a prayer with these same opening words before washing for a meal. We could not trace who wrote the whole text.

Mishlei 30:8; Avodah Zarah 3b; Shenei Luchot HaBerit

After David comes prayer

The Gemara explains the order of the middle blessings as a chain. Once Jerusalem is rebuilt, David comes. Once David comes, prayer comes, as Yeshayahu says: "I will bring them to My holy mountain and make them joyful in My house of prayer." So the chain puts prayer right after the blessing about David's kingdom.

Megillah 17b and 18a; Yeshayahu 56:7

Hard questions

Does God answer every prayer, even when I have prayed for things that did not happen?

The blessing ends by calling God Shome'a Tefillah, the One who hears prayer. The old sources that talk about this are careful not to promise more than that.

Abudarham (a Spanish scholar who wrote a commentary on the prayers in the 1300s) says many people say the line as "You hear our prayers." He prefers the wording we say, "You hear prayers and pleas," because we should not put ourselves so high among the righteous that we claim our prayers are heard all the time. He reads the next line the same modest way: if we have not earned much, do not send us back completely empty, and do at least some of what we asked.

The Gemara is just as honest. A teaching in the name of Rabbi Chanina says that anyone who prolongs his prayer does not come back empty, and he proves it from Moshe. Then the Gemara raises a problem. Rabbi Yochanan says that anyone who prolongs his prayer and keeps looking for the result ends up with heartache. Rashi (the main medieval commentator on the Gemara) explains this as a person who expects the length of the prayer to force the request through, and it does not happen. The Gemara answers that these are two different people: one prolongs, and the other prolongs and waits for the payoff.

Then comes the Gemara's most direct line: "If a person sees that he prayed and was not answered, let him pray again." Its proof is the verse "Hope for Hashem, be strong, let your heart take courage, and hope for Hashem."

So here is what these sources say together: do not assume you have earned a yes, do not treat a long prayer like a lever, and if no answer comes, pray again. None of them promises that every request will be granted. Why some prayers get a no is left open.

Abudarham, Weekday Prayers, Amidah,Berakhot 32b,Rashi on Berakhot 32b

I say the same words every day. Is that really praying?

The Mishnah raises this itself. Rabbi Eliezer says that if someone makes his prayer keva, fixed, it is not tachanunim, real pleading.

The Gemara asks what fixed means and gives three answers. For one sage, it is a prayer that feels like a heavy load you want to be rid of. For the Rabbis, it is a prayer not said in the language of pleading. For Rabbah and Rav Yosef, it is a prayer you cannot add anything new to.

Rabbi Zeira admits something easy to relate to: he could add something new, but he is afraid he will get mixed up.

This blessing is where the fixed text opens up. The Gemara says a person asks for his own needs in Shome'a Tefillah, and the Rabbis rule that way. Rav adds that you may also add a request at the end of any blessing that fits it. Someone with a sick person at home adds it to Refa'enu, the blessing for healing, and someone who needs a living adds it to Barech Aleinu, the blessing for the year's crops. Rabbi Yehoshua ben Levi goes further: after the Amidah is over, you may keep asking, even at the length of the Yom Kippur confession.

The Shulchan Aruch (the main code of Jewish law) sums it up: in this blessing a person may ask for all his needs, because it includes all the requests.

So Rabbi Eliezer worries about prayer that is only routine, and the Gemara gives you a place for your own words. It does not say how much to add or how often.

Berakhot 28b and 29b,Avodah Zarah 8a,Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 119:1

Is it okay to pray for money, or is that too small a thing to ask God?

Under this blessing the siddur prints a paragraph for asking for food and a living. Here is what the old sources do with that kind of request.

The model is a verse in Mishlei. The writer asks God for two things before he dies. One is to keep lies far from him. The other is: "Give me neither poverty nor riches; feed me my allotted bread." Then he gives the reason: "Lest I become full and deny You, saying, Who is Hashem? Or lest I become poor and steal, and profane the name of my God." He is not asking to be rich. He names the danger on both sides.

Rabbi Meir says a person should always teach his son a clean and easy trade, and also ask for mercy from the One who owns wealth and property. His reason is that poverty and wealth do not come from the trade itself. He brings the verse "Mine is the silver, and Mine the gold" (Chaggai 2:8). So the advice is to do both: work, and ask.

The Gemara describes God's day in four blocks of three hours. In the third block, God sits and feeds the whole world, from the horns of wild oxen to the eggs of lice. The food prayer borrows those words. Asking in them starts by naming a job that is already being done.

The Gemara's short prayer for dangerous roads asks for the same thing in a few words: "Their needs are many and their minds are limited. Give each person enough to live on."

In Mishlei and in that short prayer, the request is for enough, not for a lot.

Mishlei 30:7-9,Kiddushin 82b,Avodah Zarah 3b,Berakhot 29b

Sparks

Short ideas from the Chassidic masters, the Kabbalah and the Mussar teachers.

Chassidut

What if you are not good enough to ask?

Rabbi Shlomo of Radomsk (a 19th-century Chassidic rebbe in Poland) passes on a teaching he heard from his own teacher, the rebbe of Przedborz. It starts from Rashi (the main medieval commentator on the Torah): when Moshe pleaded with God, he asked for a free gift, and even the righteous ask that way. So what can ordinary people do, who have no merits to point to? Exactly this. Ask for a free gift, even if you are not worthy, and anyone can pray. Now read "be gracious to us" again.

אך מה יעשו הפשוטי עם אשר אין להם זכות ... יכול כל האדם להתפלל

Tiferet Shlomo, Parashat Vayera
Chassidut

Even when no words come

Rebbe Nachman of Breslov (a Chassidic master who died in 1810) taught a daily habit: set aside an hour to talk to God alone, in the language you actually speak, because your heart is moved by words you know. Then he adds something for the days you freeze. If you cannot open your mouth at all, wanting to speak is itself "very good." You can even pray about that, and ask God to open your mouth. He says this is open to everyone, from the least to the greatest.

וַאֲפִלּוּ אִם לִפְעָמִים נִסְתַּתְּמִין דְּבָרָיו ... זֶה בְּעַצְמוֹ טוֹב מְאֹד

Likutei Moharan II, 25
Chassidut

Hard to pray for people you do not feel for

In Bamidbar the Israelites say, "we cried out to Hashem and He heard our voice," and add that Egypt hurt "our fathers" too. Rashi learns from this that our ancestors grieve in their graves when trouble comes to Israel. Rabbi Kalonymus Kalman Shapira, who gave his sermons in the Warsaw Ghetto around 1941, adds that without compassion for Israel it is hard to pray for them, and hard for the prayer to work. So the ancestors cried out too, and God heard their voice together with ours.

בלא רחמנות על ישראל קשה להתפלל בעדם וקשה שתפעל התפילה

Rabbi Kalonymus Kalman Shapira, Esh Kodesh, Parashat Chukat 5701
Zohar

Praying together changes the hour

The Zohar (the central book of Kabbalah) asks when a moment counts as "an acceptable time," the phrase from Tehillim 69: "my prayer to You, Hashem, in an acceptable time." Its answer: when the community is praying. Then the community has got that time ready, and it is a moment for asking. Now read "our voice," "our prayer" and "every mouth of Your people" again.

אֵימָתַי אִקְרֵי עֵת רָצוֹן. בְּשַׁעֲתָא דְּצִבּוּר קָא מְצַלָאן

Zohar, Parashat Terumah
Kabbalah

Where is your mind when you ask?

Rabbi Elazar Azikri, a kabbalist in 16th-century Tzfat, writes that God deals measure for measure. When you call to Him in trouble, would you want Him to turn His heart away from you? Then when you pray, he says, your own heart should turn away from your everyday business. Now read "do not turn us away empty" again.

הטוב בעיניך כשתקראנו בצרתך שיפנה לבו ממך כביכול גם אתה כשתתפלל יפנה לבך מעסקיך

Sefer Charedim, Mitzvat HaTeshuvah, chapter 4

Halacha

The practical laws. For a final ruling, ask your rav.

Can I ask for anything I want here?

Yes. The Gemara (Avodah Zarah 8a) rules that a person asks for his own needs in this blessing. The Shulchan Aruch (the main code of Jewish law) adds that it can hold any request, since it covers all of them. The Aruch HaShulchan (a code of law from around 1900) says it is a general blessing, not a specific one. The Rambam (Maimonides, 1100s) sets one limit: no personal requests in the first three or the last three blessings of the Amidah.

Avodah Zarah 8a; Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 119:1; Aruch HaShulchan, Orach Chaim 119:1; Rambam, Laws of Prayer 6:3

Should my requests go here or at the end of the Amidah?

Both are allowed. The Gemara (Avodah Zarah 8a) says that after the Amidah you may add requests, even as long as the Yom Kippur confession. The Mishnah Berurah (a central commentary on daily Jewish law, from around 1900) quotes the Chayei Adam (a law guide from the early 1800s): for requests you say every day, it is better to put them after the last blessing than inside this one. Then Kaddish or Kedushah can be answered after the closing verse. Inside a blessing, one view in the Shulchan Aruch is not to run long.

Avodah Zarah 8a; Mishnah Berurah 122:8; Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 119:2; Aruch HaShulchan, Orach Chaim 119:4

My siddur prints a livelihood prayer here. Should I say it?

The Aruch HaShulchan agrees that the Zohar (the central book of Kabbalah) teaches asking for food every day, even if you are rich. He objects to a fixed text like "You are the One who feeds and sustains" printed inside the Amidah, and says to say it after the closing verse instead. The Kaf HaChaim (a Sephardic law commentary from the early 1900s) says what the Zohar and the Arizal (a Kabbalist of Tzfat in the 1500s) teach, to confess and ask for food here, may be done every day, and is a mitzvah.

Aruch HaShulchan, Orach Chaim 119:2; Kaf HaChaim, Orach Chaim 119:3 and 119:5

Where in the blessing do my own words go?

The Rema (Rabbi Moshe Isserles, who added Ashkenazi practice to the Shulchan Aruch) says to start the blessing first and add your words after it begins. The Aruch HaShulchan says to add them before the closing line. This siddur's note puts the livelihood prayer just before "ki atah shome'a" ("for You hear"). The Sha'ar HaKavanot (the Arizal's teachings, written down by a student), as the Kaf HaChaim reports, puts a short confession a few words earlier, at "do not turn us away empty."

Rema, Orach Chaim 119:1; Aruch HaShulchan, Orach Chaim 119:1; Siddur Sefard note; Kaf HaChaim, Orach Chaim 119:3

I am fasting today. Where does Aneinu go?

An individual says it inside this blessing, just before "ki atah shome'a," with no closing line of its own. That is the Shulchan Aruch and the Rema (Rabbi Moshe Isserles, who added Ashkenazi practice). The Re'eh prayer's Halacha cards cover which prayers of the fast day it goes in. If you forget it, the Shulchan Aruch says you do not go back.

Shulchan Aruch and Rema, Orach Chaim 565:1-2

I forgot to ask for rain earlier. Is this the place?

Yes, if you notice before this blessing. The Shulchan Aruch rules that you are not sent back: you ask for rain here instead. The Barech Aleinu prayer's Halacha cards give the full rules, including what to do if you notice later. One point they leave out: a note in the Shulchan Aruch says that if you are also fasting, the request for rain comes before Aneinu.

Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 117:5

Sources

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  • Avodah Zarah 8a

    וַחֲכָמִים אוֹמְרִים: לֹא כְּדִבְרֵי זֶה וְלֹא כְּדִבְרֵי זֶה, אֶלָּא שׁוֹאֵל אָדָם צְרָכָיו בְּ״שׁוֹמֵעַ תְּפִלָּה״.

    The Rabbis say: not like this one and not like that one. Rather, a person asks for his needs in "Shome'a Tefillah."

  • Avodah Zarah 7b

    אִיכָּא חֲדָא דְּעָבְדִינַן כְּוָותֵיהּ, דְּתַנְיָא: נַחוּם הַמָּדִי אוֹמֵר: שׁוֹאֵל אָדָם צְרָכָיו בְּ״שׁוֹמֵעַ תְּפִלָּה״.

    There is one thing we do follow him on, as it was taught: Nachum the Mede says a person asks for his needs in "Shome'a Tefillah."

  • Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 119:1

    ובשומע תפל' יכול לשאול כל צרכיו שהיא כוללת כל הבקשו'

    In Shome'a Tefillah a person may ask for all his needs, because it includes all the requests.

  • Abudarham, Weekday Prayers, Amidah

    ויש קורין כי אל שומע תפלות ותחנונים אתה והוא הנכון כי אין להחזיק עצמינו כל כך בצדיקים ... אם לא זכינו הרבה אל תחזירנו ריקם מכל וכל ועשה לנו קצת מן בקשתינו

    Some say: "for You are God who hears prayers and pleas," and that is the correct wording, because we should not consider ourselves so righteous. ... If we have not earned much, do not send us back completely empty, and do some of what we asked.

  • Berakhot 32b

    אִם רָאָה אָדָם שֶׁהִתְפַּלֵּל וְלֹא נַעֲנָה ... יַחְזוֹר וְיִתְפַּלֵּל.

    If a person sees that he prayed and was not answered, let him pray again.

  • Berakhot 32b

    כָּל הַמַּאֲרִיךְ בִּתְפִילָּתוֹ וּמְעַיֵּין בָּהּ ... סוֹף בָּא לִידֵי כְּאֵב לֵב

    Anyone who prolongs his prayer and keeps looking for the result ends up with heartache. (Rashi: he expects the length of the prayer to bring the answer.)

  • Berakhot 29b

    כֹּל שֶׁתְּפִלָּתוֹ דּוֹמָה עָלָיו כְּמַשּׂוֹי ... כֹּל שֶׁאֵינוֹ יָכוֹל לְחַדֵּשׁ בָּהּ דָּבָר

    What is a fixed prayer? One answer: anyone whose prayer feels like a load on him. ... Another: anyone who cannot add anything new to it.

  • Berakhot 29b

    צׇרְכֵי עַמְּךָ יִשְׂרָאֵל מְרוּבִּין וְדַעְתָּם קְצָרָה. יְהִי רָצוֹן מִלְּפָנֶיךָ ה׳ אֱלֹהֵינוּ שֶׁתִּתֵּן לְכׇל אֶחָד וְאֶחָד כְּדֵי פַרְנָסָתוֹ, וּלְכׇל גְּוִיָּה וּגְוִיָּה דֵּי מַחְסוֹרָהּ, בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה ה׳ שׁוֹמֵעַ תְּפִלָּה

    Your people's needs are many and their minds are limited. May it be Your will, Hashem our God, to give each one enough to live on, and each body what it lacks. Blessed are You, Hashem, who hears prayer.

  • Mishlei 30:8-9

    הַטְרִיפֵנִי לֶחֶם חֻקִּי. פֶּן אֶשְׂבַּע וְכִחַשְׁתִּי וְאָמַרְתִּי מִי ה׳ וּפֶן אִוָּרֵשׁ וְגָנַבְתִּי

    Feed me my allotted bread. Lest I become full and deny You and say, "Who is Hashem?" Or lest I become poor and steal.

  • Kiddushin 82b

    וִיבַקֵּשׁ רַחֲמִים לְמִי שֶׁהָעוֹשֶׁר וְהַנְּכָסִים שֶׁלּוֹ, שֶׁאֵין עֲנִיּוּת מִן הָאוּמָּנוּת וְאֵין עֲשִׁירוּת מִן הָאוּמָּנוּת

    Rabbi Meir: a person should also ask for mercy from the One who owns wealth and property, because poverty and wealth do not come from the trade.

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