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Seven days from Hillel to Rabbi Eliezer

One mishnah a day from Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers), the book of the Mishnah about character. The mishnah, what it means with the classic commentators, and how to take it to work. About two minutes. Want more? Every day has a "Go deeper" section with the commentators and every source.

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Sunday, November 22 · Avot 2:4

Don't Bet on Free Time

Hillel: do not say, "When I am free I will learn." Perhaps you will not be free.

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Hillel says: do not trust yourself until the day you die. After how many good years has a person earned the right to trust himself?

Today's teaching

After one more saying of Rabban Gamliel, the mishnah (teaching) brings five rules from Hillel. The explanations here are from Bartenura (Rabbi Ovadiah of Bartenura, the classic 15th-century commentator on the Mishnah). Do not separate from the community: share in its trouble. Do not trust yourself until the day you die: Yochanan the High Priest served for eighty years, and in the end joined the Sadducees (a group that rejected the tradition of the Sages). Do not judge your fellow until you reach his place: if you saw him fail a test, do not judge him guilty until you have come to one like it and been saved. Do not say a thing that cannot be heard: do not tell your secret thinking no one hears. It will be heard. And do not say, when I am free I will learn. Perhaps you will not be free.

Read the mishnahHillel's five rules, from Pirkei Avot 2:4. The opening lines are in Go deeper.
הִלֵּל אוֹמֵר, אַל תִּפְרֹשׁ מִן הַצִּבּוּר, וְאַל תַּאֲמִין בְּעַצְמְךָ עַד יוֹם מוֹתְךָ, וְאַל תָּדִין אֶת חֲבֵרְךָ עַד שֶׁתַּגִּיעַ לִמְקוֹמוֹ, וְאַל תֹּאמַר דָּבָר שֶׁאִי אֶפְשָׁר לִשְׁמֹעַ, שֶׁסּוֹפוֹ לְהִשָּׁמַע. וְאַל תֹּאמַר לִכְשֶׁאִפָּנֶה אֶשְׁנֶה, שֶׁמָּא לֹא תִפָּנֶה
"Hillel says: Do not separate from the community. Do not trust yourself until the day you die. Do not judge your fellow until you reach his place. Do not say a thing that cannot be heard, for in the end it will be heard. And do not say, "When I am free I will learn." Perhaps you will not be free."
Pirkei Avot 2:4Open the source
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Learn now. Do not judge from the outside.

There is a sefer (a book of Torah learning) on your nightstand with a boarding pass in it for a bookmark. Newark to Tel Aviv, seat 31C. It is at page 14. The plan was to pick it up again when things calm down, and things have been about to calm down ever since. Hillel's last rule is about that plan: perhaps you will not be free.

Two rules earlier, Hillel speaks about your fellow. At work, in our words: a colleague signed off on a number he had doubts about, with a vice president standing over his desk, and you have a clear opinion of what you would have done. Bartenura reads Hillel this way: do not judge him guilty until you have come to a test like his and been saved. You have not yet had the vice president.

And the rule before that is about you. Bartenura's proof is a High Priest who turned Sadducee after eighty years. Most of us are sure of ourselves on the strength of a few good months. Hillel's words are: do not trust yourself until the day you die. The boarding pass is still at page 14.

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The opening lines: His will and yours

הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, עֲשֵׂה רְצוֹנוֹ כִרְצוֹנְךָ, כְּדֵי שֶׁיַּעֲשֶׂה רְצוֹנְךָ כִרְצוֹנוֹ. בַּטֵּל רְצוֹנְךָ מִפְּנֵי רְצוֹנוֹ, כְּדֵי שֶׁיְּבַטֵּל רְצוֹן אֲחֵרִים מִפְּנֵי רְצוֹנֶךָ
"He used to say: Do His will as you would do your own will, so that He will do your will as He would His own. Set aside your will before His will, so that He will set aside the will of others before your will."
Pirkei Avot 2:4Open the source

The speaker is still the Rabban Gamliel of the two mishnayot (teachings) before this one (Avot 2:2 and 2:3), the son of Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi (the Prince). Bartenura explains the first line with money:

פַּזֵּר מָמוֹנְךָ בְּחֶפְצֵי שָׁמַיִם, כִּרְצוֹנְךָ, כְּאִלּוּ פִּזַּרְתָּ אוֹתָם בַּחֲפָצֶיךָ. שֶׁאִם עָשִׂיתָ כֵן יַעֲשֶׂה רְצוֹנְךָ כִּרְצוֹנוֹ, כְּלוֹמַר יִתֵּן לְךָ טוֹבָה בְּעַיִן יָפָה
"Spend your money freely on what Heaven wants, 'as your own will': as though you had spent it on what you want yourself. For if you do so, He will do your will as His own. That is, He will give you good generously."
Bartenura on Avot 2:4Open the source

Rabbeinu Yonah (Rabbi Yonah of Gerona, 13th century) takes it to be about everything a person wants: do the will of Hashem (God) as eagerly as your own, until you want only what He wants. He applies it to money as well: what a person has was given by Hashem and is a deposit in his hands, and with a deposit one does what its owner wants. Tosafot Yom Tov (Rabbi Yom Tov Lipmann Heller, a 17th-century commentator on the Mishnah) suggests that the first line is about the positive commandments, the things to do, and the second line about the prohibitions.

"So that He will set aside the will of others": Bartenura explains, He will overturn the plans of all who rise against you to do you harm. He adds a reading that he heard. The words "the will of others" are a respectful way of speaking about Heaven, and it is as if the mishnah had said, "so that He will set aside His will before your will." He compares it to a saying he quotes from the Gemara (the Talmud; Shabbat 63a): whoever does a mitzvah (commandment) as it should be done, even a decree of seventy years is cancelled for him. In the Gemara as we have it, Rav Chinana bar Idi says that one who does a mitzvah as it was commanded is not brought bad news, and Rav Asi, or some say Rabbi Chanina, adds: even if the Holy One, blessed be He, makes a decree, "he cancels it." His proof is two verses that stand side by side: "and who will say to Him, what are You doing?" (Kohelet, Ecclesiastes, 8:4), and then "one who keeps a mitzvah will know no evil thing" (8:5). Rashi (Rabbi Shlomo Yitzchaki, the classic 11th-century commentator) explains: one who keeps mitzvot can say it to Him. On that reading, the one who cancels the decree is the person who did the mitzvah.

Which Hillel

The commentary on Pirkei Avot printed under Rashi's name says: "This is Hillel the Elder, who spoke above, in chapter 1." Hillel the Elder taught in Avot 1:12 to 1:14, many generations before this Rabban Gamliel. Tosafot Yom Tov brings another view, from the book Asarah Maamarot by Rabbi Menachem Azariah of Fano: that this Hillel is a grandson of Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi. He answers, "If it is a tradition, we will accept it," and if it is a matter of reasoning, Rashi wrote plainly that this is Hillel the Elder. He also explains why Hillel's words were placed here: Rabban Gamliel spoke, two mishnayot earlier, about those who work with the community, and four mishnayot on, Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai will be named as one who received from Hillel.

Do not separate from the community

אֶלָּא הִשְׁתַּתֵּף בְּצָרָתָם. שֶׁכָּל הַפּוֹרֵשׁ מִן הַצִּבּוּר אֵינוֹ רוֹאֶה בְּנֶחָמַת הַצִּבּוּר
"Rather, share in their trouble. For anyone who separates from the community does not see the comfort of the community."
Bartenura on Avot 2:4Open the source

Bartenura is pointing to a baraita (a teaching of the Sages from the time of the Mishnah that was not included in it) in the Gemara (Taanit 11a). When Israel is in distress and one of them separates himself, the two angels who accompany a person lay their hands on his head and say: this one, who separated from the community, let him not see the comfort of the community. A second baraita there brings Moshe (Moses). During the battle with Amalek (the people who attacked Israel on the way out of Egypt) he sat on a stone (Shemot, Exodus, 17:12). Did Moshe not have one cushion to sit on? He said: since Israel is in distress, I too will be with them in distress. The baraita ends: whoever puts himself in distress together with the community merits to see its comfort.

Rabbeinu Yonah takes the rule to be about a community that is busy with Torah and mitzvot. It speaks, he says, of a community that walks in a good path and gathers to do a mitzvah. From a community that leans toward a bad path and whose deeds are corrupt, one who separates is to be praised. The Rambam (the great 12th-century teacher of Jewish law and philosophy) has one line here, pointing back to the fourth chapter of Shemonah Perakim (Eight Chapters, his introduction to Pirkei Avot): one should part from the community only as far as its corruption requires.

Do not trust yourself

שֶׁהֲרֵי יוֹחָנָן כֹּהֵן גָּדוֹל שִׁמֵּשׁ בִּכְהֻנָּה גְּדוֹלָה שְׁמֹנִים שָׁנָה וּלְבַסּוֹף נַעֲשָׂה צְדוֹקִי
"For Yochanan the High Priest served as High Priest for eighty years, and in the end became a Sadducee."
Bartenura on Avot 2:4Open the source

The Gemara (Berachot 29a) quotes this mishnah, with these same words, as a challenge to Abaye, who had said: we have a tradition that a good person does not turn bad. Abaye answers that Yochanan and Yannai are one person. Rava says they are two, Yannai wicked from the start and Yochanan righteous from the start. For Rava, the Gemara says, even one who was righteous from the start may turn back. The Rambam reads the rule as being about character. Even a person who has a good trait firmly set in his soul should not stop repeating the good acts that strengthen it:

ולא יבטח ויאמר זאת המעלה כבר עלתה בידי ואי אפשר לה שתסור שאפשר הוא שתסור
"And he should not be confident and say: this virtue is already in my hand, and it cannot leave. For it can leave."
Rambam on Avot 2:4Open the source

That, the Rambam says, is the meaning of "until the day you die."

Until you reach his place

אִם רָאִיתָ חֲבֵרְךָ שֶׁבָּא לִידֵי נִסָּיוֹן וְנִכְשַׁל, אַל תְּדִינֵהוּ לְחוֹבָה עַד שֶׁתַּגִּיעַ לִידֵי נִסָּיוֹן כְּמוֹתוֹ וְתִנָּצֵל
"If you saw your fellow come to a test and stumble, do not judge him as guilty until you come to a test like his and are saved."
Bartenura on Avot 2:4Open the source

Rabbeinu Yonah reads "his place" as his rank, and ties it to the rule before it: a person should not trust himself, or rely on his own mind too much. When you see your fellow in a high position not acting uprightly, do not say: if I were in his place, I would do none of the wrong that he does. You do not know. You are a person as he is, and perhaps that position would bend you too. When you have reached his place and his rank and have overcome your own traits, he writes, then you may question his.

A thing that cannot be heard

Bartenura gives two readings. The first: do not let your words be so unclear that they cannot be understood at first, counting on the listener to work them out in the end if he thinks hard. That leads people to mistake your meaning, and they may go astray into heresy (denying what the Torah teaches) through you. The second: do not tell your secret, even between you and yourself, saying that there is no one here to hear you, because in the end it will be heard, "for a bird of the sky will carry the sound" (Kohelet, Ecclesiastes, 10:20). He notes that the wording "for in the end it will be heard" goes with the second reading (on the first, the words are "and in the end it will be heard"), and that Rashi had a different text: "a thing that can be heard." On that text the rule is about Torah. Do not say of a word of Torah which you can hear now that you will hear it later. Bend your ear and hear it at once.

The Rambam reads it as a rule about how to speak: words whose plain sense is far-fetched and seems wrong, and which turn out to be right only when a person looks hard at them. Your words, he says, should not need a far-fetched explanation and extra study before the listener understands them.

When I am free

Bartenura fills in the words: when I am free "from my business," I will occupy myself with Torah. The Rambam says the same, and connects it to an earlier mishnah (Avot 1:15):

וזה דומה למה שקדם ממצות שמאי חברו עשה תורתך קבע
"And this is like what came before, the instruction of Shammai, his colleague: make your Torah fixed."
Rambam on Avot 2:4Open the source

Rabbeinu Yonah gives the reason. You do not know what a day will bring. Tomorrow too you will be called to something, for there is no shortage of new matters every day, and you will find yourself leaving the world without Torah. "Rather, make your Torah the fixed thing and your work the side thing."

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Monday, November 23 · Avot 2:5

Ask the Dumb Question

Hillel on who does not learn, who does not teach, and what to do where there is no one.

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Hillel says the shy person does not learn. A sense of shame is usually counted as a good trait. What is it about learning that makes it a problem there?

Today's teaching

Hillel continues. A bor (an empty person) does not fear sin: Bartenura (Rabbi Ovadiah of Bartenura, the classic 15th-century commentator on the Mishnah) says he does not even know how business is done. An am ha'aretz (an unlearned person) is not a chasid (a pious person), though he can fear sin, Bartenura says. The shy do not learn: one who is ashamed to ask, he explains, in case they laugh at him, stays in his doubts for good. The short-tempered do not teach: a teacher who is short with his students when they ask, he says, will not teach properly. Not everyone who does much business grows wise. And in a place where there are no men, strive to be a man: where there is no one, Bartenura explains, to sit at the head and give rulings.

Read the mishnahPirkei Avot 2:5 in Hebrew, with our English
הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, אֵין בּוּר יְרֵא חֵטְא, וְלֹא עַם הָאָרֶץ חָסִיד, וְלֹא הַבַּיְשָׁן לָמֵד, וְלֹא הַקַּפְּדָן מְלַמֵּד, וְלֹא כָל הַמַּרְבֶּה בִסְחוֹרָה מַחְכִּים. וּבְמָקוֹם שֶׁאֵין אֲנָשִׁים, הִשְׁתַּדֵּל לִהְיוֹת אִישׁ
"He used to say: A bor [an empty person] does not fear sin, and an am ha'aretz [an unlearned person] is not a chasid [a pious person]. The shy person does not learn, and the short-tempered person does not teach. Not everyone who does much business grows wise. And in a place where there are no men, strive to be a man."
Pirkei Avot 2:5Open the source
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Ask when you do not know, and be easy to ask

Eleven people are in the meeting, and for twenty minutes all of them have been saying "the TAM." At minute one, asking would have cost a moment. At minute twenty it costs twenty of them, and by your count at least three of the people nodding do not know either. Bartenura on the shy student: one who is ashamed to ask stays in his doubts for good.

The next line is for the day somebody asks you. The new hire has asked twice where the shared drive is, and the second time you answered with a link and no words. Bartenura says that a teacher who is short with his students will not teach properly. At work, that is you. He will find the drive. He will not ask you a third time.

The commentary printed under the name of Rashi (the classic 11th-century commentator) takes Hillel's last line to be about the community's needs, and adds: where there is a man, keep to your Torah. In our words, at work: the problem everyone has noticed and nobody has picked up. Possibly someone has, and you mostly want to be seen picking it up. The new hire, as it happens, was one of the three.

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The bor and the am ha'aretz

רֵיק מִכָּל דָּבָר, וַאֲפִלּוּ בְּטִיב מַשָּׂא וּמַתָּן אֵינוֹ יוֹדֵעַ. וְהוּא גָּרוּעַ מֵעַם הָאָרֶץ
"Empty of everything. He does not even know how business is done. And he is worse than an am ha'aretz."
Bartenura on Avot 2:5Open the source

Bartenura brings the word from the Aramaic translation of the Torah (the Targum). Where Bereishit (Genesis) 47:19 says "and the land will not be desolate," the Targum has: the land will not lie bur. The commentary on Pirkei Avot printed under the name of Rashi (Rabbi Shlomo Yitzchaki, the classic 11th-century commentator) says: like a field that is bur (a field left unworked).

אֲבָל יְרֵא חֵטְא אֶפְשָׁר שֶׁיִּהְיֶה, שֶׁהֲרֵי הוּא בָּקִי בְּטִיב מַשָּׂא וּמַתָּן
"But he can be one who fears sin, for he is well versed in how business is done."
Bartenura on Avot 2:5Open the source

The Rambam (the great 12th-century teacher of Jewish law and philosophy) defines the two by what each one has:

בור הוא שאין לו לא חכמה ולא מדות: ועם הארץ הוא שאין לו מעלות שכליות אבל יהיו לו קצת מעלות המדות
"A bor is one who has neither wisdom nor good traits. And an am ha'aretz is one who has no virtues of the intellect, but has some virtues of character."
Rambam on Avot 2:5Open the source

Rabbeinu Yonah (Rabbi Yonah of Gerona, 13th century) explains why the am ha'aretz does not reach the level of the chasid, the one who does more than the law requires: only one who is great in Torah can reach it. It needs a pure heart and a clear soul, and the am ha'aretz does not have the wisdom to move from the middle line to the far end.

The shy do not learn

שֶׁהַמִּתְבַּיֵּשׁ לִשְׁאֹל שֶׁמָּא יַלְעִיגוּ עָלָיו, יִשָּׁאֵר תָּמִיד בִּסְפֵקוֹתָיו
"For one who is ashamed to ask, in case they mock him, will always remain in his doubts."
Bartenura on Avot 2:5Open the source

Rabbeinu Yonah: shame is a good trait in every matter except learning. A student should not say: a fool like me, how can I ask a thing in front of a great sage? If that is his rule all his days, where will wisdom come to him from? He quotes a saying from Mivchar HaPeninim (Choice of Pearls), a book of sayings on character: "Ask as fools ask, and guard as the generous guard." He explains the second half: the generous neither scatter their money nor hold it back, but give it where it belongs, and so wisdom is to be spoken with the right people at the right time. And he concludes that a person should ask every question and not be ashamed, so that he learns.

The commentary printed under Rashi's name brings a verse (Mishlei, Proverbs, 30:32) as it is explained in the Gemara (the Talmud; Berachot 63b). There Rabbi Shmuel bar Nachmani says: whoever makes himself look foolish over words of Torah will in the end be raised up, and if he muzzled himself, his hand will be on his mouth. Rashi explains there: the first is one who asks his teacher all his doubts, even those his friends laugh at him for. The second shut his mouth and did not ask, and when he is asked he will not know what to answer.

The short-tempered do not teach

הָרַב שֶׁמַּקְפִּיד עַל הַתַּלְמִידִים כְּשֶׁשּׁוֹאֲלִים אוֹתוֹ, לֹא יְלַמֵּד כָּרָאוּי. אֶלָּא צָרִיךְ שֶׁיַּסְבִּיר פָּנִים בַּהֲלָכָה לְתַלְמִידָיו
"A teacher who is short with the students when they ask him will not teach properly. Rather, he must show his students a welcoming face in the halachah (the law being learned)."
Bartenura on Avot 2:5Open the source

The commentary printed under Rashi's name: this is a teacher who is short of patience, and angry if the student asks many times about one matter. The Rambam defines the kapdan, the short-tempered person of the mishnah (teaching), as one who minds every little thing and gets angry. Rabbeinu Yonah describes the teacher who is needed: broad of heart, answering every person on every thing they ask, and when they find his answer hard to understand, going back over it for them until they get to the bottom of the matter.

Business and wisdom

Bartenura brings the verse "and it is not beyond the sea" (Devarim, Deuteronomy, 30:13) as the Gemara reads it (Eruvin 55a): the Torah is not found among those who travel beyond the sea. In the Gemara these are the words of Rabbi Yochanan. "It is not in heaven": it will not be found in the arrogant. "And it is not beyond the sea": it will not be found in traveling merchants or in traders. The Rambam brings the same teaching and says that the Sages attached it to the verse as a figure of speech.

Tosafot Yom Tov (Rabbi Yom Tov Lipmann Heller, a 17th-century commentator on the Mishnah) points to two words in the mishnah. "Not everyone": for it is possible, and there have been people who did much business and grew wise. He quotes this from the commentary Midrash Shmuel (by Rabbi Shmuel de Uzeda, 16th century), with two names from the Gemara. Rabbi Elazar ben Charsom's father left him a thousand towns and a thousand ships. The Gemara says he never once went to see them, and sat and learned Torah all day and all night (Yoma 35b). Ilfa, who learned with Rabbi Yochanan, went into business when the two of them were in great need. When he came back, he offered to show the source in the Mishnah for any baraita (a teaching of the Sages from the time of the Mishnah that was not included in it) he was asked about (Taanit 21a). And "much": for without any business to keep his body alive, a person's Torah does not last either, as a later mishnah says, "if there is no flour, there is no Torah" (Avot 3:17), and as an earlier mishnah said, Torah study is good together with a worldly occupation (Avot 2:2).

Rabbeinu Yonah: one who is busy with his trade all day, and makes it the fixed thing and his Torah the side thing, will never grow wise.

Where there are no men

לֵישֵׁב בָּרֹאשׁ וּלְהוֹרוֹת הוֹרָאוֹת
"To sit at the head and give rulings."
Bartenura on Avot 2:5Open the source
וענין השתדל הרגל נפשך ומשוך אותה לקנות המעלות ואחר שאין [שם] אנשים חכמים שילמדוך הוה אתה מלמד את עצמך
"The meaning of 'strive': train your soul and draw it to acquire the virtues. And since there are no wise people there to teach you, be the one who teaches yourself."
Rambam on Avot 2:5Open the source

The Rambam notes that the Targum uses this word for "a man wrestled with him" (Bereishit 32:25). The commentary printed under Rashi's name takes the line to be about the community: strive, and occupy yourself with the needs of the community, "but in a place where there is a man, you occupy yourself with your Torah." Rabbeinu Yonah brings three readings. The first is from earlier commentators: where there are no people to help you with the mitzvot (commandments) and to correct you, strive to set yourself straight. If you see a generation in which the Torah is neglected, stand up and work at it. And where no one is greater than you in wisdom, do not hold back from growing wise.

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Tuesday, November 24 · Avot 2:6

Mind the Measure You Give

Hillel sees a skull floating on the water, and tells it why it is there.

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Hillel tells the skull: you were drowned because you drowned others. Then he adds that those who drowned it will be drowned too. If the dead man deserved it, why should his killers pay?

Today's teaching

Hillel once saw a skull floating on the water, and spoke to it. Bartenura (Rabbi Ovadiah of Bartenura, the classic 15th-century commentator on the Mishnah) explains the first line: you were a wicked man, you robbed people and drowned them in the river, and with that same measure it was measured out to you. And the second line: killing you was not given into those men's hands. It belonged to a court. The Holy One, blessed be He, gave you over to them, because harm is brought about through one who is himself guilty, and afterwards He will claim your death from them. The Rambam (the great 12th-century teacher of Jewish law and philosophy) states the rule: bad deeds come back on the heads of those who do them.

Read the mishnahPirkei Avot 2:6 in Hebrew, with our English
אַף הוּא רָאָה גֻלְגֹּלֶת אַחַת שֶׁצָּפָה עַל פְּנֵי הַמַּיִם. אָמַר לָהּ, עַל דַּאֲטֵפְתְּ, אַטְפוּךְ. וְסוֹף מְטִיפַיִךְ יְטוּפוּן
"He also saw a skull floating on the water. He said to it: Because you drowned others, they drowned you. And in the end, those who drowned you will be drowned."
Pirkei Avot 2:6Open the source
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What you start doing to people can be done to you

On your floor it has a name now. People say someone got "looped": two colleagues disagree, and one of them answers with the whole team added on the cc line. You did it first, in the spring, to Daniel, over a spreadsheet. It worked very well. Last Tuesday it was done to you.

Hillel is speaking to the skull of a murderer, and a cc line drowns no one. The Rambam widens the rule from killing to every kind of wrong: whoever invents a new kind of it, he writes, will himself be harmed by the very wrong he invented, "because he has taught a craft that does harm to him and to others." Setting an office habit beside that is ours, at a far smaller scale: you taught the floor a move, and the floor learned it. The Rambam gives the other side as well: one who starts a good practice gets the good of it.

Daniel, to be fair, had been slow with the spreadsheet. Bartenura's reading of Hillel's second line is that the drowned man was guilty, and that those who drowned him will answer for it all the same, because it was not theirs to do. In our words: Daniel may have had it coming. It was not yours to hand out. He never said a word about it.

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What Hillel saw

The same story is told of Hillel the Elder in a baraita (a teaching of the Sages from the time of the Mishnah that was not included in it) in the Gemara (the Talmud; Sukkah 53a). Rashi (Rabbi Shlomo Yitzchaki, the classic 11th-century commentator) explains there: they had cut off his head and thrown it into the water, and Hillel recognized him as a murderer, whom robbers like himself had now met. The Aramaic word in Hillel's sentence, usually translated "drowned," means "set afloat," and Rashi reads the line as: because you floated the skulls of others on the water, others have now floated yours. Hillel spoke in Aramaic, and Tosafot Yom Tov (Rabbi Yom Tov Lipmann Heller, a 17th-century commentator on the Mishnah) notes that this was the language ordinary people spoke in those times.

רָשָׁע הָיִיתָ וּמְלַסְטֵם אֶת הַבְּרִיּוֹת וּמְצִיפָן בַּנָּהָר, וּבְאוֹתָהּ מִדָּה מָדְדוּ לְךָ
"You were a wicked man, and you robbed people and drowned them in the river. And with that same measure they measured out to you."
Bartenura on Avot 2:6Open the source

Why the killers are held to account

שֶׁלֹּא הָיָה הַדָּבָר מָסוּר בְּיָדָן לְהָרְגְךָ, אֶלָּא לְבֵית דִּין, וְהַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא מְסָרְךָ בְּיָדָן, שֶׁמְּגַלְגְּלִים חוֹבָה עַל יְדֵי חַיָּב, וְעָתִיד הוּא אַחַר כָּךְ לִתְבֹּעַ מֵהֶן מִיתָתְךָ
"For the matter was not given into their hands, to kill you, but to a court. And the Holy One, blessed be He, gave you over into their hands, because guilt is brought about through one who is guilty. And afterwards He will claim your death from them."
Bartenura on Avot 2:6Open the source

The phrase comes from a teaching of the school of Rabbi Yishmael in the Gemara (Shabbat 32a), about the fence the Torah requires around a roof (Devarim, Deuteronomy, 22:8). The verse calls the one who falls from the roof "the faller" before he has fallen: he was due to fall since the six days of Creation. But merit is brought about through one who has merit, and guilt through one who is guilty. Rashi explains: the guilty one is the owner of the house, who did not keep the mitzvah (commandment) of the fence. In our words: a fall that was coming still comes through someone, and that someone answers for it.

Tosafot Yom Tov says this is the Rambam's view in the eighth chapter of his introduction to Pirkei Avot (Shemonah Perakim): even though it was just, before the Holy One, that this man be killed, He did not decree that this particular person should be the one to kill him. That person did it by his own choice, and so he will be punished.

The Rambam: deeds come back

הכוונה בזה המאמר שפעולות הרעות ישובו בראש עושיהם
"The intent of this saying is that bad deeds come back on the heads of those who do them."
Rambam on Avot 2:6Open the source

He brings two verses and a saying of the Sages. "His own sins will trap the wicked man" (Mishlei, Proverbs, 5:22). "He dug a pit and hollowed it out" (Tehillim, Psalms, 7:16), and the verse goes on: "and he fell into the hole he made." And from the Mishnah (Sotah 1:7): "With the measure by which a person measures, they measure out to him." This, he says, can be seen at every time and in every place. Whoever does wrong, and invents kinds of wrongdoing and vice:

שהוא עצמו יוזק מן הרעות ההם בעצמם אשר חדש מפני שהוא למד מלאכה שתעשה נזק לו ולזולתו
"He himself will be harmed by those very wrongs which he invented, because he has taught a craft that does harm to him and to others."
Rambam on Avot 2:6Open the source
וכן כל המלמד מעלה שמחדש פעל טוב מן הטובות יגיעהו תועלת הפעל ההוא מפני שהוא מלמד דבר שיעשה טוב לו ולזולתו
"And so too anyone who teaches a virtue, who brings in some new good act: the benefit of that act will reach him, because he is teaching a thing that does good to him and to others."
Rambam on Avot 2:6Open the source

He ends with a verse from Iyov (Job 34:11): "For He pays a person according to his deeds."

A question Tosafot Yom Tov asks

Tosafot Yom Tov asks what a reader may be asking. The first person who was ever killed had killed no one: Hevel (Abel) was killed by Kayin (Cain). So how did Hillel know that this man had drowned others? And how could he say that the killers would be drowned? "It happens every day," he writes: murderers die in their beds. For the first question he points to Rashi on Sukkah 53a: Hillel recognized the man.

His own answer is that Hillel was not laying down that this is always what happens. Many are killed who did not kill, and many kill who are not killed. Hillel was stating what reason requires, measure for measure, and what actually happens contradicts it. On this reading Hillel was not claiming to know what this man had done: it may be, Tosafot Yom Tov writes, that the one swept away had swept no one away. He said it between himself and a bone that cannot hear. That, he suggests, is why Hillel went on to teach the next mishnah (teaching; Avot 2:7), "the more flesh, the more worms" and "the more Torah, the more life," so that a person should not come to say that there is no judgment and no Judge: where we can see how things work, good and bad each bring what fits them. From what is revealed a person can judge what is hidden, he writes: there too everything goes by justice, though we do not have the power to grasp it. He quotes Yeshayahu (Isaiah 55:8): "For My thoughts are not your thoughts."

So there are three readings, as we understand them. For Rashi on Sukkah, Hillel recognized the man, and Bartenura too takes Hillel's words as a plain statement of what the man had done. For the Rambam, the rule can be seen at every time and in every place. In Tosafot Yom Tov's own answer, what we see often contradicts it, and the justice is hidden.

The commentary on Pirkei Avot printed under Rashi's name notes that in some places the custom was not to say this mishnah. It gives no reason. Tosafot Yom Tov replies that the Rambam, Bartenura and all the commentators have it.

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Wednesday, November 25 · Avot 2:7

Be Careful What You Multiply

Hillel lists what arrives together with more of each thing. Then he names four things worth having more of.

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Hillel says: the more possessions, the more worry. Money is supposed to take worries away. What worry does it add?

Today's teaching

Hillel lists nine things a person can have more of. Five come at a price. Flesh brings worms, possessions bring worry, and then comes the large household of a wealthy man of that time, with many wives, female slaves and male slaves. The worry of possessions, says Bartenura (Rabbi Ovadiah of Bartenura, the classic 15th-century commentator on the Mishnah), is that the king's men will seize them, or that robbers will come and kill him. Then four that bring good: Torah brings life, a yeshivah (sitting and learning with others) brings wisdom, counsel brings understanding, and tzedakah (charity) brings peace. Bartenura sums up: every increase is hard on a person, except more Torah, wisdom and tzedakah.

Read the mishnahPirkei Avot 2:7 in Hebrew, with our English
הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, מַרְבֶּה בָשָׂר, מַרְבֶּה רִמָּה. מַרְבֶּה נְכָסִים, מַרְבֶּה דְאָגָה. מַרְבֶּה נָשִׁים, מַרְבֶּה כְשָׁפִים. מַרְבֶּה שְׁפָחוֹת, מַרְבֶּה זִמָּה. מַרְבֶּה עֲבָדִים, מַרְבֶּה גָזֵל. מַרְבֶּה תוֹרָה, מַרְבֶּה חַיִּים. מַרְבֶּה יְשִׁיבָה, מַרְבֶּה חָכְמָה. מַרְבֶּה עֵצָה, מַרְבֶּה תְבוּנָה. מַרְבֶּה צְדָקָה, מַרְבֶּה שָׁלוֹם. קָנָה שֵׁם טוֹב, קָנָה לְעַצְמוֹ. קָנָה לוֹ דִבְרֵי תוֹרָה, קָנָה לוֹ חַיֵּי הָעוֹלָם הַבָּא
"He used to say: The more flesh, the more worms. The more possessions, the more worry. The more wives, the more witchcraft. The more female slaves, the more immorality. The more male slaves, the more robbery. The more Torah, the more life. The more yeshivah, the more wisdom. The more counsel, the more understanding. The more tzedakah, the more peace. One who has acquired a good name has acquired it for himself. One who has acquired words of Torah has acquired life in the World to Come."
Pirkei Avot 2:7Open the source
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Everything you add has to be looked after

You have four bank cards, two investing apps, and a password written on a piece of paper in a drawer you could describe but not find. All of it sends notifications. Bartenura tells of a certain chasid (a pious man) who used to pray to be saved from pizur hanefesh, the scattering of the soul. Asked what that was, he said: having many possessions scattered in many places, so that a person has to scatter his soul to think about this one and that one.

He was describing a wealthy man's property. In our words, it is also a fair description of a phone. Maybe you feel you carry all of it lightly. A test of our own is easy to run: count the places your mind had already been this morning before you spoke to anyone.

Then the list turns to four things that bring good as they grow. The mishnah (teaching) ends with two things a person acquires: a good name, which he acquires for himself, and words of Torah, which acquire him life in the World to Come (the life after this one). The piece of paper is probably still in the drawer.

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Flesh and worms

הַמַּרְבֶּה בַּאֲכִילָה וּשְׁתִיָּה עַד שֶׁנַּעֲשֶׂה שָׁמֵן וּבַעַל בָּשָׂר, מַרְבֶּה עָלָיו רִמָּה בַּקֶּבֶר, וְקָשָׁה רִמָּה לַמֵּת כְּמַחַט בִּבְשַׂר הַחַי
"One who eats and drinks so much that he becomes fat and fleshy increases the worms upon himself in the grave. And worms are as hard on the dead as a needle in living flesh."
Bartenura on Avot 2:7Open the source

The last sentence is Rabbi Yitzchak's, in the Gemara (the Talmud; Berachot 18b, and it is quoted again in Shabbat 13b). Do the dead feel pain? Tosafot Yom Tov (Rabbi Yom Tov Lipmann Heller, a 17th-century commentator on the Mishnah) explains that the body of the dead feels nothing at all. The Sages' words, he writes, are about the soul of the one who died, which sees what has become of the body and is greatly pained. Bartenura then states the point of the whole list:

שֶׁכָּל רִבּוּיִין קָשִׁים לָאָדָם חוּץ מֵרִבּוּי תּוֹרָה וְחָכְמָה וּצְדָקָה
"Every increase is hard on a person, except the increase of Torah and of wisdom and of tzedakah."
Bartenura on Avot 2:7Open the source

Possessions and worry

וְחָסִיד אֶחָד הָיָה מִתְפַּלֵּל, הַמָּקוֹם יַצִּילֵנִי מִפִּזּוּר הַנֶּפֶשׁ. וְשָׁאֲלוּ מִמֶּנּוּ מַהוּ פִּזּוּר הַנֶּפֶשׁ, אָמַר לָהֶם שֶׁיִּהְיוּ לוֹ נְכָסִים מְרֻבִּים מְפֻזָּרִים בִּמְקוֹמוֹת הַרְבֵּה וְצָרִיךְ לְפַזֵּר נַפְשׁוֹ לַחֲשֹׁב לְכָאן וּלְכָאן
"A certain chasid used to pray: May the Makom [a name of God] save me from the scattering of the soul. They asked him: What is the scattering of the soul? He said to them: That he has many possessions, scattered in many places, and he has to scatter his soul to think about here and about there."
Bartenura on Avot 2:7Open the source

Rabbeinu Yonah (Rabbi Yonah of Gerona, 13th century): a person should not think that with great wealth he will pass his days in ease. He worries about it all year long. Ask the wealthy, he writes, and they will tell you.

Why this order

בִּתְחִלָּה אָדָם מְקַשֵּׁט עַצְמוֹ וְאוֹכֵל וְשׁוֹתֶה וּמַרְבֶּה בָּשָׂר, וְאַחַר כָּךְ מְבַקֵּשׁ לְהַרְבּוֹת נְכָסִים, וּלְאַחַר שֶׁהִרְבָּה נְכָסִים וְרוֹאֶה שֶׁיֵּשׁ בְּיָדוֹ סִפּוּק לְפַרְנֵס נָשִׁים רַבּוֹת הוּא מַרְבֶּה לוֹ נָשִׁים, וּלְאַחַר שֶׁהִרְבָּה נָשִׁים כָּל אַחַת צְרִיכָה שִׁפְחָה שֶׁתְּשַׁמְּשֶׁנָּהּ, הֲרֵי מַרְבֶּה שְׁפָחוֹת, וְכֵיוָן שֶׁיֵּשׁ לוֹ בְנֵי בַּיִת מְרֻבִּין צָרִיךְ לְשָׂדוֹת וּכְרָמִים לְסַפֵּק יַיִן וּמָזוֹן לִבְנֵי בֵּיתוֹ, וּמַרְבֶּה עֲבָדִים לַעֲבֹד הַשָּׂדוֹת וְהַכְּרָמִים
"At first a person adorns himself, and eats and drinks, and puts on flesh. After that he seeks to increase his possessions. Once he has increased his possessions and sees that he has the means to support many wives, he takes many wives. Once he has many wives, each one needs a female slave to attend her, so he has many female slaves. And since he has a large household, he needs fields and vineyards to supply wine and food for the members of his household, and he takes many male slaves to work the fields and the vineyards."
Bartenura on Avot 2:7Open the source

The mishnah names what comes with each of the three: witchcraft, immorality, robbery. Rabbeinu Yonah explains that what the members of a person's household do is laid at his door. When the slaves rob, he is punished for it, because it is in his power to prevent them. What the female slaves do counts as if he had done it, because a disgrace was done in his house. And by taking many wives he causes them to turn to witchcraft to win his love. The commentary on Pirkei Avot printed under the name of Rashi (Rabbi Shlomo Yitzchaki, the classic 11th-century commentator) says of the slaves that they rob other people, and sums up: none of these increases counts for anything.

Torah, yeshivah, counsel, tzedakah

For Torah, Bartenura brings a verse: "for it is your life and the length of your days" (Devarim, Deuteronomy, 30:20). In the text of the mishnah that Bartenura explains, the next line reads "the more wisdom, the more yeshivah": one who gives reasons for his words, and whose reasoning sits well with those who hear it, has many students gather to hear him. He then records our reading, "the more yeshivah, the more wisdom": one who has many students, the students sharpen him and add to his wisdom. The commentary printed under Rashi's name explains it the same way and quotes the Gemara's words, "and from my students most of all." The full saying is Rabbi Chanina's (Taanit 7a): I have learned much from my teachers, more from my friends than from my teachers, and from my students most of all.

מִי שֶׁמַּרְבֶּה לִטֹּל עֵצָה מַרְבֶּה תְבוּנָה מֵבִין דָּבָר מִתּוֹךְ דָּבָר מֵעֵצוֹת שֶׁיּוֹעֲצָיו נוֹתְנִים לוֹ
"One who takes much counsel increases understanding: he understands one thing from another, out of the counsel that his advisers give him."
Bartenura on Avot 2:7Open the source

For tzedakah, Bartenura brings Yeshayahu (Isaiah 32:17): "And the work of tzedakah will be peace." Rabbeinu Yonah: people who benefit from his money love him, and so he increases peace in the world.

A good name

Rabbeinu Yonah: a good name is a person's own, and he will not leave it to others. It is the opposite of possessions, which he leaves behind when he dies. Tosafot Yom Tov brings a reading from an earlier commentary: "for himself" means for his own benefit in this world.

How this follows the mishnah before it

Tosafot Yom Tov, on the mishnah before this one (Avot 2:6), connects the two. There Hillel said that a person is paid back measure for measure, and what we see often contradicts it. This list, he suggests, shows the same order in things we can see: each increase, for bad or for good, brings what fits it.

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Thursday, November 26 · Avot 2:8

Learned a Lot? That's What You're Here For.

A teacher who left nothing in the Torah unlearned said: take no credit for it. Then he counted out his students' praises, one by one.

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Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai says: if you have learned much Torah, do not take credit for yourself. Why should a person not take credit for it?

Today's teaching

Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai (Rabban means "our master") received the tradition from Hillel and from Shammai. His teaching: if you have learned much Torah, do not take credit for yourself, because for this you were created. Bartenura (Rabbi Ovadiah of Bartenura, the classic 15th-century commentator on the Mishnah) notes who is saying it: a man who left nothing in the Torah unlearned. The mishnah (teaching) then names his five students, and says he used to count their praise: one is a plastered cistern (a pit that holds rainwater) that does not lose a drop, another a spring that keeps gaining strength. Which one outweighs all the sages of Israel? It records two answers, and Bartenura found it written that both are true: one for memory, one for sharpness.

Read the mishnahThe opening of Pirkei Avot 2:8 in Hebrew, with our English. The rest of the mishnah is in Go deeper.
רַבָּן יוֹחָנָן בֶּן זַכַּאי קִבֵּל מֵהִלֵּל וּמִשַּׁמָּאי. הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, אִם לָמַדְתָּ תוֹרָה הַרְבֵּה, אַל תַּחֲזִיק טוֹבָה לְעַצְמְךָ, כִּי לְכָךְ נוֹצָרְתָּ
"Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai received [the tradition] from Hillel and from Shammai. He used to say: If you have learned much Torah, do not take credit for yourself, because for this you were created."
Pirkei Avot 2:8Open the source
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Take less credit, and say what other people are good at

The app says 412 days. The number is in orange, next to a small flame, and you have looked at it more often than the learning required. Maybe the flame is harmless. It did get you to open a Gemara (the Talmud) on nights when you would not have. Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai's line is about the step after the learning: the credit. Do not take credit for yourself, Bartenura explains, by saying: I have learned much Torah. Rabbeinu Yonah (Rabbi Yonah of Gerona, 13th century) compares it to a man who has paid back a debt. Does anyone give him credit for that?

Then, in the same mishnah, the same teacher counts out praise for his five students, one at a time, a few words each. In our words: the one who says not to credit yourself hands credit out by name.

The mishnah speaks about Torah, and Rabbeinu Yonah adds mitzvot (commandments). Carrying it to the office is ours. There most of us do the reverse: we could list our own strengths, and of the person at the next desk we say, "He's great." Great at what? Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai's praise of Rabbi Eliezer is five words long in Hebrew, and no one would mistake it for the praise of the other four. The flame, meanwhile, will say 413 tomorrow.

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For this you were created

לוֹמַר הַרְבֵּה תּוֹרָה לָמַדְתִּי. וּלְפִי שֶׁהוּא לֹא הִנִּיחַ לֹא מִקְרָא וְלֹא מִשְׁנָה הֲלָכָה וְאַגָּדָה שֶׁלֹּא לָמַד (סכה כח., בבא בתרא קלד.), הָיָה אוֹמֵר כֵּן
"[Do not take credit for yourself,] saying: I have learned much Torah. And because he himself left no Scripture (Tanach, the Bible), no Mishnah, halachah (law) or aggadah (the Sages' teachings that are not law) that he did not learn, he used to say this."
Bartenura on Avot 2:8Open the source

A baraita (a teaching of the Sages from the time of the Mishnah that was not included in it) in the Gemara (Sukkah 28a) says of Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai that he left aside neither Scripture nor Mishnah, neither Gemara, halachot nor aggadot, neither a great matter nor a small one. The same page says that Hillel the Elder had eighty students, and that the least of them all was Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai.

The commentary on Pirkei Avot printed under the name of Rashi (Rabbi Shlomo Yitzchaki, the classic 11th-century commentator) explains "for this you were created": for this you came into the world. It brings a teaching from the Gemara (Shabbat 88a, where it is Reish Lakish's): the Holy One, blessed be He, made a condition with the works of creation, that if Israel does not accept the Torah, He will return the world to formlessness and emptiness. "So a great obligation lies on him, and it is not a favor that he does."

Rabbeinu Yonah gives two reasons. You are still at the beginning: the Torah is "longer than the earth and wider than the sea" (Iyov, Job, 11:9), and a person has not done one part in a thousand of what there is for him to do. And the Holy One, blessed be He, brought you into being only to do His will. "It is like a debtor who has paid his debt. Do people give him credit for that?" He adds that the same is true of mitzvot (commandments).

Avot de-Rabbi Natan (an early expansion of Pirkei Avot), chapter 14, has the saying as "if you have done much of your Torah," and explains:

לפי שלא נוצרו הבריות אלא על מנת שיתעסקו בתורה
"For people were created only on condition that they occupy themselves with Torah."
Avot de-Rabbi Natan 14:2Open the source

The five students

חֲמִשָּׁה תַלְמִידִים הָיוּ לוֹ לְרַבָּן יוֹחָנָן בֶּן זַכַּאי, וְאֵלּוּ הֵן, רַבִּי אֱלִיעֶזֶר בֶּן הוֹרְקְנוֹס, וְרַבִּי יְהוֹשֻׁעַ בֶּן חֲנַנְיָה, וְרַבִּי יוֹסֵי הַכֹּהֵן, וְרַבִּי שִׁמְעוֹן בֶּן נְתַנְאֵל, וְרַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר בֶּן עֲרָךְ. הוּא הָיָה מוֹנֶה שִׁבְחָן. רַבִּי אֱלִיעֶזֶר בֶּן הוֹרְקְנוֹס, בּוֹר סוּד שֶׁאֵינוֹ מְאַבֵּד טִפָּה. רַבִּי יְהוֹשֻׁעַ בֶּן חֲנַנְיָה, אַשְׁרֵי יוֹלַדְתּוֹ. רַבִּי יוֹסֵי הַכֹּהֵן, חָסִיד. רַבִּי שִׁמְעוֹן בֶּן נְתַנְאֵל, יְרֵא חֵטְא. וְרַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר בֶּן עֲרָךְ, מַעְיָן הַמִּתְגַּבֵּר
"Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai had five students, and these are they: Rabbi Eliezer ben Hyrcanus, Rabbi Yehoshua ben Chananiah, Rabbi Yose the Kohen, Rabbi Shimon ben Netanel and Rabbi Elazar ben Arach. He used to count their praise. Rabbi Eliezer ben Hyrcanus: a plastered cistern that does not lose a drop. Rabbi Yehoshua ben Chananiah: happy is she who bore him. Rabbi Yose the Kohen [priest]: a chasid [a pious person]. Rabbi Shimon ben Netanel: one who fears sin. And Rabbi Elazar ben Arach: a spring that keeps gaining strength."
Pirkei Avot 2:8Open the source

A plastered cistern: Bartenura says the reading is bor sud, a cistern coated with plaster.

כָּךְ הוּא אֵינוֹ שׁוֹכֵחַ דָּבָר אֶחָד מִתַּלְמוּדוֹ
"So he does not forget one thing of what he has learned."
Bartenura on Avot 2:8Open the source

Happy is she who bore him: Bartenura gives two readings. He was so blessed with good traits that everyone said of him, happy is the one who bore him. And some say: because she brought it about that he became wise. She used to go around to all the study halls in her city and say to them: I ask of you, pray for this child inside me, that he become a sage. And from the day he was born she did not take his cradle out of the beit midrash (the study hall), so that nothing but words of Torah would enter his ears. In the Talmud of the Land of Israel (Yevamot 1:6), Rabbi Dosa ben Harkinas says of Rabbi Yehoshua: I remember that his mother used to bring his cradle to the synagogue, so that his ears would cling to words of Torah.

שֶׁעוֹשֶׂה לִפְנִים מִשּׁוּרַת הַדִּין
"[A chasid:] one who does more than the letter of the law."
Bartenura on Avot 2:8Open the source
מַחְמִיר עַל עַצְמוֹ וְאוֹסֵר עָלָיו דְּבָרִים הַמֻּתָּרִים, מִיִּרְאָתוֹ שֶׁמָּא יָבֹא לִידֵי חֵטְא
"[One who fears sin:] he is strict with himself, and forbids himself things that are permitted, out of his fear that he may come to sin."
Bartenura on Avot 2:8Open the source

Otherwise, Bartenura asks, what would be special about him? Even an am ha'aretz (an unlearned person) can be one who fears sin, as an earlier mishnah (Avot 2:5) implied, in Bartenura's reading there.

לִבּוֹ רָחָב וּמוֹסִיף פִּלְפּוּל וּסְבָרוֹת מִדַּעְתּוֹ
"[A spring that keeps gaining strength:] his heart is broad, and he adds analysis and reasoning of his own."
Bartenura on Avot 2:8Open the source

The Rambam (the great 12th-century teacher of Jewish law and philosophy) explains each of the five praises. Rabbi Eliezer is praised for a good memory. Rabbi Yehoshua for traits of character, through which a person is fortunate, honored and loved by most people. Rabbi Yose for good character and for virtues of the intellect. Rabbi Shimon for fear of sin, which the Rambam explains as eagerness and effort in what is good, and care to keep from what is bad. And Rabbi Elazar ben Arach for good understanding: every deep matter was easy for him, and his understanding added to it.

Avot de-Rabbi Natan has other praises as well. Rabbi Eliezer is also "a tarred jug that keeps its wine." Rabbi Yehoshua is "a threefold cord that is not quickly broken." Rabbi Yose is "the chasid of the generation." And Rabbi Elazar ben Arach is "a rushing stream and a spring that keeps gaining strength, whose waters grow stronger and go out."

The scales

הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, אִם יִהְיוּ כָל חַכְמֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל בְּכַף מֹאזְנַיִם, וֶאֱלִיעֶזֶר בֶּן הוֹרְקְנוֹס בְּכַף שְׁנִיָּה, מַכְרִיעַ אֶת כֻּלָּם. אַבָּא שָׁאוּל אוֹמֵר מִשְּׁמוֹ, אִם יִהְיוּ כָל חַכְמֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל בְּכַף מֹאזְנַיִם וְרַבִּי אֱלִיעֶזֶר בֶּן הוֹרְקְנוֹס אַף עִמָּהֶם, וְרַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר בֶּן עֲרָךְ בְּכַף שְׁנִיָּה, מַכְרִיעַ אֶת כֻּלָּם
"He used to say: If all the sages of Israel were on one pan of a scale, and Eliezer ben Hyrcanus on the other pan, he would outweigh them all. Abba Shaul says in his name: If all the sages of Israel were on one pan of a scale, and Rabbi Eliezer ben Hyrcanus with them too, and Rabbi Elazar ben Arach on the other pan, he would outweigh them all."
Pirkei Avot 2:8Open the source
מָצָאתִי כָּתוּב, דְּאַבָּא שָׁאוּל לֹא נֶחְלַק עַל תַּנָּא קַמָּא, וּשְׁנֵי הַדְּבָרִים אֲמָרָם רַבָּן יוֹחָנָן בֶּן זַכַּאי, וּשְׁנֵיהֶם אֱמֶת, דִּלְעִנְיַן הַבְּקִיאוּת וְהַזִּכָּרוֹן הָיָה רַבִּי אֱלִיעֶזֶר מַכְרִיעַ, וּלְעִנְיַן הַחֲרִיפוּת וְהַפִּלְפּוּל הָיָה רַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר בֶּן עֲרָךְ מַכְרִיעַ
"I found it written that Abba Shaul did not disagree with the first, unnamed opinion in the mishnah. Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai said both things, and both are true. In knowledge and memory, Rabbi Eliezer outweighed them. And in sharpness and analysis, Rabbi Elazar ben Arach outweighed them."
Bartenura on Avot 2:8Open the source

Rabbeinu Yonah explains the two statements the same way. The commentary printed under Rashi's name adds that Rabbi Eliezer was not as sharp as Rabbi Elazar ben Arach, and quotes a saying from the Gemara: between "Sinai" (one who knows the whole tradition) and "one who uproots mountains" (one with a sharp mind), Sinai is preferable. The Gemara (Horayot 14a) records that Rabban Shimon ben Gamliel and the Sages disagreed about which is preferable. It tells of two sages, Rav Yosef, who was "Sinai," and Rabbah, who was "one who uproots mountains," when one of them had to be chosen to lead. They sent the question to the Land of Israel, and the answer that came back was: Sinai is preferable, because everyone needs the one who has the wheat. Even so, Rav Yosef did not accept, and Rabbah led first, for twenty-two years.

Received from Hillel and from Shammai

Tosafot Yom Tov (Rabbi Yom Tov Lipmann Heller, a 17th-century commentator on the Mishnah) asks why the mishnah stops here to say from whom he received. In the line of Hillel's descendants there was no need to say it. Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai was not of that family. And he had many students, among whom, and after whom, disputes multiplied. So the mishnah records that even though they disagreed about many laws, they had received the essence of the Torah.

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Friday, November 27 · Avot 2:9

Pay Back What You Borrowed

Asked which path to stay far from, Rabbi Shimon answered: one who borrows and does not repay.

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Think first

Rabbi Shimon said the straight path is to see what will come of things. Asked for the bad path, he did not say "not seeing what will come." He said: one who borrows and does not repay. Why that?

Today's teaching

Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai asked his five students: which is the straight path a person should hold to? A good eye, said Rabbi Eliezer. A good friend. A good neighbor. Seeing what will come of things. A good heart, said Rabbi Elazar ben Arach, and their teacher preferred that answer, because it includes the others. Then he asked for the bad path. Four gave the opposite of their first answer. Rabbi Shimon ben Netanel said: one who borrows and does not repay. Bartenura (Rabbi Ovadiah of Bartenura, the classic 15th-century commentator on the Mishnah) explains: that is the opposite of seeing what will come. If he does not repay, no one will lend to him, and he will be left to go hungry. And he did not simply say "one who does not look ahead," Bartenura adds, because such a person may still escape harm when it comes.

Read the mishnahRabbi Shimon's answer, from Pirkei Avot 2:9. The whole mishnah is in Go deeper.
רַבִּי שִׁמְעוֹן אוֹמֵר, הַלֹּוֶה וְאֵינוֹ מְשַׁלֵּם. אֶחָד הַלֹּוֶה מִן הָאָדָם, כְּלֹוֶה מִן הַמָּקוֹם בָּרוּךְ הוּא, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (תהלים לז) לֹוֶה רָשָׁע וְלֹא יְשַׁלֵּם, וְצַדִּיק חוֹנֵן וְנוֹתֵן
"[Which is the bad path a person should keep far from?] Rabbi Shimon says: One who borrows and does not repay. One who borrows from a person is like one who borrows from the Makom [a name of God], blessed be He, as it is said (Tehillim, Psalms, 37): 'The wicked one borrows and does not repay, and the righteous one is gracious and gives.'"
Pirkei Avot 2:9Open the source
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Settle up before anyone has to ask

A few weeks ago four of you went out to dinner and one person put down his card. You said, "I'll send you my share tonight." It was $46. He has not mentioned it, and he is not going to, because he is the kind of person who puts down his card. You remember it about once a week, always when your phone is in another room.

The mishnah (teaching) adds a verse. One who borrows from a person is like one who borrows from the Makom (literally "the Place," a name of God). Bartenura: the Holy One, blessed be He, gives the lender what was borrowed and not repaid. So the borrower is still in debt, and now it is to Him.

The verse speaks of a rasha, a wicked person, who borrows and does not repay. Whether a forgotten dinner share has anything to do with him is a question for a rav (a rabbi), not for this page. Sending it takes a minute. He may write back, "Oh, I forgot all about that." He probably did not.

Today's move

Before Shabbat, pay back one thing you owe: money, a book, anything you said you would return.

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Ask yourself, or your study partnerWhat am I holding that belongs to someone else?

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The whole mishnah

אָמַר לָהֶם, צְאוּ וּרְאוּ אֵיזוֹהִי דֶרֶךְ יְשָׁרָה שֶׁיִּדְבַּק בָּהּ הָאָדָם. רַבִּי אֱלִיעֶזֶר אוֹמֵר, עַיִן טוֹבָה. רַבִּי יְהוֹשֻׁעַ אוֹמֵר, חָבֵר טוֹב. רַבִּי יוֹסֵי אוֹמֵר, שָׁכֵן טוֹב. רַבִּי שִׁמְעוֹן אוֹמֵר, הָרוֹאֶה אֶת הַנּוֹלָד. רַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר אוֹמֵר, לֵב טוֹב. אָמַר לָהֶם, רוֹאֶה אֲנִי אֶת דִּבְרֵי אֶלְעָזָר בֶּן עֲרָךְ מִדִּבְרֵיכֶם, שֶׁבִּכְלָל דְּבָרָיו דִּבְרֵיכֶם
"He said to them: Go out and see which is the straight path that a person should hold to. Rabbi Eliezer says: a good eye. Rabbi Yehoshua says: a good friend. Rabbi Yose says: a good neighbor. Rabbi Shimon says: one who sees what will come of things. Rabbi Elazar says: a good heart. He said to them: I prefer the words of Elazar ben Arach to your words, for your words are included in his."
Pirkei Avot 2:9Open the source
אָמַר לָהֶם צְאוּ וּרְאוּ אֵיזוֹהִי דֶרֶךְ רָעָה שֶׁיִּתְרַחֵק מִמֶּנָּה הָאָדָם. רַבִּי אֱלִיעֶזֶר אוֹמֵר, עַיִן רָעָה. רַבִּי יְהוֹשֻׁעַ אוֹמֵר, חָבֵר רָע. רַבִּי יוֹסֵי אוֹמֵר, שָׁכֵן רָע. רַבִּי שִׁמְעוֹן אוֹמֵר, הַלֹּוֶה וְאֵינוֹ מְשַׁלֵּם. אֶחָד הַלֹּוֶה מִן הָאָדָם, כְּלֹוֶה מִן הַמָּקוֹם בָּרוּךְ הוּא, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (תהלים לז) לֹוֶה רָשָׁע וְלֹא יְשַׁלֵּם, וְצַדִּיק חוֹנֵן וְנוֹתֵן. רַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר אוֹמֵר, לֵב רָע. אָמַר לָהֶם, רוֹאֶה אֲנִי אֶת דִּבְרֵי אֶלְעָזָר בֶּן עֲרָךְ מִדִּבְרֵיכֶם, שֶׁבִּכְלָל דְּבָרָיו דִּבְרֵיכֶם
"He said to them: Go out and see which is the bad path that a person should keep far from. Rabbi Eliezer says: a bad eye. Rabbi Yehoshua says: a bad friend. Rabbi Yose says: a bad neighbor. Rabbi Shimon says: one who borrows and does not repay. One who borrows from a person is like one who borrows from the Makom, blessed be He, as it is said: 'The wicked one borrows and does not repay, and the righteous one is gracious and gives.' Rabbi Elazar says: a bad heart. He said to them: I prefer the words of Elazar ben Arach to your words, for your words are included in his."
Pirkei Avot 2:9Open the source

The five answers

מִסְתַּפֵּק בְּמַה שֶּׁיֵּשׁ לוֹ וְאֵינוֹ מְבַקֵּשׁ דְּבָרִים יְתֵרִים וְאֵינוֹ מְקַנֵּא כְּשֶׁרוֹאֶה שֶׁיֵּשׁ לַחֲבֵרָיו יוֹתֵר מִמֶּנּוּ
"[A good eye:] he is content with what he has, and does not seek extra things, and does not envy when he sees that his fellows have more than he does."
Bartenura on Avot 2:9Open the source
שֶׁמּוֹכִיחוֹ כְּשֶׁרוֹאֶה אוֹתוֹ עוֹשֶׂה דָּבָר שֶׁאֵינוֹ הָגוּן
"[A good friend:] one who rebukes him when he sees him doing a thing that is not proper."
Bartenura on Avot 2:9Open the source

A good neighbor, Bartenura says, is found near a person by day and by night, while a good friend is not with him at every hour. One who sees what will come looks ahead to what is going to be, and so he comes to weigh the loss from a mitzvah (commandment) against its reward, and the gain from a sin against its loss. Those are words of Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi (the Prince) at the start of this chapter (Avot 2:1).

לְפִי שֶׁהַלֵּב הוּא הַמֵּנִיעַ לְכָל שְׁאָר הַכֹּחוֹת וְהוּא הַמָּקוֹר שֶׁמִּמֶּנּוּ נוֹבְעִים כָּל הַפְּעֻלּוֹת
"[A good heart:] because the heart is what moves all the other powers, and it is the source from which all actions flow."
Bartenura on Avot 2:9Open the source

The Rambam (the great 12th-century teacher of Jewish law and philosophy) explains a good heart as good actions, meaning the balanced ones, neither too much nor too little, which come from good traits of character. It includes contentment, love of good people and the other virtues, and that, he says, is what "your words are included in his" means.

Rabbeinu Yonah (Rabbi Yonah of Gerona, 13th century) reads the question differently. A person should hold to every good and upright trait. The question is which one trait to be complete in, "for it is better for a person to hold one trait completely, and from it he will easily reach all the important traits, than to have several traits and be complete in none of them." On his reading the answers are things to be. Be a good friend to another person. Be a good neighbor to all your neighbors: one who is a true friend to five people or to eight is close to loving everyone. And he explains a good heart as patience: one who is not short-tempered, who keeps far from anger and answers gently.

Why he asked a second time

Bartenura asks why Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai needed to ask about the bad path. Is it not simply the opposite of the good one? Not always, he answers. Going beyond the letter of the law is good, and one who does not, and keeps to the law of the Torah, is not bad. A person could have said the same here: contentment is a good path, but seeking more is not a bad path, since he harms no one by it. So the question had to be asked.

Borrowing and not repaying

הוּא הֵפֶךְ הָרוֹאֶה אֶת הַנּוֹלָד, שֶׁאִם לֹא יְשַׁלֵּם לֹא יִמְצָא מִי שֶׁיַּלְוֶנּוּ וְיִהְיֶה מֻטָּל בָּרָעָב. וְלֹא אָמַר סְתָם מִי שֶׁאֵינוֹ רוֹאֶה אֶת הַנּוֹלָד, לְפִי שֶׁאֶפְשָׁר לָאָדָם שֶׁאֵינוֹ רוֹאֶה אֶת הַנּוֹלָד שֶׁלֹּא יָבֹא לִידֵי תַּקָּלָה, שֶׁיַּצִּיל עַצְמוֹ בְּבֹא הַנּוֹלָד הַהוּא
"This is the opposite of one who sees what will come. For if he does not repay, he will find no one to lend to him, and he will be left to go hungry. And he did not simply say 'one who does not see what will come,' because a person who does not see what will come may yet not come to harm: he may save himself when the thing arrives."
Bartenura on Avot 2:9Open the source
הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא שֶׁהוּא צַדִּיקוֹ שֶׁל עוֹלָם חוֹנֵן וְנוֹתֵן לַמַּלְוֶה מַה שֶּׁלָּוָה זֶה מִמֶּנּוּ וְלֹא פָּרַע לוֹ, נִמְצָא הַלּוֶֹה נִשְׁאַר חַיָּב לַמָּקוֹם
"The Holy One, blessed be He, who is the Righteous One of the world, is gracious and gives the lender what this man borrowed from him and did not repay. So the borrower remains in debt to the Makom."
Bartenura on Avot 2:9Open the source

The Rambam reads the verse the same way, and brings two verses in which Hashem (God) is called righteous (Devarim, Deuteronomy, 32:4, and Nechemiah, Nehemiah, 9:33). The commentary on Pirkei Avot printed under the name of Rashi (Rabbi Shlomo Yitzchaki, the classic 11th-century commentator) explains the name Makom, literally "place": He is the place of the world, and the world is not His place.

Rabbeinu Yonah says that "like one who borrows from the Makom" answers a person who thinks: I have nothing to pay with, he has already taken me to court, they found nothing of mine to seize, and I left cleared. What is my sin? You may be cleared by human judgment, he writes, but not by the judgment of Heaven. He reads the verse closely: one who borrows and does not repay is called wicked even if he has nothing, because from the start he should have looked at how he would repay. At the time of the loan, a person has to think and see whether he will be able to pay it back when the time comes.

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Shabbat, November 28 · Avot 2:10

Hold Their Honor as Dear as Your Own

Rabbi Eliezer: let your fellow's honor be as dear to you as your own.

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Think first

Rabbi Eliezer says: let your fellow's honor be as dear to you as your own. Then he adds: do not be easy to anger. What does the second have to do with the first?

Today's teaching

Each of Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai's five students said three things. Rabbi Eliezer ben Hyrcanus is first. Let your fellow's honor be as dear to you as your own, and do not be easy to anger: Bartenura (Rabbi Ovadiah of Bartenura, the classic 15th-century commentator on the Mishnah) counts these as one. His honor will be dear to you when you are not easy to anger, because one who is easy to anger cannot avoid belittling it. Second: repent one day before your death. A person does not know when he will die, Bartenura explains, so let him repent today. Third: warm yourself at the fire of the Sages (the Torah scholars), but be careful of their coals. Do not treat them lightly, he says, or you will be punished on their account.

Read the mishnahPirkei Avot 2:10 in Hebrew, with our English
הֵם אָמְרוּ שְׁלשָׁה דְבָרִים. רַבִּי אֱלִיעֶזֶר אוֹמֵר, יְהִי כְבוֹד חֲבֵרְךָ חָבִיב עָלֶיךָ כְּשֶׁלָּךְ, וְאַל תְּהִי נוֹחַ לִכְעֹס. וְשׁוּב יוֹם אֶחָד לִפְנֵי מִיתָתְךָ. וֶהֱוֵי מִתְחַמֵּם כְּנֶגֶד אוּרָן שֶׁל חֲכָמִים, וֶהֱוֵי זָהִיר בְּגַחַלְתָּן שֶׁלֹּא תִכָּוֶה, שֶׁנְּשִׁיכָתָן נְשִׁיכַת שׁוּעָל, וַעֲקִיצָתָן עֲקִיצַת עַקְרָב, וּלְחִישָׁתָן לְחִישַׁת שָׂרָף, וְכָל דִּבְרֵיהֶם כְּגַחֲלֵי אֵשׁ
"They [each] said three things. Rabbi Eliezer says: Let your fellow's honor be as dear to you as your own, and do not be easy to anger. Repent one day before your death. And warm yourself at the fire of the Sages, but be careful of their coals, so that you are not burned: for their bite is the bite of a fox, their sting is the sting of a scorpion, their hiss is the hiss of a serpent, and all their words are like coals of fire."
Pirkei Avot 2:10Open the source
Take it to the Shabbat table

Let people finish their stories

Someone at the table is telling the story about the car. He says it was 2009. It was 2011, and you know this for certain. He is one sentence from the good part when you hear your own voice say, "2011." He stops. He says, "Was it?" The story gets finished, but something has gone out of it.

In our words: the correction was quick, the way temper is quick. The year was wrong, and something in you could not let it stand. Avot de-Rabbi Natan (an early expansion of Pirkei Avot) gives the measure for honor: as a person looks to his own honor, so he should look to his fellow's.

You could list, with dates, the times this year you were corrected in front of people. The list of times you did the correcting is shorter, and probably not because it happened less. The car story will be told again. This time, let it be 2009.

This Shabbat

At the Shabbat table, let each person tell one story all the way through. Nobody corrects a detail or finishes the sentence.

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Ask yourself, or your study partnerWhose honor do I treat more roughly than my own?

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Three things

בְּדֶרֶךְ אֶרֶץ וּבְמוּסָרִים וּבְמִדּוֹת. דְּאִלּוּ בְּעִנְיַן הָאָסוּר וְהַמֻּתָּר וְהַפְּטוּר וְהַחִיּוּב דְּבָרִים הַרְבֵּה אָמְרוּ. אִי נַמִּי, אֵלּוּ הַשְּׁלֹשָׁה דְּבָרִים הֲוֵי מַרְגְּלָא בְּפוּמַיְהוּ תָּמִיד
"[Three things] about proper conduct, moral teaching and traits of character. For on what is forbidden and permitted, exempt and liable, they said many things. Or: these three things were always on their lips."
Bartenura on Avot 2:10Open the source

Honor and anger

וְאֵימָתַי יְהֵא זֶה, כְּשֶׁלֹּא תְּהִי נוֹחַ לִכְעֹס, שֶׁאִם אַתָּה נוֹחַ לִכְעֹס אִי אֶפְשָׁר שֶׁלֹּא תְּזַלְזֵל בִּכְבוֹד חֲבֵרְךָ
"And when will this be? When you are not easy to anger. For if you are easy to anger, it is impossible that you will not belittle your fellow's honor."
Bartenura on Avot 2:10Open the source
שכשם שרואה את כבודו כך יהא אדם רואה את כבוד חבירו וכשם שאין אדם רוצה שיהא שם רע על כבודו כך יהא אדם רוצה שלא להוציא שם רע על כבודו של חברו
"Just as a person looks to his own honor, so should a person look to his fellow's honor. And just as a person does not want there to be a bad name on his own honor, so should a person want not to spread a bad name against his fellow's honor."
Avot de-Rabbi Natan 15:1Open the source

Tosafot Yom Tov (Rabbi Yom Tov Lipmann Heller, a 17th-century commentator on the Mishnah) brings a question from an earlier commentary, the Midrash Shmuel: what of a person who does not care about his own honor? Will he then not care about his fellow's? Tosafot Yom Tov answers that the mishnah (teaching) speaks to someone whose own honor is dear to him, which is why it says "dear to you." His proof is a mishnah two further on, "Let your fellow's money be as dear to you as your own" (Avot 2:12). Would anyone think that a person who scatters and loses his own money may scatter and lose his fellow's?

The Rambam (the great 12th-century teacher of Jewish law and philosophy) explains the second half:

אל תכין עצמך לכעס ולרגזנות
"Do not make yourself ready for anger and bad temper."
Rambam on Avot 2:10Open the source

The Sages, he says, spoke very strongly against anger, and their strongest words are that one who is angry is like one who worships idols. They attached it to the verse (Tehillim, Psalms, 81:10): "There shall be no strange god in you." In the Gemara as we have it (the Talmud; tractate Shabbat, page 105b), the teaching with this verse is about acts done in anger. It is taught there in the name of Rabbi Yochanan ben Nuri: one who tears his clothes in his anger, breaks his things in his anger or scatters his money in his anger should be in your eyes like one who worships idols. For that is the craft of the yetzer hara (the pull toward doing wrong): today it tells him, do this, and tomorrow it tells him, do that, until it tells him to worship idols, and he goes and does it. Rabbi Avin brings the verse.

Avot de-Rabbi Natan, chapter 15, explains "do not be easy to anger" with the two great teachers of chapter 1: let a person be humble like Hillel the Elder, and not impatient like Shammai the Elder. It tells of two men who made a bet of four hundred zuz (silver coins) on whether one of them could make Hillel angry. One of them came to Hillel's door on a Friday afternoon, again and again, with odd questions, and he lost the bet. The Gemara tells the story too (Shabbat 30b to 31a).

Rabbeinu Yonah (Rabbi Yonah of Gerona, 13th century) notes that a person will sometimes be angry in spite of himself, and that the mishnah asks him not to be easy to anger. Weigh it on the scales of your mind, he writes: is this a thing to be angry about? If you find any argument for putting the anger away, put it away. He brings Kohelet (Ecclesiastes 7:9): "Do not be quick in your spirit to anger, for anger rests in the lap of fools."

One day before your death

וּלְפִי שֶׁאֵין אָדָם יוֹדֵעַ אֵימָתַי יָמוּת, יַעֲשֶׂה תְּשׁוּבָה הַיּוֹם שֶׁמָּא יָמוּת לְמָחָר
"And since a person does not know when he will die, let him repent today, in case he dies tomorrow."
Bartenura on Avot 2:10Open the source
שאלו תלמידיו את רבי אליעזר וכי אדם יודע באיזה יום ימות שיעשה תשובה אמר להם כל שכן שיעשה תשובה היום שמא ימות למחר ישוב למחר שמא ימות למחרתו ונמצא כל ימיו בתשובה
"His students asked Rabbi Eliezer: Does a person know on which day he will die, so that he can repent? He said to them: All the more so, let him repent today, in case he dies tomorrow. Let him repent tomorrow, in case he dies the day after. And so all his days are spent in repentance."
Avot de-Rabbi Natan 15:4Open the source

The Gemara (Shabbat 153a) tells it in nearly the same words, and adds a verse from Kohelet (9:8), "At all times let your clothes be white," and a parable of Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai, Rabbi Eliezer's teacher. A king invited his servants to a feast and did not set a time. The wise ones dressed up and sat at the door of the king's house. The foolish ones went to their work. Suddenly the king called for his servants. The wise came in before him dressed up, and the foolish came in dirty. The king was glad to see the wise and angry at the foolish.

The fire and the coals

Bartenura counts the warning about the Sages as the third of Rabbi Eliezer's three things. The Rambam counts differently. This, he says, is not Rabbi Eliezer's own teaching but something he heard from another and used to repeat, and so it is not counted among his words. Avot de-Rabbi Natan lists the three as honor, anger and repentance, and brings the fire and the coals afterwards, as a teaching handed down in Rabbi Eliezer's name.

והמשיל זה במי שמתחמם באש שאם ישב רחוק ממנו יהנה בחומו ויקבל תועלת באורו ואם יפשע בעצמו ויוסיף להתקרב אליו ישרף וישוב לו התועלת לנזק
"He compared this to one who warms himself at a fire. If he sits at a distance from it, he enjoys its heat and benefits from its light. And if he is careless with himself and keeps coming closer to it, he is burned, and the benefit turns into harm for him."
Rambam on Avot 2:10Open the source

The Rambam reads it as a rule for keeping company with the wise and with people of high character. Do not be too familiar with them, and do not be proud toward them. Come close when they bring you close, and no closer than they bring you, "so that you do not spoil their intention toward you, and turn their love into hatred."

Bartenura explains "be careful of their coals": do not treat the Sages lightly, so that you are not punished on their account. Then he explains the three comparisons. A fox's bite is hard to heal, because its teeth are thin and crooked. A scorpion's sting is worse than a snake's bite. And the saraf (a kind of serpent) burns with its breath as it hisses. Or, in a second reading: this serpent does not respond to a snake charmer's whisper as other snakes do (Tehillim 58:6), and so a Torah scholar, if you provoke him and then come to make peace with him, does not accept it.

In his code of law, the Mishneh Torah (Hilchot Talmud Torah, the Laws of Torah Study, 7:13), the Rambam writes about how a Torah scholar himself should act. A sage may place a person under a ban for slighting his honor, he writes, but it is no praise for a scholar to do so. The early pious ones heard themselves insulted and did not answer, and forgave the one who had insulted them. That is when the insult was in private. A scholar who was shamed in public may not give up his honor, and if he does he is punished, because it is a shaming of the Torah. He "takes revenge and holds on to the matter like a snake, until the other asks his forgiveness, and he forgives him."

The commentary on Pirkei Avot printed under the name of Rashi (Rabbi Shlomo Yitzchaki, the classic 11th-century commentator) reads the coals as the words of the Sages: be careful not to be punished on their account by going against what they said, "even the lightest of the light."

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