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Pirkei Avot · Chapter 3
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Seven days from Rabbi Chanina ben Dosa to Rabbi Akiva

One mishnah a day from Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers), the book of the Mishnah about character. The mishnah, what it means with the classic commentators, and how to take it to work. About two minutes. Want more? Every day has a "Go deeper" section with the commentators and every source.

The sources are in the dark boxes. Take it to work is our application of the mishnah.

Sunday, December 13 · Avot 3:9

What Comes Before Wisdom

Rabbi Chanina ben Dosa: anyone whose fear of sin comes before his wisdom, his wisdom lasts. And anyone whose wisdom comes before his fear of sin, his wisdom does not last ...

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Think first

Two people learn the same thing, equally well. A year later one still has it, and the other has let it go. Before you read on: what might the first have had before he began?

Today's teaching

When a person's fear of sin (his care not to sin) comes before his wisdom, Rabbi Chanina ben Dosa (a sage of the time of the Mishnah) says, his wisdom lasts. Bartenura (Rabbi Ovadiah of Bartenura, the classic 15th-century commentator on the Mishnah, the Sages' collection of teachings) writes what he heard: it comes first in thought. He thinks, "I will learn so that I will be one who fears sin." Then the wisdom brings him to what his heart wants, and he enjoys it. One whose wisdom comes first does not learn in order to do, since his heart is not turned toward fearing sin. The wisdom keeps him from going after the stubbornness of his heart, so he grows sick of it, rejects it and leaves it. A second saying follows: when a person's deeds are more than his wisdom, his wisdom lasts (Go deeper).

Read the mishnahPirkei Avot 3:9 in Hebrew, with our English
רַבִּי חֲנִינָא בֶן דּוֹסָא אוֹמֵר, כָּל שֶׁיִּרְאַת חֶטְאוֹ קוֹדֶמֶת לְחָכְמָתוֹ, חָכְמָתוֹ מִתְקַיֶּמֶת. וְכָל שֶׁחָכְמָתוֹ קוֹדֶמֶת לְיִרְאַת חֶטְאוֹ, אֵין חָכְמָתוֹ מִתְקַיֶּמֶת. הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, כָּל שֶׁמַּעֲשָׂיו מְרֻבִּין מֵחָכְמָתוֹ, חָכְמָתוֹ מִתְקַיֶּמֶת. וְכָל שֶׁחָכְמָתוֹ מְרֻבָּה מִמַּעֲשָׂיו, אֵין חָכְמָתוֹ מִתְקַיֶּמֶת
"Rabbi Chanina ben Dosa says: Anyone whose fear of sin comes before his wisdom, his wisdom lasts. And anyone whose wisdom comes before his fear of sin, his wisdom does not last. He used to say: Anyone whose deeds are more than his wisdom, his wisdom lasts. And anyone whose wisdom is more than his deeds, his wisdom does not last."
Pirkei Avot 3:9Open the source
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Learn in order to do

You have been at the same weekly shiur (Torah class) for two years. You know the rabbi's three jokes, which chair has the good armrest, and that the cake comes out at the forty-minute mark. Asked what you do differently because of it, you would need a moment.

Bartenura's learner begins with a thought: "I will learn so that I will be one who fears sin." He brings a saying for this: the beginning of the thought is the end of the deed. (That is, what a person has in mind at the start is what his work reaches at the end.) One who does not learn in order to do, Bartenura writes, ends by leaving what he learned.

In our words: this card does not weigh two years of a shiur. It notes what Bartenura's learner has before he sits down, and asks whether you bring it. The chair, meanwhile, has been patient.

Today's move

Before you sit down to learn Torah today, say in one sentence what you want to do, or to stop doing, because of it. Then learn.

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First, in thought

אֲנִי שָׁמַעְתִּי, שֶׁמַּקְדִּים בְּמַחֲשַׁבְתּוֹ יִרְאַת חֶטְאוֹ לְחָכְמָתוֹ, שֶׁהוּא חוֹשֵׁב בְּלִבּוֹ אֶלְמַד בִּשְׁבִיל שֶׁאֶהְיֶה יְרֵא חֵטְא. וְזֶה עַל דֶּרֶךְ שֶׁאָמְרוּ תְּחִלַּת הַמַּחֲשָׁבָה [הִיא] סוֹף הַמַּעֲשֶׂה
"I heard: he puts his fear of sin before his wisdom in his thought, for he thinks in his heart, 'I will learn so that I will be one who fears sin.' And this is like what they said: the beginning of the thought is the end of the deed."
Bartenura on Avot 3:9Open the source

That is: what a person has in mind at the start is what his work reaches at the end. Tosafot Yom Tov (Rabbi Yom Tov Lipmann Heller, a 17th-century commentator on the Mishnah) uses Bartenura's reading, first in thought, to answer a question. Hillel (one of the earliest sages quoted in Pirkei Avot) said in an earlier mishnah (teaching): "A boor (a person with no learning) cannot be one who fears sin" (Avot 2:5). How, then, can fear of sin come before wisdom? Here, he writes, it comes first in thought and not in practice. A boor does not know what a sin is, that he should fear it. But in thought a person can fear anything that will turn out to be a sin.

The commentary on Pirkei Avot printed under the name of Rashi (Rabbi Shlomo Yitzchaki, the classic 11th-century commentator) has two readings. One: he keeps far from what is forbidden and from sin. The other: in all his deeds and all his affairs, fear of sin comes first and comes before him, and he remembers it in whatever he does. Of wisdom that comes first it says: there is no substance in it, for if there is no fear of Hashem (God), there is no wisdom.

Why it lasts, and why it does not

שֶׁמִּתּוֹךְ שֶׁהִיא מוֹנַעַת אוֹתוֹ מִלָּלֶכֶת אַחֲרֵי שְׁרִירוּת לִבּוֹ הוּא קָץ בָּהּ וּמוֹאֲסָהּ וּמַנִּיחָהּ
"Since it keeps him from going after the stubbornness of his heart, he grows sick of it, rejects it and leaves it."
Bartenura on Avot 3:9Open the source

The Rambam (Rabbi Moshe ben Maimon, 12th century) explains the mishnah by habit:

הנה דבר זה מוסכם עליו מהפלוסופים ג"כ שהרגל המעלות כשיקדם לחכמה עד שיהיה קנין חזק ואחר כך ילמד החכמה אשר תזרזהו על הטובות ההם יוסיף שמחה ואהבה בחכמה ובחריצות להוסיף ממנה אחר שתעוררהו למה שהורגל וכשיקדימו קניני הדעות ואח"כ ילמד ותהי החכמה מונעת אותו ממה שיתאוה בהרגל תכבד עליו החכמה ויניחנה
"This is something the philosophers also agree on. When the habit of the virtues comes before wisdom, until it is firmly his, and afterwards he learns the wisdom that urges him toward those good things, his joy in wisdom and his love for it grow, and his eagerness to add to it, since it stirs him toward what he is used to. But when bad habits [so another printing; see below] have come first, and afterwards he learns, and the wisdom keeps him from what he desires by habit, the wisdom grows heavy on him and he leaves it."
Rambam on Avot 3:9Open the source

One word of our English does not follow the Hebrew shown. Sefaria's text of the Rambam reads kinyanei ha-de'ot; de'ot can mean traits or opinions. Another printing reads kinyanei ha-ra'ot, "bad habits." The two differ by one letter. Our English follows the second. Rabbeinu Yonah (Rabbi Yonah of Gerona, 13th century) gives a second explanation that runs the same way: when wisdom comes first, it keeps a person from sins he is used to, "and in the end he will kick at it, for it seems to him like a load."

The second saying: deeds more than wisdom

Bartenura sets the two sayings side by side. The first speaks of one who is careful about the prohibitions of the Torah, and this one of one who is quick to do its positive mitzvot (the commandments to do something).

Rabbeinu Yonah brings how the early commentators explained it: such a person's desire for wisdom is greater than his wisdom, so every day he adds wisdom to his wisdom. Then he asks: how can a person's deeds be more than his wisdom? If he does not know the Torah and the mitzvot, on what basis does he do them? He answers that the mishnah gives good advice to one who does not yet know. He takes on himself, with a whole heart, to do everything the Sages will tell him, and from that moment he is given reward as if he had taken on all the mitzvot. And so, he writes, it is spelled out in Avot de-Rabbi Natan (an early expansion of Pirkei Avot):

הוא היה אומר כל שמעשיו מרובין וכו' שנא' נעשה ונשמע
"He used to say: Anyone whose deeds are more [and so on], as it is said: 'We will do, and we will hear.'"
Avot de-Rabbi Natan 22:1Open the source

The verse is what Israel said at Mount Sinai (Shemot, Exodus, 24:7). Rabbeinu Yonah: they put doing before hearing. They took on themselves to do all that they would be commanded, and at once received reward as if they had done it. Tosafot Yom Tov adds that this is why the mishnah says "more than" and not "before." The deeds themselves cannot come first, for he does not yet know them. What comes first is taking them on, and what a person takes on is more than he will ever learn.

Avot de-Rabbi Natan goes on, in the same chapter, with a question put to Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai (the leading sage at the time the Second Temple was destroyed). One who is wise and fears sin, what is he? "A craftsman with the tools of his craft in his hand." Wise, and does not fear sin? "A craftsman without the tools of his craft in his hand." Fears sin, and is not wise? "He is not a craftsman, but the tools of his craft are in his hand."

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Monday, December 14 · Avot 3:10

Loved Below, Loved Above

Rabbi Chanina ben Dosa used to say: anyone with whom the spirit of people is pleased, the spirit of the Makom ("the Place," a name of God) is pleased with him ...

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Think first

A person can be careful about every law between himself and God. Why would it matter what the people who deal with him think of him?

Today's teaching

Anyone with whom the spirit of people is pleased, Rabbi Chanina ben Dosa (a sage of the time of the Mishnah) used to say, the spirit of the Makom is pleased with him. Bartenura (Rabbi Ovadiah of Bartenura, the classic 15th-century commentator on the Mishnah, the Sages' collection of teachings): whoever is loved below (by people), it is known that he is loved above (by God). Rabbeinu Yonah (Rabbi Yonah of Gerona, 13th century) says who this is: one whose dealings with people are pleasant, and all recognize that he deals with them in good faith. Tosafot Yom Tov (Rabbi Yom Tov Lipmann Heller, 17th century) brings two points from Midrash Shmuel (Rabbi Shmuel de Uzeda, 16th century). A person cannot say that people dislike him because he is so pious, and that the Makom is pleased with him all the same. And the mishnah (teaching) did not say "all people": we are not concerned with a minority (Go deeper).

Read the mishnahThe first saying of Pirkei Avot 3:10 in Hebrew, with our English. The second saying is in Go deeper.
הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, כָּל שֶׁרוּחַ הַבְּרִיּוֹת נוֹחָה הֵימֶנּוּ, רוּחַ הַמָּקוֹם נוֹחָה הֵימֶנּוּ. וְכָל שֶׁאֵין רוּחַ הַבְּרִיּוֹת נוֹחָה הֵימֶנּוּ, אֵין רוּחַ הַמָּקוֹם נוֹחָה הֵימֶנּוּ
"He used to say: Anyone with whom the spirit of people is pleased, the spirit of the Makom is pleased with him. And anyone with whom the spirit of people is not pleased, the spirit of the Makom is not pleased with him."
Pirkei Avot 3:10Open the source
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Be gentle, and deal in good faith

You are careful. You check the hechsher (kosher certification) on the office snacks, and you have never missed the afternoon minyan (prayer group) on the sixth floor. You also answered the new hire's third question with a link, and the cleaner's "good morning" with a nod at your screen.

Rabbeinu Yonah quotes the first half of a teaching in the Gemara (the Talmud; Yoma 86a). The Gemara asks what counts as chilul Hashem (profaning God's name) and gives several answers. This teaching is one of them. One learns Torah, and his dealings with people are gentle. Of him people say: fortunate is his teacher who taught him Torah. Another learns Torah, and his dealings are not in good faith, and his speech with people is not gentle. Of him people say: woe to his teacher who taught him Torah.

In our words: this card is not judging you, and it does not say which of the two you are. In the Gemara, people speak of a man's Torah and of his dealings in one breath.

Today's move

In one dealing with a person today, be gentle and deal in good faith.

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Loved below

כָּל מִי שֶׁאָהוּב לְמַטָּה בְּיָדוּעַ שֶׁהוּא אָהוּב לְמַעְלָה
"Whoever is loved below, it is known that he is loved above."
Bartenura on Avot 3:10Open the source

The commentary on Pirkei Avot printed under the name of Rashi (Rabbi Shlomo Yitzchaki, the classic 11th-century commentator) says the same. Tosafot Yom Tov brings from Midrash Shmuel, in the name of a commentary it quotes as "the Rashbam" (the name of Rabbi Shmuel ben Meir, a grandson of Rashi, 12th century), two verses: "And you will find favor and good understanding in the eyes of God and man" (Mishlei, Proverbs, 3:4), and "The kindness of the Lord is from everlasting to everlasting on those who fear Him" (Tehillim, Psalms, 103:17). Anyone on whom a thread of kindness is drawn (people find him gracious), it is known that he fears Heaven.

Dealings in good faith

The Gemara that Rabbeinu Yonah points to (Yoma 86a) is a baraita (a teaching of the Sages from the time of the Mishnah) quoted by the sage Abaye. The Gemara asks what counts as chilul Hashem (profaning God's name) and brings five answers. This baraita is the one Abaye brings. It is taught on the verse "And you shall love the Lord your God" (Devarim, Deuteronomy, 6:5): that the name of Heaven should become beloved through you. A person reads and learns and serves Torah scholars (learns from them at close hand), and his dealings with people are gentle. What do people say of him? "Fortunate is his father who taught him Torah, fortunate is his teacher who taught him Torah. Woe to the people who did not learn Torah. So-and-so, who learned Torah: see how pleasant his ways are, how right his deeds." But one who reads and learns and serves Torah scholars, and his dealings are not in good faith, and his speech with people is not gentle, what do people say of him? "Woe to so-and-so who learned Torah, woe to his father who taught him Torah, woe to his teacher who taught him Torah. So-and-so, who learned Torah: see how corrupt his deeds are, and how ugly his ways." Rabbeinu Yonah quotes only the first half, in slightly different words. The spirit of the Makom is pleased with such a person, he writes, because the Torah is praised through him.

On the second half of the saying Rabbeinu Yonah writes: he will not be "clean before the Lord and before Israel," the words of a verse (Bamidbar, Numbers, 32:22).

Not "all people"

Tosafot Yom Tov brings from Midrash Shmuel why the mishnah needs both halves. From the first alone, one could think that a person may be disliked because he goes to the far end of piety, and the spirit of the Makom is pleased with him even so. From the second alone, one could think that a person may be liked because he looks pure on the outside, while "within himself he sets his ambush" (words from the prophet Yirmiyahu, Jeremiah, 9:7). So the mishnah teaches that it is a clear sign in both directions. And it did not say "the spirit of all people," for we are not concerned with a minority. So we find with Mordechai, of the Book of Esther, who was "accepted by most of his brothers" (Esther 10:3). The Gemara (Megillah 16b) reads that verse closely: by most of his brothers, and not by all of them. It teaches that some of the Sanhedrin (the high court of sages) parted from him. Rashi (the classic 11th-century commentator) explains why: he had left his Torah learning and gone into office. The Gemara goes on, in the name of the sage Rav Yosef, that Torah learning is greater than saving lives, since Mordechai's name stands one place lower in a later list of leaders.

Midrash Shmuel itself brings this last point in the name of Rabbi Yosef ibn Nachmias (a commentator on Avot whom Midrash Shmuel quotes): no person can be pleasing and acceptable to all people. He should be acceptable to most, and one need not be concerned about a minority.

The second saying: four things

The mishnah goes on to another sage:

רַבִּי דוֹסָא בֶן הַרְכִּינַס אוֹמֵר, שֵׁנָה שֶׁל שַׁחֲרִית, וְיַיִן שֶׁל צָהֳרַיִם, וְשִׂיחַת הַיְלָדִים, וִישִׁיבַת בָּתֵּי כְנֵסִיּוֹת שֶׁל עַמֵּי הָאָרֶץ, מוֹצִיאִין אֶת הָאָדָם מִן הָעוֹלָם
"Rabbi Dosa ben Harkinas says: Sleep of the morning, and wine of midday, and the talk of children, and sitting in the gathering places of the unlearned take a person out of the world."
Pirkei Avot 3:10Open the source

Bartenura, one by one. Sleep of the morning: he sleeps on until the time for reciting the Shema (the declaration "Hear, O Israel," said morning and evening) has passed. Wine of midday: it draws a person's heart, as it is written, "to draw my flesh with wine" (Kohelet, Ecclesiastes, 2:3), and brings him to drunkenness. The talk of children: it keeps their fathers from being busy with Torah. Sitting in the gathering places of the unlearned: they gather and speak of idle things.

The commentary printed under Rashi's name reads two of them differently from Bartenura. Sleep of the morning, in a second version it gives: it is sweet to a person, he is drawn after it, and it keeps him from Torah. The talk of children: young men who are busy with words of mockery, and people run after them. Rabbeinu Yonah: sleep of the morning does away with prayer in its time, and wine of midday does away with Torah learning and brings a person to sin. Of the talk of children he writes that the delight of it draws people's hearts, through their love for the young, and the Torah is left idle.

The Rambam (Rabbi Moshe ben Maimon, 12th century) sums up the four:

אמר שאלו הדברים מונעין ומבטלין מעלת האדם עד שיצא מן העולם והוא אבד
"He says that these things hold back and cancel a person's virtue, until he goes out of the world, and he is lost."
Rambam on Avot 3:10Open the source

Rabbeinu Yonah: for what was a person created, if not to be busy with Torah, which is length of days and years of life? He gives a parable. A king gave his servant a hundred silver coins. The servant threw them into the sea, and came back and asked him for more. Is it not right that he be given no more? The coins are his days: why should he be given more? So it is, he writes, with one who is not busy with Torah. Tosafot Yom Tov brings from Derech Chaim (the commentary on Pirkei Avot by the Maharal, Rabbi Yehuda Loew of Prague, 16th century) why the mishnah says midday: in the morning a person is sluggish from sleep, in the evening he is tired and wants rest, and at midday he is at his full strength, so the wine then makes him altogether merry.

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Tuesday, December 15 · Avot 3:11

Even With Torah and Good Deeds

Rabbi Elazar of Modi'in lists five people, among them one who shames his fellow in public. Even with Torah and good deeds, he has no share in the World to Come (the life after this one).

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Think first

Today's mishnah (teaching) says of five people: "even though he has Torah and good deeds." Before you read on: what could stand against a life of Torah and good deeds?

Today's teaching

Rabbi Elazar of Modi'in (a sage of the Mishnah) lists five: one who profanes sacred things (what belongs to the Temple), one who despises the festivals, one who whitens his fellow's face in public (shames him), one who breaks the covenant of Avraham our father (circumcision), and one who "reveals faces in the Torah" not according to halachah (Jewish law). Even though he has Torah and good deeds, he has no share in the World to Come. Bartenura (Rabbi Ovadiah of Bartenura, the classic 15th-century commentator on the Mishnah, the Sages' collection of teachings) explains the fifth in two ways: one who gives readings of the Torah that are not according to halachah, or one who brazenly transgresses it in public. Midrash Shmuel (Rabbi Shmuel de Uzeda, 16th century), on the one who whitens a face: he shames his fellow in public, "and his intent is not for his benefit, only to despise his fellow." All this, Bartenura writes, is of one who did not repent. If he repented before his death, nothing stands in the way of repentance.

Read the mishnahPirkei Avot 3:11 in Hebrew, with our English
רַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר הַמּוֹדָעִי אוֹמֵר, הַמְחַלֵּל אֶת הַקָּדָשִׁים, וְהַמְבַזֶּה אֶת הַמּוֹעֲדוֹת, וְהַמַּלְבִּין פְּנֵי חֲבֵרוֹ בָרַבִּים, וְהַמֵּפֵר בְּרִיתוֹ שֶׁל אַבְרָהָם אָבִינוּ עָלָיו הַשָּׁלוֹם, וְהַמְגַלֶּה פָנִים בַּתּוֹרָה שֶׁלֹּא כַהֲלָכָה, אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁיֵּשׁ בְּיָדוֹ תוֹרָה וּמַעֲשִׂים טוֹבִים, אֵין לוֹ חֵלֶק לָעוֹלָם הַבָּא
"Rabbi Elazar of Modi'in says: One who profanes sacred things, and one who despises the festivals, and one who whitens his fellow's face in public, and one who breaks the covenant of Avraham our father, peace be upon him, and one who reveals faces in the Torah not according to halachah: even though he has Torah and good deeds, he has no share in the World to Come."
Pirkei Avot 3:11Open the source
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Correct a person in private first

The mistake is in row 14 of the budget sheet, and it is Yoni's. Forty-one people are on the thread. You have a screenshot. You have drawn a red circle around row 14, twice, and the draft begins "Just flagging." Your cursor is on Send.

Bartenura describes what shame does to a face. At first it reddens. Then, when the person finds no answer that will take the shame off him, he grieves inside, and his face goes white.

In our words: this card does not rule on whether a reply-all is the mishnah's case. It notes that the draft is not sent, that row 14 can be fixed by one person, and that Yoni has a phone. The red circles were careful work. Yoni can see them first.

Today's move

Today, if you have a correction for someone, give it to that person in private first.

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The five, one by one

Sacred things: Bartenura explains this as one who causes an offering to become disqualified, or who takes for his own use something given to the Temple, whether for the altar or for the building's upkeep. The festivals:

יָמִים שֶׁל חֹל הַמּוֹעֵד, עוֹשֶׂה בָּהֶן מְלָאכָה אוֹ נוֹהֵג בָּהֶן מִנְהַג חֹל בַּאֲכִילָה וּשְׁתִיָּה
"The days of Chol HaMoed [the middle days of a festival]: he does work on them, or treats them as weekdays in eating and drinking."
Bartenura on Avot 3:11Open the source

Rabbeinu Yonah (Rabbi Yonah of Gerona, 13th century): the mishnah says "despises" and not "profanes" because it is not speaking of the festival day itself, which is like Shabbat, but of its middle days. Such a person says: these days are not as holy as the first ones.

הַמִּתְבַּיֵּשׁ פָּנָיו מַאֲדִימוֹת תְּחִלָּה וְאַחַר כָּךְ מִתְלַבְּנוֹת, שֶׁהַנֶּפֶשׁ יֵשׁ לָהּ שְׁתֵּי תְּנוּעוֹת אַחַת לַחוּץ וְאַחַת לִפְנִים, וּכְשֶׁמְּבַיְּשִׁין אֶת הָאָדָם בִּתְחִלָּה הָרוּחַ מִתְנוֹעֵעַ לְצַד חוּץ כְּמִי שֶׁמִּתְמַלֵּא חֵמָה וּפָנָיו מַאֲדִימוֹת, וּכְשֶׁאֵינוֹ מוֹצֵא טַעֲנָה כֵּיצַד יָסִיר הַבֹּשֶׁת הַהוּא מֵעַל פָּנָיו, הוּא דּוֹאֵג בְּקִרְבּוֹ וְנִכְנַס הָרוּחַ לְצַד פָּנָיו מִפְּנֵי הַצַּעַר, וּפָנָיו מִתְכַּרְכְּמִים וּמִתְלַבְּנִים
"One who is shamed, his face first reddens and afterwards whitens. For the soul has two movements, one outward and one inward. When a person is shamed, at first the spirit moves outward, as with one who fills with anger, and his face reddens. And when he finds no argument by which to take that shame off his face, he grieves within himself, and the spirit goes inward because of the pain, and his face turns sallow and white."
Bartenura on Avot 3:11Open the source

He ends with the words of the Gemara (the Talmud; Bava Metzia 58b): "the red goes and the white comes." There a teaching is recited before the sage Rav Nachman bar Yitzchak: anyone who whitens his fellow's face in public, it is as if he sheds blood. He answers: you have said well, for we see that the red goes and the white comes. Further on (59a) the Gemara brings a saying in three chains of names, the last of them Rabbi Yochanan in the name of Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai: it is better for a person to throw himself into a fiery furnace than to whiten his fellow's face in public. It learns this from Tamar (Bereishit, Genesis, 38:25). Rashi (the classic 11th-century commentator) explains: she was being taken out to be burned, and still she did not say in front of them who the man was. She sent word to him, with his own things (so the verse), and left it to him to admit it on his own.

Rabbeinu Yonah counts it as an offshoot of one of the three sins for which a person must let himself be killed and not transgress. The three are idolatry, forbidden relations and bloodshed. One who whitens his fellow's face in public, he writes, is an offshoot of bloodshed, "for his blood flees because of the shame."

The covenant of Avraham: Bartenura, one who has not had himself circumcised, or one who was circumcised and hides it so that it will not be seen. The fifth: Bartenura's first reading is one who shows faces and readings in the Torah that are not according to halachah. He gives as an example a translation of a verse that is not its plain meaning, and adds that this includes one who expounds the Torah in mockery. The commentary on Pirkei Avot printed under the name of Rashi (Rabbi Shlomo Yitzchaki, the classic 11th-century commentator) names King Menashe (a king of Yehudah, Judah), who used to ask mockingly why Moshe (Moses) had to write "and Timna was a concubine" (Bereishit 36:12; the Gemara tells it in Sanhedrin 99b). Bartenura's second reading is one who is brazen-faced, who transgresses the words of the Torah in public, with a high hand, and has no shame. This is how the Rambam (Rabbi Moshe ben Maimon, 12th century) reads it: it is the furthest point of denying the Torah, he writes, and he brings the Talmud Yerushalmi (the Jerusalem Talmud; Peah 1:1), which gives King Yehoyakim, another king of Yehudah, as its example.

The Gemara itself (Sanhedrin 99b) records a dispute in two versions. In the second, it is about the fifth item: Rav and Rabbi Chanina say it is one who despises a Torah scholar; Rabbi Yochanan and Rabbi Yehoshua ben Levi say it is one who despises his fellow in front of a Torah scholar. In the first version those same two answers define the apikoros (see below), and the fifth item is then one who despises a Torah scholar himself, or one like Menashe. Rabbeinu Yonah adds that the same holds for one who is brazen toward those who learn the Torah.

Where the list comes from

The Gemara (Sanhedrin 99a) brings Rabbi Elazar of Modi'in's list in a teaching on the verse "For he has despised the word of the Lord and broken His commandment; that soul shall surely be cut off" (Bamidbar, Numbers, 15:31): cut off in this world, and cut off in the World to Come. The commentary printed under Rashi's name writes that the one who whitens a face is not in the list there, "and I do not know how he learns it from the verse." Tosafot Yom Tov (Rabbi Yom Tov Lipmann Heller, a 17th-century commentator on the Mishnah) notes that in our texts of the Gemara it is in the list. He brings an explanation from Midrash Shmuel: one who shames his fellow in public despises him, "and there is no greater apikoros than this." Midrash Shmuel's own words are fuller: he shames and reviles his fellow in public, "and his intent is not for his benefit, only to despise his fellow, and there is no greater apikoros than this." An apikoros, in one view in the Gemara (Sanhedrin 99b), is one who despises a Torah scholar. One of the Gemara's readings of "he has despised the word of the Lord" (Sanhedrin 99a) is the apikoros. Tosafot Yom Tov gives an explanation of his own: a person was created in the image of God, and so he is himself "the word of the Lord."

Even though he has Torah and good deeds

וְלֹא חָזַר בִּתְשׁוּבָה מֵאַחַת מֵעֲבֵרוֹת הַלָּלוּ שֶׁבְּיָדוֹ, אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁבָּאוּ עָלָיו יִסּוּרִים וּמֵת בַּיִּסּוּרִים, אֵין לוֹ חֵלֶק לָעוֹלָם הַבָּא. אֲבָל אִם חָזַר בִּתְשׁוּבָה קֹדֶם מוֹתוֹ, אֵין לְךָ דָּבָר שֶׁעוֹמֵד בִּפְנֵי הַתְּשׁוּבָה
"And he did not repent of whichever of these sins he has. Even though sufferings came upon him and he died in suffering, he has no share in the World to Come. But if he repented before his death, there is nothing that stands in the way of repentance."
Bartenura on Avot 3:11Open the source

The Rambam and Rabbeinu Yonah say the same, from the Talmud Yerushalmi. The Rambam: these sins are graver than others, in that sufferings together with death do not atone for them. Tosafot Yom Tov spells out the other side: for other sins, sufferings together with death cleanse. He also records, from Midrash Shmuel, in the name of an earlier commentator he calls Rabbi Ephraim, a text of the mishnah that has "good deeds" and no "Torah" in this clause.

How do these five sit beside the Mishnah's other list of those who have no share in the World to Come (Sanhedrin 10:1)? Tosafot Yom Tov brings three answers. Midrash Shmuel: all five are included in the apikoros, who is on that list. And two suggestions from Derech Chaim (the commentary on Pirkei Avot by the Maharal, Rabbi Yehuda Loew of Prague, 16th century). One: they may be included in "one who says the Torah is not from Heaven," which is also on that list. The other: those on that list have no share even with all the Torah and mitzvot (commandments) in their hand, while the five here are said of a person whose merits and sins are evenly weighed, and these tip the scale. Derech Chaim writes that the second seems right.

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Wednesday, December 16 · Avot 3:12

Receive Every Person With Joy

Rabbi Yishmael: be light toward a "head," and easy toward tishchoret (two words the commentators read in several ways), and receive every person with joy.

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Think first

Rabbi Yishmael gives one instruction for a "head," another for tishchoret (two classic commentators, Bartenura and the Rambam, read it as the young), and a third for every person. Before you read on: why tell a person to treat two kinds of people differently, and then everyone the same?

Today's teaching

Be light toward a head, Rabbi Yishmael says, and easy toward tishchoret, and receive every person with joy. Bartenura (Rabbi Ovadiah of Bartenura, the classic 15th-century commentator on the Mishnah, the Sages' collection of teachings): before a great person, an elder who sits at the head, be light, quick to serve him. Tishchoret is a young person, whose hair is black (shachor). With him you need not make yourself so light; stand before him calmly. And toward every person, head or young, stand with joy. The Rambam (Rabbi Moshe ben Maimon, 12th century) reads it this way too, and adds: with the young, keep your dignity and do not be playful. But do not think this means meeting him with an angry face. Receive every person, small and great, with joy. Bartenura also gives a second reading, a person's own youth and old age. Rabbeinu Yonah (Rabbi Yonah of Gerona, 13th century) reads them as a lord and his officer (Go deeper).

Read the mishnahPirkei Avot 3:12 in Hebrew, with our English
רַבִּי יִשְׁמָעֵאל אוֹמֵר, הֱוֵי קַל לְרֹאשׁ, וְנוֹחַ לְתִשְׁחֹרֶת, וֶהֱוֵי מְקַבֵּל אֶת כָּל הָאָדָם בְּשִׂמְחָה
"Rabbi Yishmael says: Be light toward a head, and easy toward tishchoret, and receive every person with joy."
Pirkei Avot 3:12Open the source
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Greet the junior person as gladly as the senior one

You have two reply speeds. The vice president's message got an answer in four minutes, with "Absolutely!" and a calendar invitation. The intern's question came in the same hour and is still unopened. You can see its first line in the preview. The first line is "Sorry to bother you."

The Rambam keeps the two manners apart. Before a great person, he writes, make yourself light and serve him. With the young, keep your dignity. Then he adds: do not think this means receiving the young with anger and a scowling face. One must receive every person, small and great, free and slave, every one of humankind, with joy. This, he writes, is more than what the earlier sage Shammai said, "with a pleasant face" (Avot 1:15).

In our words: reply speed is our example, not the Rambam's. He keeps two manners. The joy is the part he gives to everyone. The intern apologized for writing to you. That line is still in the preview.

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Today, greet the most junior person you deal with as gladly as you greet the most senior.

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A head, and the young

לִפְנֵי אָדָם גָּדוֹל זָקֵן וְיוֹשֵׁב בָּרֹאשׁ בַּיְּשִׁיבָה, הֱוֵי קַל לַעֲבֹד עֲבוֹדָתוֹ וּלְשַׁמֵּשׁ לְפָנָיו
"Before a great person, an elder who sits at the head in the yeshivah [house of study], be light: to do his service and to attend him."
Bartenura on Avot 3:12Open the source
לְאָדָם בָּחוּר שֶׁשַּׂעֲרוֹתָיו שְׁחֹרוֹת אֵינְךָ צָרִיךְ לְהָקֵל עַצְמְךָ כָּל כָּךְ, אֶלָּא תַּעֲמֹד לְפָנָיו בְּנַחַת וּבְיִשּׁוּב
"With a young person, whose hair is black, you need not make yourself so light. Rather, stand before him calmly and with composure."
Bartenura on Avot 3:12Open the source

Tosafot Yom Tov (Rabbi Yom Tov Lipmann Heller, a 17th-century commentator on the Mishnah) brings a mishnah (a teaching of the Mishnah; Nedarim 3:8) in which "the black-headed" means men in general, the bald and the gray among them. He suggests that in vows we follow the way people speak, while here the Sages mean the young. There are only two extremes, he writes: the head, which takes in every person of standing, and tishchoret, which takes in every person without it.

לא תחשוב שמה שהזהרתיך מהתגעגע עם צעיר השנים יתחייב שתקבל אותו בזעם ובפנים זועפים לא כן הכונה אבל צריך שתקבל כל אדם קטן וגדול בן חורין ועבד כל איש ממין האדם בשמחה
"Do not think that what I warned you, not to be playful with the young, means that you should receive him with anger and a scowling face. That is not the intent. Rather, you must receive every person, small and great, free and slave, every one of humankind, with joy."
Rambam on Avot 3:12Open the source

He adds: "And this is more than what Shammai said, 'with a pleasant face.'" Shammai's words are in an earlier mishnah:

וֶהֱוֵי מְקַבֵּל אֶת כָּל הָאָדָם בְּסֵבֶר פָּנִים יָפוֹת
"And receive every person with a pleasant face."
Pirkei Avot 1:15Open the source

Bartenura explains the word "receive" (mekabel) from a word for facing: stand facing every person with joy. Tosafot Yom Tov writes that he does not know why the commentators did not explain Shammai's mishnah the same way.

A ruler and his officer

Rabbeinu Yonah reads "head" as a head and lord. Make yourself light before him and do what he needs, as it is said: "Do not glorify yourself before a king, and do not stand in the place of the great" (Mishlei, Proverbs, 25:6). Tishchoret, in his reading, is an officer whom the king has appointed over his people. One does not make oneself light before him, for he is not the lord, but one should be pleasant in speech with him. The commentary on Pirkei Avot printed under the name of Rashi (Rabbi Shlomo Yitzchaki, the classic 11th-century commentator) brings readings close to this. "Some say" a head is the heads of the city and its judges. Tishchoret is the city's treasurer or, in another reading, the forced service that a ruler demands.

Youth and old age

בְּרֵאשִׁיתְךָ כְּשֶׁאַתָּה בָּחוּר הֱוֵי קַל לַעֲשׂוֹת רְצוֹן בּוֹרַאֲךָ, וּבְזִקְנוּתְךָ כְּשֶׁהֻשְׁחֲרוּ פָּנֶיךָ מִפְּנֵי הַזִּקְנָה תְּהֵא נוֹחַ לוֹ
"At your beginning, when you are young, be light to do the will of your Creator. And in your old age, when your face has darkened with age, be easy toward Him."
Bartenura on Avot 3:12Open the source

This is Bartenura's second reading, and the first reading in the commentary printed under Rashi's name, which calls tishchoret a word for old age and brings the verse "for childhood and shacharut are vanity" (Kohelet, Ecclesiastes, 11:10).

None of these readings changes the third clause: receive every person with joy. The commentary printed under Rashi's name explains it: with every person, let your words be pleasant.

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Thursday, December 17 · Avot 3:13

A Fence for Wisdom Is Silence

Rabbi Akiva names fences: tradition for the Torah, tithes for wealth, vows for self-restraint. And a fence for wisdom is silence.

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A fence does not grow anything. It stands at the edge and keeps something safe. Before you read on: what would silence be keeping safe, for a person who wants wisdom?

Today's teaching

Jesting and frivolity, Rabbi Akiva says, accustom a person to ervah (forbidden relations). Rabbeinu Yonah (Rabbi Yonah of Gerona, 13th century): so seriousness and awe are a fence against it, for this whole mishnah (teaching) speaks of fences. Four more follow: tradition (in Bartenura's reading, the handed-down exact spelling of the Torah's words) for the Torah, tithes (the tenth of a crop that the Torah says to give) for wealth, vows (forbidding oneself something by one's word) for self-restraint, and for wisdom, silence. Which silence? Bartenura (Rabbi Ovadiah of Bartenura, the classic 15th-century commentator on the Mishnah, the Sages' collection of teachings): not silence from words of Torah, and not from gossip, harmful speech and cursing, which the Torah forbids in any case. It is the optional talk between one person and another, which a person should keep as little as he can. Rabbeinu Yonah places the silence in learning itself: one does not break into another's words, and a student does not say his own idea before his teacher has finished speaking.

Read the mishnahPirkei Avot 3:13 in Hebrew, with our English
רַבִּי עֲקִיבָא אוֹמֵר, שְׂחוֹק וְקַלּוּת רֹאשׁ, מַרְגִּילִין לְעֶרְוָה. מָסֹרֶת, סְיָג לַתּוֹרָה. מַעַשְׂרוֹת, סְיָג לָעשֶׁר. נְדָרִים, סְיָג לַפְּרִישׁוּת. סְיָג לַחָכְמָה, שְׁתִיקָה
"Rabbi Akiva says: Jesting and frivolity accustom a person to forbidden relations. Tradition is a fence for the Torah. Tithes are a fence for wealth. Vows are a fence for self-restraint. A fence for wisdom is silence."
Pirkei Avot 3:13Open the source
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Let the other person finish before you say your idea

Two minutes into the review, you had the answer. For the next eight you held it like a full cup, watching for a gap. Your manager finished. You said it. It was a good answer to what she had been saying in minute two. She had moved on in minute five.

Rabbeinu Yonah describes a student before his teacher, who sees a line of reasoning. Let him not think at once that it is the true one, he writes, or want to say it before his teacher has finished. If he does, he will lose what his teacher says. And his own reasoning cannot be well aimed until he has heard what the earlier sages said and weighed it.

In our words: he is speaking of a student before his teacher, and a project review is our small example. For eight minutes she was talking to someone busy holding his own idea. What she said is in the meeting notes, under her name.

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In one conversation today, when your idea arrives while the other person is still talking, hold it and listen to the end. See if it still fits.

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The first clause

The commentary on Pirkei Avot printed under the name of Rashi (Rabbi Shlomo Yitzchaki, the classic 11th-century commentator), on the word "accustom": they draw a person on to sin. Tosafot Yom Tov (Rabbi Yom Tov Lipmann Heller, a 17th-century commentator on the Mishnah) brings from the commentary Midrash Shmuel (a commentary on Pirkei Avot by Rabbi Shmuel de Uzeda, 16th century) why this clause is not worded as a fence, like the others. Worded this way it teaches more: jesting and frivolity do not only bring a person to it. They make a habit of it.

Tradition, a fence for the Torah

הַמָּסֹרֶת שֶׁמָּסְרוּ לָנוּ חֲכָמִים בַּחֲסֵרוֹת וִיתֵרוֹת שֶׁבַּתּוֹרָה, הֵם גָּדֵר וְחִזּוּק לַתּוֹרָה שֶׁבִּכְתָב, שֶׁעַל יְדֵיהֶם אָנוּ מְבִינִים כַּמָּה מִצְוֹת אֵיךְ יַעֲשׂוּ אוֹתָם
"The tradition that the Sages handed down to us, of the words in the Torah that are written short and written full, is a fence and a strengthening for the Written Torah [the five books of Moshe], for through them we understand how a number of mitzvot [commandments] are to be done."
Bartenura on Avot 3:13Open the source

His first example is the word sukkot (booths), written twice without the letter vav and once with it. From this the Sages learn that a sukkah (the booth the Torah commands) is valid with three walls.

Tithes, a fence for wealth

Bartenura brings the Gemara (the Talmud; Taanit 9a) on the doubled words "aser te'aser," "you shall surely tithe" (Devarim, Deuteronomy, 14:22): tithe (aser) so that you will grow rich (titasher). In the Gemara, Rabbi Yochanan meets the young son of the sage Reish Lakish, who recites this verse and asks what it means. Tithe so that you will grow rich, Rabbi Yochanan tells him. How do you know? Go and test it. Is it permitted to test the Holy One, blessed be He? Rabbi Yochanan answers in the name of Rabbi Hoshaya: except in this, as it is said, "Bring all the tithe to the storehouse ... and test Me in this" (the prophet Malachi 3:10). The Gemara's permission to test is stated about tithes. Rabbeinu Yonah writes, about wealth and not about testing: one who wants wealth should give his tithes generously, and charity is like tithes.

Vows, a fence for self-restraint

בִּזְמַן שֶׁאָדָם מַתְחִיל בִּפְרִישׁוּת וּמִתְיָרֵא שֶׁלֹּא יַעֲבֹר, מְקַבֵּל עָלָיו בִּלְשׁוֹן נֶדֶר שֶׁלֹּא יַעֲשֶׂה כָּךְ וְכָךְ, וְעַל יְדֵי כֵן הוּא כּוֹבֵשׁ אֶת יִצְרוֹ
"When a person begins in self-restraint and is afraid that he will transgress, he takes it on himself in the form of a vow, that he will not do such and such, and by this he subdues his inclination [the pull to do wrong]."
Bartenura on Avot 3:13Open the source

The Rambam (Rabbi Moshe ben Maimon, 12th century): a person who makes vows and keeps them gains the habit of holding back from what he wants to hold back from, and perishut becomes easier for him. By perishut the Rambam means here guarding oneself from ritual impurity (a state in which a person may not touch sacred things). Rabbeinu Yonah, who reads perishut as self-restraint, sets a limit. A vow of this kind is like a medicine, for one whose inclination overpowers him. One who rules his own spirit, and can reach self-restraint without a vow, should not vow, as the Sages said: "Is what the Torah forbade not enough for you, that you forbid yourself what is permitted?" In our words: vows have laws of their own, and making one is a question for a rav (rabbi).

Silence, a fence for wisdom

הָא אֵינוֹ מְדַבֵּר אֶלָּא בִּשְׁתִיקָה מִדִּבְרֵי הָרְשׁוּת שֶׁבֵּין אָדָם לַחֲבֵרוֹ, שֶׁיֵּשׁ לוֹ לָאָדָם לְמַעֵט הַדִּבּוּר בָּהֶם כָּל מַה שֶּׁאֶפְשָׁר
"So it speaks only of silence from optional talk between a person and his fellow, in which a person should keep his speech as little as he can."
Bartenura on Avot 3:13Open the source

Of this, Bartenura writes, King Shlomo (Solomon) said: "Even a fool who keeps silent is counted wise" (Mishlei, Proverbs, 17:28). Rabbeinu Yonah, on the student who cannot wait for his teacher to finish, brings another verse: "A fool does not desire understanding, but only that his heart be revealed" (Mishlei 18:2). An earlier mishnah, in the name of Shimon the son of Rabban Gamliel, also praises silence. Midrash Shmuel ties the two together.

כָּל יָמַי גָּדַלְתִּי בֵין הַחֲכָמִים, וְלֹא מָצָאתִי לַגּוּף טוֹב אֶלָּא שְׁתִיקָה
"All my days I grew up among the Sages, and I found nothing better for the body than silence."
Pirkei Avot 1:17Open the source

Rabbeinu Yonah adds one more thing that silence leads to: of what he has not heard, a person says, "I have not heard." Tosafot Yom Tov notes that only in this clause is the fence named first, "a fence for wisdom is silence," and brings two reasons. Derech Chaim (the commentary on Pirkei Avot by the Maharal, Rabbi Yehuda Loew of Prague, 16th century): this is how a list marks its last item. Midrash Shmuel: the other things have other fences as well, while wisdom has no fence but silence.

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Friday, December 18 · Avot 3:14

Loved, and Told So

Rabbi Akiva used to say: beloved is man, for he was created in the image. It is a greater love that it was made known to him that he was created in the image ...

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Rabbi Akiva says it twice: man is beloved, for he was created in the image; and it is a greater love that he was told so. What does being told add?

Today's teaching

Beloved is man, Rabbi Akiva used to say, for he was created in the image. And it is a greater love that this was made known to him, as the verse says: "for in the image of God He made man" (Bereishit, Genesis, 9:6). The Rambam (Rabbi Moshe ben Maimon, 12th century) explains: letting a person know the measure of the good that was done for him is a further good. Bartenura (a classic commentator on the Mishnah) gives a second reading: a love that is open and known to all. The mishnah (teaching) says the same twice more, of Israel (Go deeper). Who is the "man" of the first line? Tosafot Yom Tov (Rabbi Yom Tov Lipmann Heller, 17th century): every person. He notes that commentators before him read it of Israel (Go deeper).

Read the mishnahThe opening of Pirkei Avot 3:14 in Hebrew, with our English. The rest of the mishnah is in Go deeper.
הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, חָבִיב אָדָם שֶׁנִּבְרָא בְצֶלֶם. חִבָּה יְתֵרָה נוֹדַעַת לוֹ שֶׁנִּבְרָא בְצֶלֶם
"He used to say: Beloved is man, for he was created in the image. It is a greater love that it was made known to him that he was created in the image ..."
Pirkei Avot 3:14Open the source
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Let a person know the good you did for them

In the review meeting you argued for Shira's raise. You had numbers, and at one point you said "frankly." It went through. Shira thinks the raise came out of a formula, and has thanked the payroll system.

The Gemara (the Talmud; Shabbat 10b) has a rule in the name of the sage Rav: one who gives a gift to his fellow must let him know. It limits this to a case that would not become known by itself; Rashi (the classic 11th-century commentator) explains, who gave it. Tosafot (medieval commentators on the Gemara) add: this is said of a gift given out of love, which does not shame the one who receives it. Charity, which can shame him, is better given in secret. The Rashbatz and the Maharal, two later commentators, set this rule beside today's mishnah (Go deeper).

In our words: the mishnah is speaking of what the Holy One did for man, and a raise is our small example. Shira has the money. She does not know that someone looked at her work and said "frankly."

Today's move

Today, tell one person, plainly, one good thing you did or decided for them that they have no way of knowing. Not charity, and nothing it would embarrass them to hear.

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Told

הוא היה אומר שהודעת מה שהטיבו לו שיעור הטובה היא הטבה אחרת כי פעמים שיגמול אדם טובה לאיש מבני אדם על דרך רחמנות ולא יודיעהו שיעור מה שעשה עמו מפני שהוא נבזה בעיניו
"He used to say that making known the measure of the good that was done for a person is a further good. For sometimes a person does good to one of his fellow men out of pity, and does not let him know the measure of what he did for him, because he is despised in his eyes."
Rambam on Avot 3:14Open the source

Bartenura (Rabbi Ovadiah of Bartenura, the classic 15th-century commentator on the Mishnah, the Sages' collection of teachings) brings the Rambam's reading, and then another:

וְיֵשׁ לְפָרֵשׁ, חִבָּה יְתֵרָה נוֹדַעַת לוֹ, חִבָּה גְּלוּיָה וּמְפֻרְסֶמֶת, שֶׁלֹּא בִּלְבַד אַהֲבָה מְסֻתֶּרֶת הָיָה לוֹ לַמָּקוֹם בָּרוּךְ הוּא עִם הָאָדָם אֶלָּא אַף חִבָּה גְּלוּיָה וִידוּעָה לַכֹּל
"And one can explain: a greater love was made known to him, a love that is open and public. The Makom, blessed be He, had not only a hidden love for man, but a love that is open and known to all."
Bartenura on Avot 3:14Open the source

Rabbeinu Yonah (Rabbi Yonah of Gerona, 13th century): man was beloved even had the thing not been made known, since he was created in the image; and when it was revealed to us, a greater love was made known.

The Gemara (Shabbat 10b) brings a rule in the name of Rav: one who gives a gift to his fellow must let him know, as it is said, "to know that I am the Lord who sanctifies you" (Shemot, Exodus, 31:13). A teaching there has the Holy One say to Moshe (Moses): I have a good gift in My treasure house, and Shabbat is its name, and I wish to give it to Israel; go and let them know. The Gemara then asks from another sage, Rabbi Chama son of Rabbi Chanina, who says that the giver need not tell, for Moshe did not know that the skin of his face shone (Shemot 34:29). It answers: one speaks of a thing that will come to be known by itself, and the other of a thing that will not. The Gemara presses: Shabbat itself would have become known. It answers: its reward would not. Rashi explains that what must become known is who gave the gift, and that the reason is "so that he will love him." Tosafot limit the rule to a gift given out of love, and not to charity.

The Rashbatz (Rabbi Shimon ben Tzemach Duran, 15th century), in Magen Avot, his commentary on Pirkei Avot, explains the Rambam's reading with this same rule, which he cites from the parallel passage in tractate Beitzah (16a): there are two goods, the gift, and the honor of being thought worth telling. The Maharal of Prague (16th century), in his commentary Derech Chaim, brings the same rule in a second explanation: one who is told of a gift will come to love the giver. He writes that his first explanation is the main one. The example of the raise is ours.

Who is "man"

The commentary on Pirkei Avot printed under the name of Rashi (Rabbi Shlomo Yitzchaki, the classic 11th-century commentator): "therefore it is upon him to do the will of his Maker." Tosafot Yom Tov opens with this line and builds on it. Rabbi Akiva said this of every person, he writes. The verse Rabbi Akiva brings as proof, Tosafot Yom Tov writes, was said to the sons of Noach (Noah), meaning all of mankind, and not to Israel alone. He is surprised at commentators who explain that this line speaks only of Israel, relying on a teaching of the Sages from elsewhere, and he calls his own reading "a paved and wide road." Rabbi Akiva, he writes, came to set all people on the straight road and to draw their hearts to the will of their Maker. He builds this on a ruling of the Rambam, in his code of law (the Mishneh Torah), about the commandments given to the sons of Noach. That ruling is long, and this page does not go into it. Rabbi Akiva chose this verse, he adds, because it stands beside a commandment given to them, and gives the reason for it. His comment goes on to ask why the mishnah says "the image" where the verse says "the image of God." This page does not go into that.

The rest of the mishnah

חֲבִיבִין יִשְׂרָאֵל שֶׁנִּקְרְאוּ בָנִים לַמָּקוֹם. חִבָּה יְתֵרָה נוֹדַעַת לָהֶם שֶׁנִּקְרְאוּ בָנִים לַמָּקוֹם
"Beloved are Israel, for they are called children of the Makom. It is a greater love that it was made known to them that they are called children of the Makom ..."
Pirkei Avot 3:14Open the source

The Makom ("the Place") is a name of God. The verse the mishnah brings is "You are children of the Lord your God" (Devarim, Deuteronomy, 14:1). Tosafot Yom Tov asks why it does not bring the earlier verse, "My son, My firstborn, Israel" (Shemot 4:22). That verse, he answers, could be read of the generation that left Egypt alone. This one stands beside commandments that were given for all generations.

חֲבִיבִין יִשְׂרָאֵל שֶׁנִּתַּן לָהֶם כְּלִי חֶמְדָּה. חִבָּה יְתֵרָה נוֹדַעַת לָהֶם שֶׁנִּתַּן לָהֶם כְּלִי חֶמְדָּה שֶׁבּוֹ נִבְרָא הָעוֹלָם, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (משלי ד) כִּי לֶקַח טוֹב נָתַתִּי לָכֶם, תּוֹרָתִי אַל תַּעֲזֹבוּ
"Beloved are Israel, for a precious instrument was given to them. It is a greater love that it was made known to them that the precious instrument with which the world was created was given to them, as it is said (Mishlei, Proverbs, 4): 'For I have given you a good teaching; do not forsake My Torah.'"
Pirkei Avot 3:14Open the source

Bartenura, on the verse: all of the work of creation, of which it is said "and God saw that it was good,"

לֹא נִבְרָא אֶלָּא בִּשְׁבִיל הַתּוֹרָה שֶׁנִּקְרֵאת לֶקַח, כְּמַה דְּאַתְּ אָמַר (דברים לב) יַעֲרֹף כַּמָּטָר לִקְחִי
"...was created only for the sake of the Torah, which is called lekach [a teaching], as you say (Devarim, Deuteronomy, 32): 'Let my teaching drop like the rain.'"
Bartenura on Avot 3:14Open the source

Rabbeinu Yonah gives a picture: a craftsman has the tool of his craft, and with it he does all his work. So the Torah is the instrument of the Holy One, blessed be He, and with it the whole world was created.

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Shabbat, December 19 · Avot 3:15

All Is Foreseen, and the Choice Is Given

Rabbi Akiva: all is foreseen, and permission is given. And the world is judged with goodness. And all is according to the abundance of deeds.

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One person gives a thousand gold coins to one deserving person, all at once. Another gives a thousand gold coins one at a time, a thousand times. Which of the two has become the more generous person?

Today's teaching

All is foreseen: everything a person does, even in the innermost rooms, is revealed before Him. And permission is given (the freedom to choose): it is in a person's hand to do good and evil. So Bartenura, a classic commentator on the Mishnah (the Sages' collection of teachings), explains. The Rambam (Rabbi Moshe ben Maimon, 12th century): do not think that because He knows the deeds, a person is forced in what he does. How both can be true is a great question. The Rambam writes that His knowledge is not like ours, so we cannot grasp how. Others answer in other ways. The world is judged with goodness: with kindness, the Rambam writes, and not by the law that people deserve. And all is according to the abundance of deeds: in his reading, the number of deeds, and not the greatness of one deed.

Read the mishnahPirkei Avot 3:15 in Hebrew, with our English
הַכֹּל צָפוּי, וְהָרְשׁוּת נְתוּנָה, וּבְטוֹב הָעוֹלָם נִדּוֹן. וְהַכֹּל לְפִי רֹב הַמַּעֲשֶׂה
"All is foreseen, and permission is given. And the world is judged with goodness. And all is according to the abundance of deeds."
Pirkei Avot 3:15Open the source
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Tell the story of the two givers

Once, you drove four hours through rain to help a friend move a piano. You have told it at three Shabbat tables, and you tell it well. You also clear the soup bowls at this table most weeks. Nobody, including you, has ever told that one.

The Rambam tells of two givers. One gives a thousand gold coins at once, to one deserving person. The other gives a thousand gold coins in a thousand gifts, one coin each time, each given generously. The first, he writes, was greatly stirred, one time, to do good, and then it stopped. The second repeated the act of giving a thousand times, and generosity became firmly his. So he reads the end of the mishnah (teaching): all is according to the number of deeds.

In our words: the coins belong to the Rambam's example, and this card does not weigh a piano against a soup bowl. Both were good. The Rambam's point is about the giver: a virtue becomes firmly a person's own, he writes, by doing the good deed many times.

This Shabbat

At the table, tell the Rambam's two givers, and ask which became the more generous person. Then each person names one small good thing that can be done many times.

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Whose saying

This mishnah does not open with a name. The Rambam writes that the saying holds very great things, and is fit to be Rabbi Akiva's. Tosafot Yom Tov (Rabbi Yom Tov Lipmann Heller, a 17th-century commentator on the Mishnah) explains why it does not open "he used to say": it continues the saying of the mishnah before it.

Foreseen, and free

Bartenura (Rabbi Ovadiah of Bartenura, the classic 15th-century commentator on the Mishnah, the Sages' collection of teachings), on "all is foreseen":

כָּל מַה שֶּׁאָדָם עוֹשֶׂה בְּחַדְרֵי חֲדָרִים גָּלוּי לְפָנָיו
"Everything a person does in the innermost rooms is revealed before Him."
Bartenura on Avot 3:15Open the source

On "permission is given" Bartenura brings a verse: "See, I have set before you today life and good, and death and evil" (Devarim, Deuteronomy, 30:15).

לא תחשוב שבהיותו יודע המעשים יתחייב ההכרח כלומר שיהיה האדם מוכרח במעשיו על מעשה מן המעשים אין הענין כן אבל הרשות ביד האדם במה שיעשה והוא אמרו הרשות נתונה
"Do not think that, since He knows the deeds, it follows that he is forced: that is, that a person is forced in his deeds to one deed or another. It is not so. Rather, the permission is in a person's hand in what he does, and this is what it says: permission is given."
Rambam on Avot 3:15Open the source

How can both be so? Tosafot Yom Tov sets out what the Rambam writes, from the Rambam's introduction to this tractate (known as the "Eight Chapters"), from his code of law (Mishneh Torah, Hilchot Teshuvah, the Laws of Repentance, 5:5) and from his Guide for the Perplexed (his book of philosophy; 3:20). The Holy One and His knowledge are one, not two things as a person and his knowledge are. So His knowledge is not like our knowledge. We use the one word, "knowing," for both, but the word is the same and the two are not alike. As a person has no power to grasp the truth of the Creator, so he has no power to grasp the Creator's knowledge, "for My thoughts are not your thoughts" (the prophet Yeshayahu, Isaiah, 55:8). What we do know without doubt, the Rambam writes in his code, is that a person's deeds are in the person's hand.

Tosafot Yom Tov brings that the Raavad (Rabbi Avraham ben David of Posquieres, 12th century), in his notes on the Rambam's code, objects: "This author did not act in the way of the sages. A person does not begin a matter he does not know how to finish. He began with questions, left the matter as a question, and fell back on faith. It would have been better for him to leave the matter to the simple faith of the simple, and not stir their hearts and leave their minds in doubt, and perhaps, for a moment, a doubt will enter their hearts about this." The Raavad then adds: "Though there is no winning answer to this, it is good to attach some answer." His knowledge, he writes, is not a decree. He ends: "and all this is not worth much." Tosafot Yom Tov defends the Rambam: he did act in the way of the sages. The mishnah itself does the same, he writes: by saying "all is foreseen" and "permission is given" side by side, it raises the question and gives no answer.

He also brings Midrash Shmuel (a commentary on Pirkei Avot by Rabbi Shmuel de Uzeda, 16th century), who writes that there was no question to begin with: His knowing is like the seeing of one who watches a deed being done, and watching a deed does not force it; before Him there is no earlier and later. Midrash Shmuel adds, in the name of Rabbi Moshe Almosnino (16th century), that this is what the Rambam himself meant: His knowledge is always in the present. Tosafot Yom Tov notes that Midrash Shmuel's comparison, to one who watches a deed, is where the Raavad's own words end up, though the Raavad closes by saying that all this is not worth much. Rabbeinu Yonah (Rabbi Yonah of Gerona, 13th century) writes in the Rambam's name that the matter is "of the wonders." This page does not settle it.

Judged with goodness

Bartenura: with the measure of mercy. The Rambam: the Holy One's judgment of people is in kindness and goodness, not according to the law they deserve, as He described His own ways, "slow to anger and abundant in kindness" (Shemot, Exodus, 34:6), and as it is said, "The Lord is good to all" (Tehillim, Psalms, 145:9).

The abundance of deeds

Bartenura gives two readings before the Rambam's. One: not all are equal in this mercy. One who does many good deeds is given much mercy, and one who does few is given less. The other: a person is judged by the greater part of his deeds, innocent if most are merits, and guilty if most are sins. Then he brings the Rambam's reading. In the Rambam's own words:

שהמעלות לא יגיעו לאדם לפי רוב גודל המעשה אבל לפי רוב מספר המעשים והוא שהמעלות אמנם יגיעו בכפול המעשים הטובים פעמים רבות ועם זה יגיע קנין חזק
"The virtues do not come to a person according to the greatness of a deed, but according to the great number of deeds. That is, the virtues come only by repeating the good deeds many times, and with this a firm hold on them is gained."
Rambam on Avot 3:15Open the source

The Rambam's example of the thousand gold coins follows. And so with reward in the Torah, he writes: one who ransoms one captive for a hundred dinars (coins), or gives a hundred dinars to one poor person, is not like one who ransoms ten captives, or fills the need of ten poor people with ten dinars each. Bartenura tells the example with a hundred gold coins, and writes that the Rambam's copy of the mishnah had extra words at the end: "but not according to the deed." Rabbeinu Yonah, who lived before Bartenura, also writes that the Rambam's copy read so. Tosafot Yom Tov writes that he does not know where Bartenura had this from. The Rambam, he suggests, was only explaining the word "abundance," not quoting extra words.

Tosafot Yom Tov brings one more wording, from Midrash Shmuel in the name of Rabbi Moshe Alashkar (about 1500): "the world is judged with goodness, but not according to the greater part of the deeds." If He looked at the greater part of the deeds, the world would be lost. Know, Tosafot Yom Tov writes, that a person is still repaid according to his deeds. He brings a saying of the sage Rabbi Chanina: whoever says that the Holy One overlooks sins will lose his own life; rather, He is patient, and He collects what is His. The Gemara (the Talmud; Bava Kamma 50a) has the first half. The whole saying is in the Midrash (Bereishit Rabbah 67:4). He judges the world with goodness, Tosafot Yom Tov writes, so that it will not be lost, and collects what is His at the times known to Him.

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