The Humblest Person in the Room Wins
Moshe was the greatest leader in history and the humblest man alive. The Me'or Einayim says real humility is what makes room for Hashem.
2 minute readThe Sages say: "What should a person do to live? Put himself to death." What could that possibly mean?
In the Gemara (the Talmud), the Sages of the Negev told Alexander the Great: "What should a person do to live? Put himself to death" (Tamid 32a). The Me'or Einayim explains: by nature a person chases status and wants to look big. To let Hashem's life into you, you have to "put to death" that self-centered nature and become truly humble. Moshe said about himself and Aharon, "What are we?" In Hebrew, "what" is mah. Add the letter aleph and mah becomes me'ah, a hundred. He reads that aleph as Hashem (God), the "Master of the world," who comes to live inside a person who is humble in truth. Humility that only looks like humility, he warns, does not bring Him in.
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Real humility makes room for something bigger than you.
Every office has two kinds of humble. One says "oh, it was nothing" while making sure everyone knows it was something. The other really does not need the credit. The Me'or Einayim says what counts is humility "held in truth," not humility that only looks right "to the eye."
Why does it matter at work? A person with a big ego has no room for anything new. He cannot learn from a junior colleague, cannot hear feedback, cannot admit he was wrong. The Me'or Einayim's math is simple: mah plus the aleph is me'ah. When you make yourself smaller, you make room for Hashem, and room to grow.
This is not low self-esteem. Moshe led a nation, stood up to Pharaoh and climbed Sinai. In our words: humility is knowing where your strength comes from, and then using all of it.
Today, give someone else the credit for something you worked on together. Say it out loud, in front of other people.
Ask yourself, or your study partnerWhere do I act humble, but still really want the credit?
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So when the Torah speaks of "the life of Sarah," he reads it as the life of the body. The body gets a real life, he says, only when it learns humility. The Sages of the Negev told Alexander the Great, "What should a person do to live? Put himself to death" (Tamid 32a). The Me'or Einayim explains: put to death the nature you were born with, the pull "to chase after the vanities of the time, to make yourself big and to show off," and become low in your own eyes. Then the verse comes true: "I dwell with the lowly and humble of spirit" (Yeshayahu 57:15).
Rabbi Meir teaches that a person must say a hundred blessings every day, from the verse "what (mah) does Hashem your God ask of you" (Menachot 43b). Rashi there explains: read mah (what) as me'ah (a hundred). The Me'or Einayim quotes this reading and takes it his own way. Moshe taught the people his trait of saying "What are we?" (Shemot 16:7), and the Torah praises him as the humblest man on earth (Bamidbar 12:3). But humility has fake versions too. Only humility held in truth adds the aleph, Hashem, and turns mah into me'ah.
At this point he says the words quoted at the top of today’s dose.
The last words are from the Gemara (Sotah 5a): about an arrogant person, Hashem says, "I and he cannot live together in the world." A humble person makes his heart a home for Hashem, and then he feels Hashem close, "the King is near him and inside him."
Sources
- Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 1-3 and 12: the teaching.
- Tamid 32a: the Sages of the Negev to Alexander the Great, "What should a person do to live? Put himself to death."
- Yeshayahu 57:15: "I dwell with the lowly and humble of spirit."
- Menachot 43b: Rabbi Meir, a hundred blessings a day; Rashi there: read mah as me'ah.
- Shemot 16:7 and Bamidbar 12:3: "What are we?"; "Moshe was very humble."
- Sotah 5a: "I and he cannot live together in the world."