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Seven days with the Chernobyler Maggid

One short teaching a day from the Me'or Einayim ("Light of the Eyes"), the book of Rabbi Menachem Nachum of Chernobyl (1730 to 1797), known as the Chernobyler Maggid, the preacher of Chernobyl. His words, what he means, and how to take it to work. About two minutes. Want more? Every day has a "Go deeper" section with the full teaching and every source.

His words are in the dark boxes. Take it to work is our application of his idea.

Sunday, November 1 · Day 1 of 7

The Humblest Person in the Room Wins

Moshe was the greatest leader in history and the humblest man alive. The Me'or Einayim says real humility is what makes room for Hashem.

2 minute read
Think first

The Sages say: "What should a person do to live? Put himself to death." What could that possibly mean?

Today's teaching

In the Gemara (the Talmud), the Sages of the Negev told Alexander the Great: "What should a person do to live? Put himself to death" (Tamid 32a). The Me'or Einayim explains: by nature a person chases status and wants to look big. To let Hashem's life into you, you have to "put to death" that self-centered nature and become truly humble. Moshe said about himself and Aharon, "What are we?" In Hebrew, "what" is mah. Add the letter aleph and mah becomes me'ah, a hundred. He reads that aleph as Hashem (God), the "Master of the world," who comes to live inside a person who is humble in truth. Humility that only looks like humility, he warns, does not bring Him in.

Read it in his wordsThe Me'or Einayim in Hebrew, with our English
עד שיש כמה בני אדם אשר לפי ראות העין הן ענוותנין ולא נתקיים בהן אשכון את דכא אך מפני שלא אחזו במדה זו על צד האמת
"There are people who look humble to the eye, yet 'I dwell with the lowly' is not fulfilled in them, because they did not hold on to this trait in truth."
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 2Open the source
Take it to work

Real humility makes room for something bigger than you.

Every office has two kinds of humble. One says "oh, it was nothing" while making sure everyone knows it was something. The other really does not need the credit. The Me'or Einayim says what counts is humility "held in truth," not humility that only looks right "to the eye."

Why does it matter at work? A person with a big ego has no room for anything new. He cannot learn from a junior colleague, cannot hear feedback, cannot admit he was wrong. The Me'or Einayim's math is simple: mah plus the aleph is me'ah. When you make yourself smaller, you make room for Hashem, and room to grow.

This is not low self-esteem. Moshe led a nation, stood up to Pharaoh and climbed Sinai. In our words: humility is knowing where your strength comes from, and then using all of it.

Today's move

Today, give someone else the credit for something you worked on together. Say it out loud, in front of other people.

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Ask yourself, or your study partnerWhere do I act humble, but still really want the credit?

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The verses

וַיִּהְיוּ חַיֵּי שָׂרָה מֵאָה שָׁנָה וְעֶשְׂרִים שָׁנָה וְשֶׁבַע שָׁנִים שְׁנֵי חַיֵּי שָׂרָה
"The life of Sarah was a hundred years and twenty years and seven years: the years of Sarah's life."
Bereishit 23:1Open the source
וְעַתָּה יִשְׂרָאֵל מָה ה׳ אֱלֹקֶיךָ שֹׁאֵל מֵעִמָּךְ כִּי אִם־לְיִרְאָה אֶת־ה׳ אֱלֹקֶיךָ
"And now, Israel, what does Hashem your God ask of you? Only to fear Hashem your God."
Devarim 10:12Open the source

The full teaching

נודע ממדרש הנעלם שהגוף נקרא שרה לשון שררה שמטבע החומר להשתרר על זולתו ואברהם נקרא הנשמה
"It is known from the Midrash HaNe'elam [a part of the Zohar, the main book of Kabbalah] that the body is called Sarah, from serarah, ruling, because the nature of the physical is to want to rule over others. Avraham is the name of the soul."
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 1Open the source

So when the Torah speaks of "the life of Sarah," he reads it as the life of the body. The body gets a real life, he says, only when it learns humility. The Sages of the Negev told Alexander the Great, "What should a person do to live? Put himself to death" (Tamid 32a). The Me'or Einayim explains: put to death the nature you were born with, the pull "to chase after the vanities of the time, to make yourself big and to show off," and become low in your own eyes. Then the verse comes true: "I dwell with the lowly and humble of spirit" (Yeshayahu 57:15).

Rabbi Meir teaches that a person must say a hundred blessings every day, from the verse "what (mah) does Hashem your God ask of you" (Menachot 43b). Rashi there explains: read mah (what) as me'ah (a hundred). The Me'or Einayim quotes this reading and takes it his own way. Moshe taught the people his trait of saying "What are we?" (Shemot 16:7), and the Torah praises him as the humblest man on earth (Bamidbar 12:3). But humility has fake versions too. Only humility held in truth adds the aleph, Hashem, and turns mah into me'ah.

At this point he says the words quoted at the top of today’s dose.

מה שאין כן כשאין לו ענוה אין לו יראה כי ענוה מביא לידי יראה ואז אין אני והוא יכולין לדור
"But when a person has no humility, he has no awe of Hashem, because humility brings a person to awe. Then 'I and he cannot live together.'"
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 12Open the source

The last words are from the Gemara (Sotah 5a): about an arrogant person, Hashem says, "I and he cannot live together in the world." A humble person makes his heart a home for Hashem, and then he feels Hashem close, "the King is near him and inside him."

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Monday, November 2 · Day 2 of 7

Your Past Is Not a Write-Off

Regret the years you wasted? The Me'or Einayim reads Sarah's age as a sign that those years can still be redeemed.

2 minute read
Think first

The Torah splits Sarah's age into a hundred, twenty and seven years, and Rashi (the classic commentator on the Torah) says all of her years were equally good. How can a person's younger years count as good?

Today's teaching

The Torah counts Sarah's life in an unusual way: "a hundred years and twenty years and seven years." Rashi (the classic commentator on the Torah) says all of her years were "equal in goodness." The Me'or Einayim reads it about every person. Until twenty, he says, a person has not yet reached full understanding. But once you begin to serve Hashem (God) in truth, with real humility, you raise up your earlier years too, even your childhood. Then you "mourn for Sarah": you honestly regret what you did before, and that regret lifts those years.

Read it in his wordsThe Me'or Einayim in Hebrew, with our English
ואחר כך כשמתחיל לעבוד את השם יתברך באמת מעלה גם כן את ימי הנערות
"Afterward, when he begins to serve Hashem in truth, he raises up the days of his youth as well."
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 3Open the source
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The years you regret can still become part of your story's success.

Many people in their twenties carry a quiet list: the semester they wasted, the job they left badly, the friend they hurt. It is easy to write those years off. The Me'or Einayim says they are not lost. Once you begin to serve Hashem in truth, with real humility, the earlier years get raised up too.

He also names a step: honest regret for what you did before. In our words: not shame that freezes you, but the kind that says "that was me, and I am not that anymore." That is how the lessons of those years turn into fuel.

Notice what he does not say. He does not say "forget the past" or "it doesn't matter." He says it matters so much that you must fix it, and that you can. Your story is not finished.

Today's move

Pick one thing from your past you are not proud of. Write one sentence about what it taught you. If it hurt someone, take one step today to make it right.

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Ask yourself, or your study partnerWhich chapter of my past have I written off? What would it take to redeem it?

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The verses

וַיִּהְיוּ חַיֵּי שָׂרָה מֵאָה שָׁנָה וְעֶשְׂרִים שָׁנָה וְשֶׁבַע שָׁנִים שְׁנֵי חַיֵּי שָׂרָה. וַתָּמָת שָׂרָה בְּקִרְיַת אַרְבַּע הִוא חֶבְרוֹן בְּאֶרֶץ כְּנָעַן וַיָּבֹא אַבְרָהָם לִסְפֹּד לְשָׂרָה וְלִבְכֹּתָהּ
"The life of Sarah was a hundred years and twenty years and seven years: the years of Sarah's life. Sarah died in Kiryat Arba, which is Chevron, in the land of Canaan, and Avraham came to eulogize Sarah and to weep for her."
Bereishit 23:1-2Open the source

The full teaching

At this point he says the words quoted at the top of today’s dose.

He builds on the day before. A person who reaches the level of me'ah, true humility, gives his body real life. Then he reads Sarah's ages. Rashi says Sarah at a hundred was as free of sin as she was at twenty, "because at twenty a person is not yet punished," and all her years were "equal in goodness." The Me'or Einayim explains why a person under twenty is not punished by Heaven: a person does not reach full understanding until twenty. When he then begins to serve Hashem in truth, he raises up his years as a young man, and even his years as a small child.

שמח בחור בילדותך וגו׳ ודע פירוש כשתבוא לכלל דעת צריך לתקן הכל כי על כל אלה יביאך האלקים במשפט
"'Rejoice, young man, in your youth...and know' (Kohelet 11:9): this means, when you come to full understanding, you need to fix everything, 'for over all of these, God will bring you to judgment.'"
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 4Open the source

Then he reads the next verse as the steps. "Sarah died" means the self-centered nature dies. "In Kiryat Arba," the "town of four," he reads as Hashem's four-letter name, and "Chevron" as chibur, joining: the letters of Hashem's Name, which were, as it were, separated, are joined together. "Avraham came," the soul grows strong and starts leading.

לספוד לשרה ולבכותה כי אחר כך כשבא לכלל דעת מתאבל ומתחרט על מעשיו הראשונים
"'To eulogize Sarah and to weep for her': later, when he comes to full understanding, he mourns and regrets his earlier deeds."
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 5Open the source

Through that regret, he says, a person raises up even his first years, "and then it is good for him in this world and the next."

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Tuesday, November 3 · Day 3 of 7

Every Word Is a Leadership Decision

Avraham got one extra letter in his name. The Me'or Einayim says it was the gift of speech, and that speech is how you lead.

2 minute read
Think first

Hashem (God) added one letter, a hei, to Avram's name. Why would one letter change his future?

Today's teaching

When Hashem (God) changed Avram's name to Avraham, He added the letter hei, whose number is five. The Me'or Einayim says the hei stands for the five places in the mouth that form speech. In Hebrew, he says, dibbur, speech, is also a word for leading. Hashem created the world with the letters of the Torah, and He set those letters in every Jew's mouth. A person whose speech is clean and holy draws abundance and life to himself and to all the worlds (the spiritual levels of creation). And as Avraham rose from level to level, he says, his humility only grew.

Read it in his wordsThe Me'or Einayim in Hebrew, with our English
וזהו סוד הדבור שנמסר לישראל שהוא עשרים ושתים אותיות התורה שנקבעו בפי כל אחד מישראל ודבור הוא לשון הנהגה
"This is the secret of the speech given to Israel: the twenty-two letters of the Torah, set into the mouth of every Jew. And dibbur, speech, is a word for leading."
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 18Open the source
Take it to work

The way you speak is the way you lead.

You lead with words long before you have a title: the email that sets the tone, the comment in a meeting, the way you explain a decision. The Me'or Einayim says that in Hebrew, dibbur, speech, is also a word for leading. In our words: every message you send is a small act of leadership.

He also says that clean, holy speech draws abundance and life to you and to all the worlds. In our words: at work that means words that are honest, that build people up, and that you would be proud to see forwarded.

And notice what came with the gift. Avraham received it, he says, because he served Hashem with love, and the higher he rose, the more humble he became. In our words: the more people listen to you, the more careful your words should be.

Today's move

Before you send your next important message today, reread it once and ask: is it true, is it kind, and does it move things forward?

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Ask yourself, or your study partnerIf my team heard only my words this week, what kind of leader would they say I am?

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The verse

וְלֹא־יִקָּרֵא עוֹד אֶת־שִׁמְךָ אַבְרָם וְהָיָה שִׁמְךָ אַבְרָהָם כִּי אַב־הֲמוֹן גּוֹיִם נְתַתִּיךָ
"Your name will no longer be called Avram; your name will be Avraham, for I have made you the father of a multitude of nations."
Bereishit 17:5Open the source

The full teaching

He opens with a question in the Gemara (the Talmud, Bava Batra 16b) on the words "Hashem blessed Avraham with everything": did Avraham have a daughter or not? To answer it, he first explains the name change. Rashi (the classic commentator on the Torah, on Bereishit 15:5) brings the Sages' teaching: "Avram has no son, but Avraham has a son." Why would one letter change that? The Me'or Einayim explains that Hashem created every world (each spiritual level of creation) through the letters of the Torah, step by step, from aleph down to tav (the first and last letters of the Hebrew alphabet). The work of joining all of those levels back to the aleph, Hashem, the "Master of the world," was handed to Israel, and through it they bring life and blessing down to everything.

At this point he says the words quoted at the top of today’s dose.

ומי שזוכה לדבור הקדוש שיהא דבורו זך וקדוש יכול להמשיך שפע וחיות לו ולכל העולמות
"Whoever merits holy speech, so that his speech is clean and holy, can draw abundance and life to himself and to all the worlds."
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 18Open the source

Avraham served Hashem with love, until Hashem called him "Avraham, who loves Me" (Yeshayahu 41:8). So Hashem gave him the leading of all the worlds:

ומסר לו הדבור שהוא ה׳ מוצאות הפה
"And He gave him speech, which is the five places in the mouth where speech is formed."
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 18Open the source

That is the added hei, whose number is five, and that is why "Avram has no son, but Avraham has a son": with the power of speech Avraham could draw down toladot, children, for himself. Then he adds a warning. The Gemara (Berachot 55a) lists iyun tefillah among three things that bring a person's sins to mind before Heaven. Literally it means "dwelling on one's prayer"; Rashi there explains it as expecting your request to be granted because you prayed so well. The Me'or Einayim reads it as a person imagining he has reached some high level. Avraham did the opposite:

כל עוד שהולך ממדריגה למדריגה היה מתחזק אצלו מדת ענוה
"The more he went from level to level, the stronger his humility became."
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 18Open the source

Like Moshe, the humblest of all people (Bamidbar 12:3), and like Avraham himself, who said, "I am dust and ashes" (Bereishit 18:27).

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Wednesday, November 4 · Day 4 of 7

Nobody Gets Out Alone

Rabbi Yochanan could lift a sick friend just by giving him his hand. When he got sick himself, he needed someone else's.

2 minute read
Think first

Rabbi Yochanan could heal a sick friend just by giving him his hand. So why, when he fell sick himself, couldn't he heal himself?

Today's teaching

The Gemara (the Talmud, Berachot 5b) tells how Rabbi Yochanan visited a sick friend, said "give me your hand," and lifted him up. When Rabbi Yochanan himself fell ill, another sage did the same for him. Why couldn't he lift himself? "A prisoner cannot free himself from prison." The Me'or Einayim says this kind of lifting comes through someone else, a tzaddik (a truly righteous person) closely connected to Hashem (God). And in the same paragraph he says the prayer of the person who needs it is the most accepted of all.

Read it in his wordsThe Me'or Einayim in Hebrew, with our English
והעיקר היא תפלת הנצרך הוא מקובל ביותר כמו שאמרו רז״ל שיותר מקובלת תפלת החולה מתפלת אחרים עליו
"The main thing is the prayer of the one in need. It is the most accepted, as the Sages said: the prayer of a sick person is accepted more than the prayers of others for him."
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 13Open the source
Take it to work

Pray for yourself, and let other people help you up.

Ambitious people hate asking for help. We want to fix it ourselves, quietly, before anyone notices. The Gemara's line is blunt: "a prisoner cannot free himself from prison." Even Rabbi Yochanan, who lifted others, needed someone else's hand.

So find your helping hand: a mentor, a rav (rabbi), a friend who is a step ahead. Tell them where you are stuck. In our words: asking is not weakness. It is how people get out.

But don't hand everything off. The Me'or Einayim says your own prayer, from the one who actually needs it, is the most accepted of all. Do both: ask Hashem yourself, and take the hand that is offered.

Today's move

Send one message today to someone you trust: "Can I get your advice on something I'm stuck on?"

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Ask yourself, or your study partnerWho could I ask for a hand, and what is stopping me?

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The full teaching

This paragraph is one of his longer ones. He begins with the idea that the Torah is the "craftsman" Hashem used to make the world, and a story in the Gemara (Taanit 20a-b). Rabbi Elazar son of Rabbi Shimon met a very ugly man and said, "How ugly you are!" The man answered, "Go and tell the craftsman who made me." The Me'or Einayim says the man was a great sinner, and reads his answer as a lesson:

כי אין מהראוי לפרסם את הרשעים אבל לך אל האומן
"It is not right to make the wicked public. Rather, go to the Craftsman."
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 13Open the source

That is, go to the Torah, the craftsman, so it can bring the person back in teshuvah (returning to Hashem). (In the Gemara itself, it is Rabbi Elazar who realizes he sinned by insulting the man and asks his forgiveness; the Me'or Einayim draws his own lesson from the man's words.) Then he states the main rule: "There is nothing besides Him." Whoever truly believes this will not need any other help, "and everything will be fixed by itself."

At this point he says the words quoted at the top of today’s dose.

This comes from the Midrash (the Sages' teachings on the Torah, Bereishit Rabbah 53:14) on Yishmael in the desert, which Rashi brings on Bereishit 21:17: "the prayer of a sick person for himself is better than anyone else's." Then he takes up the Gemara in Berachot 5b. When a sick sage was told "give me your hand" and lifted up, why couldn't the healer heal himself? "A prisoner cannot free himself from prison." The Me'or Einayim finds a holy name of Hashem hidden in the first letters of "give me your hand," and says this kind of instant lifting cannot happen by oneself:

כי דבר זה לעשות הפעולה ברגע על ידי שם הקדוש הזה אי אפשר כי אם על ידי אחרים
"To do this in a moment, through this holy name, is impossible except through others."
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 13Open the source

It happens, he says, through a tzaddik who is bound to Hashem. Through that bond the tzaddik reaches a place of pure mercy, with no judgment at all, and softens the judgment from there.

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Thursday, November 5 · Day 5 of 7

Nothing Moves Until Someone Asks

In the first days of creation, the plants were ready, but nothing grew. The rain was waiting for someone to ask.

2 minute read
Think first

In the story of creation, the plants were ready but did not grow until Adam came. What were they waiting for?

Today's teaching

Rashi (the classic commentator on the Torah) says the plants did not come up until Adam saw that the world needed rain and prayed for it. The Me'or Einayim calls this the "awakening from below": Hashem's kindness shows up in the world in response to what we do. Before Avraham, he says, the world was chaos, because nobody awakened it. Avraham walked in Hashem's ways and did kindness for everyone. He even taught his guests to thank Hashem (God) for their meal: "Do you think you ate from mine? You ate from the One who spoke and the world came to be."

Read it in his wordsThe Me'or Einayim in Hebrew, with our English
כי אי אפשר בלא אתערותא דלתתא רק כשאנחנו הולכים בדרכיו מה הוא רחום וכו׳ אנו מביאים ומעוררים תשוקה בו יתברך שינהיג העולם על ידי מדותיו יתברך רחום וחנון וכו׳
"It is impossible without an awakening from below. Only when we walk in His ways (as He is merciful [so you be merciful]) do we bring about and awaken a longing in Him to lead the world through His qualities: merciful, gracious, and the rest."
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 14Open the source
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Hashem's help often waits for your first step.

A lot of people are waiting: for the right job to show up, for the boss to notice them, for the timing to be perfect. The Me'or Einayim describes a world that also waited, with everything ready and nothing growing, until someone asked.

His idea is the "awakening from below": walk in Hashem's ways, act with mercy and kindness, pray, and you awaken His kindness from above. In our words: the same goes for the first step at work. Avraham did not wait for the world to change. He opened his tent.

And when it works, say whose it was. Avraham's guests thought they were eating Avraham's food; he taught them to thank Hashem. When the deal closes or the launch goes well, take a moment to thank the One who made it happen.

Today's move

Take the first step on one thing you have been waiting on: send the application, make the ask, book the meeting. When it's done, say a short thank-you to Hashem.

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The verses

וְכֹל שִׂיחַ הַשָּׂדֶה טֶרֶם יִהְיֶה בָאָרֶץ וְכָל־עֵשֶׂב הַשָּׂדֶה טֶרֶם יִצְמָח כִּי לֹא הִמְטִיר ה׳ אֱלֹקִים עַל־הָאָרֶץ וְאָדָם אַיִן לַעֲבֹד אֶת־הָאֲדָמָה
"No shrub of the field was yet on the earth, and no plant of the field had yet sprouted, because Hashem God had not sent rain on the earth, and there was no man to work the ground."
Bereishit 2:5Open the source
וְאַבְרָהָם זָקֵן בָּא בַּיָּמִים וַה׳ בֵּרַךְ אֶת־אַבְרָהָם בַּכֹּל
"Avraham was old, advanced in days, and Hashem blessed Avraham with everything."
Bereishit 24:1Open the source

The full teaching

He starts from the Gemara (the Talmud, Sanhedrin 107b): until Avraham there was no old age, and people could not tell Avraham from Yitzchak. Avraham asked for mercy, and old age came. The Me'or Einayim explains: the world was created so that Hashem's qualities (merciful, gracious, slow to anger, abounding in kindness) could be revealed. But that needs a partner below. He brings Rashi on the rain:

וכשבא אדם וידע שהם צורך לעולם התפלל עליהם וירדו
"When Adam came and knew that the world needed them, he prayed for them, and they fell."
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 14Open the source

At this point he says the words quoted at the top of today’s dose.

So before Avraham, he says, the world was chaos: the generation of the Flood, the generation of the Tower, the people of Sedom. Nobody was awakening Hashem's kindness, and so it was not revealed.

כשבא אברהם אבינו ע״ה והלך בדרכיו יתברך וגמל חסד עם כל באי עולם כנודע אז היה אתערותא דלתתא
"When Avraham Avinu [our father Avraham] came and walked in His ways and did kindness with everyone in the world, then there was an awakening from below."
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 14Open the source

The first of the qualities, he says, is recognizing that everything is Hashem's doing, and that is what Avraham taught:

ברכו למי שאכלתם משלו סבורים אתם משלי אכלתם משל מי שאמר והיה העולם אכלתם
"Bless the One whose food you ate. Do you think you ate from mine? You ate from the One who spoke and the world came to be."
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 14Open the source

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Friday, November 6 · Day 6 of 7

The 10% Rule

Avraham was blessed "with everything." The Midrash asks: in what merit? The answer is a habit anyone can start.

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Think first

Avraham was blessed "with everything." The Midrash (the Sages' teachings on the Torah) asks: in what merit? What would you guess?

Today's teaching

The Midrash (the Sages' teachings on the Torah, here the Tanchuma) says Avraham was blessed "with everything" because he gave a tenth of everything he had. The Me'or Einayim ties it to the verse where Hashem (God) says about the tithe, "test Me" (Malachi 3:10), and explains why it works. Blessing flows down through channels, and a person's wrongdoing blocks them. Giving tzedakah (charity) clears them, because Hashem deals with us "measure for measure": when we act with mercy down here, mercy is awakened above.

Read it in his wordsThe Me'or Einayim in Hebrew, with our English
כי נודע שבמדה שאדם מודד מודדין לו כי כמו שמתנהג למטה באיזה מדה כך נתעורר למעלה
"It is known that by the measure a person measures, he is measured. However he conducts himself below, that same quality is awakened above."
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 16Open the source
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He teaches that generosity opens the channels for blessing.

Most financial advice says: pay yourself first. Jewish tradition adds another line to the budget: ma'aser, giving a tenth of what you earn to tzedakah. Many people start with their very first paycheck. (How to calculate it, and from what, is a good question for your rav, your rabbi.)

The Me'or Einayim's reason is not a magic trick. Hashem treats us the way we treat others: act with mercy, and mercy is awakened toward you. It is a person's wrongdoing, he says, that blocks the channels, and giving is what clears them.

The Gemara (the Talmud) even reads the words "you shall surely tithe" as "give a tenth so that you will become rich," and says this is the one place where we may test Hashem (Taanit 9a). The Rema (Rabbi Moshe Isserles, whose notes on the Shulchan Aruch, the code of Jewish law, give the Ashkenazi practice) applies this to tzedakah, and brings an opinion that limits it to ma'aser itself (Yoreh De'ah 247:4). Either way, it is not a guarantee to bank on. In our words, the bigger payoff is who you become: someone who gives.

Today's move

Before Shabbat today, give tzedakah. If you already give ma'aser, check that you are up to date. If you don't yet, pick a number and start.

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Ask yourself, or your study partnerIf someone looked only at where my money went this month, what would they say I care about?

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The verses

וְאַבְרָהָם זָקֵן בָּא בַּיָּמִים וַה׳ בֵּרַךְ אֶת־אַבְרָהָם בַּכֹּל
"Avraham was old, advanced in days, and Hashem blessed Avraham with everything."
Bereishit 24:1Open the source
הָבִיאוּ אֶת־כָּל־הַמַּעֲשֵׂר אֶל־בֵּית הָאוֹצָר וִיהִי טֶרֶף בְּבֵיתִי וּבְחָנוּנִי נָא בָּזֹאת אָמַר ה׳ צְבָאוֹת אִם־לֹא אֶפְתַּח לָכֶם אֵת אֲרֻבּוֹת הַשָּׁמַיִם וַהֲרִיקֹתִי לָכֶם בְּרָכָה עַד־בְּלִי־דָי
"Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, and let there be food in My house, and test Me with this, says Hashem of hosts: see if I do not open the windows of heaven for you and pour down for you blessing without end."
Malachi 3:10Open the source

The full teaching

וה׳ ברך את אברהם בכל ואיתא במדרש בזכות מאי ומשני בזכות מעשר
"'Hashem blessed Avraham with everything.' The Midrash asks: in what merit? And answers: in the merit of the tithe."
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 15Open the source

The Midrash points to Avraham giving "a tenth of everything" to Malki-tzedek, the king of Shalem and a priest of God (Bereishit 14:20). The Me'or Einayim explains: there are channels through which Hashem's abundance flows down to a person. When a person goes wrong, he moves himself into a place of judgment, and the judgments stand in the way and block the channels. Giving a tenth softens those judgments until they agree to the blessing.

At this point he says the words quoted at the top of today’s dose.

ועל כן על ידי מעשר שהיא הצדקה נעשה גם כן רחמנות למעלה
"So through the tithe, which is tzedakah, mercy is made above as well."
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 16Open the source
וכן בכל המדות צריך אדם לקרב את עצמו אל הטוב ולדמות ליוצרו
"And so with every quality: a person needs to bring himself close to the good and to be like his Maker."
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 16Open the source

He reads "Hashem blessed Avraham" as Hashem together with His court: even the side of judgment agreed to bless him, because his giving had softened it.

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Shabbat, November 7 · Day 7 of 7

Character Before Credentials

At Sinai, the Jewish people said "we will do" before "we will hear." The Me'or Einayim says that is the secret of real wisdom.

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Think first

At Sinai, the Jewish people said "we will do" before "we will hear." How can you do something before you hear what it is?

Today's teaching

In the Gemara (the Talmud), Rabbi Yose HaGelili teaches that a zaken, an elder, is "one who has acquired wisdom" (Kiddushin 32b). The Me'or Einayim explains how wisdom is acquired. First you work on your character in action: being merciful, patient and kind, like the thirteen attributes of mercy of Hashem (God). Then wisdom from above comes to you, even understanding of Torah you never learned from a book. That, he says, is why the Jewish people said na'aseh, "we will do," before nishma, "we will hear": first the doing, and then hearing, understanding from above.

Read it in his wordsThe Me'or Einayim in Hebrew, with our English
שאי אפשר לקנות החכמה העליונה שהוא התורה כי אם שיקנה מקודם בעצמו הי״ג מדות שהתורה נדרשת בהן
"It is impossible to acquire the higher wisdom, which is the Torah, unless a person first acquires in himself the thirteen middot through which the Torah is expounded." (Middot means both "rules" and "qualities.")
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 23Open the source
Take it to the Shabbat table

Who you are matters more than what you know.

We collect credentials: degrees, certificates, titles on LinkedIn. The Me'or Einayim describes a different order. First you build character in real actions, being patient, merciful and kind the way Hashem is. Then the wisdom comes.

He even says a person who fixes his character will understand things in Torah he never learned from a book. In our words: we see a small version of this at work. The people we most want to learn from are usually the ones whose character we trust.

In our words, that is na'aseh v'nishma at the Shabbat table: do the good first, and the understanding follows. Not the other way around.

This Shabbat

Pick one of Hashem's qualities, like patience or kindness, and practice it on purpose at the table this Shabbat.

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Ask yourself, or your study partnerWhich of my traits needs work before my knowledge can really help anyone?

Look back at your week

Which move actually stuck?

Pick the one you will keep doing. Moves you marked "I did it" have a check.

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The verses

וַיִּקַּח סֵפֶר הַבְּרִית וַיִּקְרָא בְּאָזְנֵי הָעָם וַיֹּאמְרוּ כֹּל אֲשֶׁר־דִּבֶּר ה׳ נַעֲשֶׂה וְנִשְׁמָע
"He took the Book of the Covenant and read it to the people, and they said: Everything Hashem has spoken, we will do and we will hear."
Shemot 24:7Open the source
וְאַבְרָהָם זָקֵן בָּא בַּיָּמִים וַה׳ בֵּרַךְ אֶת־אַבְרָהָם בַּכֹּל
"Avraham was old, advanced in days, and Hashem blessed Avraham with everything."
Bereishit 24:1Open the source

The full teaching

The Midrash (the Sages' teachings on the Torah; see Tanchuma, Chayei Sara 3) on "Avraham was old" quotes the verse "Hashem my God, You are very great; You have clothed Yourself in glory and splendor" (Tehillim 104:1). In the form the Me'or Einayim quotes, Hashem was "clothed in splendor" at Sinai, when Israel said "we will do and we will hear." He explains with Hashem's thirteen attributes of mercy (Shemot 34:6-7). The Kabbalah (Jewish mysticism) calls them the "thirteen parts of the beard" above, Hashem's glory, just as a beard is the glory of a face. This is only a picture: he stresses that the comparison is infinitely removed, and earlier in the chapter (paragraph 6) that Hashem has no form at all. He links the attributes to the thirteen rules by which the Torah is expounded.

These qualities were placed inside each of us, mixed with bad. Our work is to bring the good side of them into action, as the Sages say: "As He is gracious and merciful, so you be gracious and merciful" (Shabbat 133b). The Gemara (the Talmud) says that whenever Israel sins, "let them do before Me this order" of the thirteen attributes (Rosh Hashanah 17b). He stresses the word "do": not only say them, but live them.

At this point he says the words quoted at the top of today’s dose.

נעשה המדות במעשה מקודם להטותן להטוב שבהן ולהכניע הרע המעורב בנו ואחר כך נשמע מהשכל והחכמה עליונה
"'We will do': the qualities in action first, turning them toward their good side and pushing down the bad mixed into us. And afterward, 'we will hear' from the higher mind and wisdom."
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 23Open the source

That is why, the Gemara says, a heavenly voice called out at Sinai: "Who revealed to My children this secret that the angels use?" (Shabbat 88a). The angels too "do His word" first, then "hear the voice of His word" (Tehillim 103:20). He reads "we will hear" as receiving understanding from above. And that, he says, is the real meaning of zaken, "one who acquired wisdom": Avraham was "old, advanced in days," the days being the high qualities he had brought into his life.

שידע ויבין וישכיל בתורה אף מה שלא למד מתוך הכתוב בספרים
"That he will know, understand and grasp in Torah even what he did not learn from what is written in books."
Me'or Einayim, Chayei Sara 27Open the source

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